Ever feel like everyone else has it together?

I am fighting this feeling. It seems like I never have it ALL together. When my weight is fine, the kids are crazy....when my weight is off, everyone is wanting to do stuff...or friends show up after years....or a mini reunion is scheduled. I know I will never have it all together...I would just like all the pieces to fit together for once....ya know? Gaining control....that is my mantra. :)