My ex boyfriend ughh vent!

tashaa1992

My ex is a big fat jerk! I'm angry and upset I don't even know ughh he said if I didn't look like I do he wouldn't have ever been with me, he cheated on me though so what does that say! I'm angry he said that, he should've wanted to be with me regardless I mean no one ever stays the same do they and everyone said I could do better but I was still with him regardless of his disfigurements. I accepted him for who he was, I couldn't care less when everyone was talking about his looks, my sisters and friends were calling him ugly, his friends were asking why I was even with him his best friend said I should dump him and go out with him but I loved him for the way he looked, just everything. I'm just hurt that he could say something like that, I know attraction is important but hearing him say it made me feel sick:(
I don't look the way I did when we broke up, I've gained my weight, I have hips, a bum and boobs now and my hair's different so what suddenly he's going to stop loving me just because I look different? That's not love, not really.

Anyway sorry about the vent/feeling sorry for myself post, I just needed to get it out. Have a nice day xxx

ket_the_jet

It's a good thing you've discovered this when you were twenty. Luckily, based on the average life expectancy for females in the United Kingdom, you have three-quarters of your life ahead of you.
-wtk

Sockimobi

You don't have to be good looking to be shallow / a git.

Sorry you went through that.

tashaa1992

It's a good thing you've discovered this when you were twenty. Luckily, based on the average life expectancy for females in the United Kingdom, you have three-quarters of your life ahead of you.
-wtk

Haha that long!

tashaa1992

You don't have to be good looking to be shallow / a git.

Sorry you went through that.

Sometimes I just wish I'd never met him lol.

DeeDee2211

PinkPrincess7, you deserve so much better!!!


Good luck, stay strong and make him regret those words!

Sockimobi

You don't have to be good looking to be shallow / a git.

Sorry you went through that.

Sometimes I just wish I'd never met him lol.

I know that feeling! :flowerforyou:

weighlossforbaby

You do deserve someone better and it will happen He sounds shallow anyways.

ScottyNoHotty

He is your EX right?? Why are you wasting breath on him then?

FuneralDiner

It's better you know this now, then when you're married and he's filing for divorce because you've gained a few pounds.

odusgolp

He is your EX right?? Why are you wasting breath on him then?

I'm with this... Why are you still talking to him?

jkestens63

He is your EX right?? Why are you wasting breath on him then?

I'm with this... Why are you still talking to him?

This!!!! He's an azz and unless you are contemplating going back to him, who gives a rat's patootie what he says now. I look at every break up like this: there were a lot of good times which I will always treasure. I cannot let a bad break up destroy those memories or hold me back. There's a reason why we are not together so it just time to move on. Don't regret it or forget it, its part of life.

billsica

U wak gil. U b neesa a rl man. tink tom petty w o te hart brekerz.
sup?

odusgolp

U wak gil. U b neesa a rl man. tink tom petty w o te hart brekerz.
sup?

I love it when you talk dirty....

tashaa1992

I'm not talking to him, or at least I wasn't. I didn't realise we'd spoken till this morning when he texted asking why I'd never texted him back, obviously confused I asked what he meant and apparently we were texting last night and he told me what he said. I still don't remember speaking to him, and I don't have any texts in my phone from him but then I also know I used to delete our texts whenever we'd chat after our break up so I don't know if I did that or he's just lying.
I haven't texted him back since that, I don't want to I know it's a bit childish but as far as I'm concerned he's not my problem anymore. It's over, we're not friends, he isn't a nice person, I'm moving on with my life.

tashaa1992

U wak gil. U b neesa a rl man. tink tom petty w o te hart brekerz.
sup?

Haha urm english please?

Moniqua1

I think you're absolutely beautiful! just saying. You can't control other peoples ignorance, but you can control your health.

GoalByFifty

broken promises and break ups are terrible, especially when in love. I went through a very difficult time recently and have moved on to different things. no one person should be able to hurt another so much, and there's not a day that goes by that i wonder why. hang in there.

bleacheblonde

Wow, what a douche!! Don't waste anymore time, energy, or keystrokes over him

AllTehBeers

The best thing you can do for yourself is keep him your ex. He's not going to change no matter how much he says he is. He doesn't care, why should you? Move on and do you.

MeMyCatsandI

I'm not talking to him, or at least I wasn't. I didn't realise we'd spoken till this morning when he texted asking why I'd never texted him back, obviously confused I asked what he meant and apparently we were texting last night and he told me what he said. I still don't remember speaking to him, and I don't have any texts in my phone from him but then I also know I used to delete our texts whenever we'd chat after our break up so I don't know if I did that or he's just lying.

???? I don't understand this. Were you black out drunk? Or his he psycho? Either you texted him last night or you didn't. If you don't remember texting him, that's clearly a problem!

tashaa1992

I think you're absolutely beautiful! just saying. You can't control other peoples ignorance, but you can control your health.

Lol well I'm not but thanks anyway, and you're right, he triggered my relapses and I have made so much progress since breaking up with him, not to mention I have finally gained the weight I needed to gain so I guess maybe he held me back from recovering.

tashaa1992

broken promises and break ups are terrible, especially when in love. I went through a very difficult time recently and have moved on to different things. no one person should be able to hurt another so much, and there's not a day that goes by that i wonder why. hang in there.

I hope you're okay, stay strong xxx

tashaa1992

I'm not talking to him, or at least I wasn't. I didn't realise we'd spoken till this morning when he texted asking why I'd never texted him back, obviously confused I asked what he meant and apparently we were texting last night and he told me what he said. I still don't remember speaking to him, and I don't have any texts in my phone from him but then I also know I used to delete our texts whenever we'd chat after our break up so I don't know if I did that or he's just lying.

???? I don't understand this. Were you black out drunk? Or his he psycho? Either you texted him last night or you didn't. If you don't remember texting him, that's clearly a problem!

Lol nope I wasn't, but I have new sleeping tablets so they pretty much knock me out as soon as I take them so I can't tell if it happened or not, other than from taking his word but if he's lying, I don't know why someone would lie about that especially as he knows I'd get upset by it.

MeMyCatsandI

I'm not talking to him, or at least I wasn't. I didn't realise we'd spoken till this morning when he texted asking why I'd never texted him back, obviously confused I asked what he meant and apparently we were texting last night and he told me what he said. I still don't remember speaking to him, and I don't have any texts in my phone from him but then I also know I used to delete our texts whenever we'd chat after our break up so I don't know if I did that or he's just lying.

???? I don't understand this. Were you black out drunk? Or his he psycho? Either you texted him last night or you didn't. If you don't remember texting him, that's clearly a problem!

Lol nope I wasn't, but I have new sleeping tablets so they pretty much knock me out as soon as I take them so I can't tell if it happened or not, other than from taking his word but if he's lying, I don't know why someone would lie about that especially as he knows I'd get upset by it.

Ahhh, ok. I see. Then maybe you should make sure you phone is off and not where you can get at it once you've taken your sleeping pills? But I agree with everyone else. You don't need that kind of crap in you life. Keep him in your rearview!