I'm a horrible person!
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Today I was at the store and this woman who was tall and thin to begin with had on 8 inch heels. With her heels on she looked like she was 6'8 and she only weighed about 100 pounds. I really felt like pushing her boney butt over and laughing because my center of gravity is lower. Part of me knows it was jealousy because she is tall and thin (which I will never be. I'm only 5'1) and a part of me knew it was because it would be hilarious to tip over a woman who looked like a praying mantis.
I know I am horrible and going straight to hell. Anyone else have moments where you think you suck as a person?
Not a horrible person at all! :-) I have this moment nearly everyday at the gym I go to, there is this skinny mini, blonde chick who is at least 5'5 (my height) and she is constantly bragging about how she only weighs 98lbs and wants to lose 5lbs and get some abs! I seriously want to put her over my knee and snap her in half!! She needs to EAT and gain some fat on those bones before she can get abs..........her stomach is disgusting looking and quite frankly she is not attractive......0 -
Human, not horrible. If you had actually done, horrible would fit. lol:flowerforyou:0
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Good grief. I can say I've never been shopping in heels. Give me my Asics any day!0
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sometimes i feel like im a lesbo because im staring at other women, mostly with envy and admiring their awesome bodies, but also becuase i hate how perfect they look. haha no worries, we are human, its a natural thing, you need to channel that hatred into the exercise you do to push you in that direction. keep im mind im still 188lbs and 5'3. even if your not a tall woman, i know ALOT of sexy shorter ladies too! keep it up girl!0
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Being on both ends of the weight scale, anorexic and obese, I have more compassion for everyone of all sizes now. When I was fat, I was, yes, jealous of thinner people. Now that I'm thinner and have this new, healthy lifestyle, I find that I'm being kinder to all people, fat, thin or whatever. We only have so long to live on this place we call Earth and I want to be known as a kind person.
However........when I go to <gasp> Walmart, I want to kill people. I hate that place. lmao0 -
Yay for you! I love your attitude!I was just saying the other day that I was going to go to hell. I ran into an old classmate from high school at the 4th of July celebration in my hometown. My school was small. I graduated with a class of 112 so everybody knew everybody. In school, she was the one who played volleyball and basketball. She was one of the popular girls. I on the other hand, was not. Mostly because of my weight. When I saw her, my first thought was to run the other way, but then I realized, we're about the same size now. She had gained weight since school. I thought "Wow, karma really exists". Then she started talking to me and telling me how wonderful I looked and that I looked better now than I did in high school and how unfair that was. I felt horrible after that. I realized, I judged her just the way I was judged in school.
This year is my 25 year high school reunion. My goal was to get below 200 lbs. That's not going to happen since the reunion is on the 20th and 21st of this month. My new goal is to show everyone how much I've changed since school and not judge anyone there.0 -
My daughter and I was at Costco today and Babie was there. She was so beautiful. It made me sick to my stomach. I want to be that thin again. Over the last 3 years I have gained 30lbs and I want to push a Big Mac into any skinny girls mouth. If not a King Size Snickers bar would make me happy.0
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Yes! That is horrible! First off, I seriously doubt someone was casually just wearing 8 inch heels. Have you actually SEEN how high an 8 inch heel is?! I believe this girl was probably wearing tall heels, but I believe you may have been a bit exaggerated on the height. Maybe she was going somewhere and had to pick up a few things along the way, regardless, youre still judging someone based on their looks when you dont even know them as a person. Nonetheless, as disturbing as it may be for you to see this, she may be just as disturbed/disgusted looking at you and the clothes or shoes you had on. You shouldn't be so judgemental! I don't get why you would want to go as far as pushing her or tripping her to watch her fall and humiliate herself or even get hurt. If that gives you some sense of satisfaction, then that's pretty sick! In my opinion, I think you're shallow person for thinking that way and you just let everyone on MFP see your true colors!0
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i'm a terrible person but i will never apologize for it.0
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Yes! That is horrible! First off, I seriously doubt someone was casually just wearing 8 inch heels. Have you actually SEEN how high an 8 inch heel is?! I believe this girl was probably wearing tall heels, but I believe you may have been a bit exaggerated on the height. Maybe she was going somewhere and had to pick up a few things along the way, regardless, youre still judging someone based on their looks when you dont even know them as a person. Nonetheless, as disturbing as it may be for you to see this, she may be just as disturbed/disgusted looking at you and the clothes or shoes you had on. You shouldn't be so judgemental! I don't get why you would want to go as far as pushing her or tripping her to watch her fall and humiliate herself or even get hurt. If that gives you some sense of satisfaction, then that's pretty sick! In my opinion, I think you're shallow person for thinking that way and you just let everyone on MFP see your true colors!
I'm just surprised that on here of all places where one's weight is such a sensitive subject, people are making fun of someone by calling them a stick insect. to me it's no better than skinny people making fun of fat people by calling them pig or hog0 -
Who in their right mind goes shopping in 8 inch heels in the first place?
^^THIS^^ LOL
And honestly, I'm "skinny myself" although I actually have muscles you can see lol. I would want to do that to her too....So we're going to Hell together :P0 -
I'm just surprised that on here of all places where one's weight is such a sensitive subject, people are making fun of someone by calling them a stick insect. to me it's no better than skinny people making fun of fat people by calling them pig or hog
I agree! It's as though it's ok to make fun of skinny people but taboo to talk about overweight/obese people. Why is it ok to call a skinny girl a preying mantis, and not ok for someone to call someone overweight/obese a hippo or a fat cow?! I wouldn't call someone names anyway, but to make fun of someone or judge them strictly on their looks is just wrong!0 -
I must be weird.
i think its ok for people to call me fat, fatty, chunky butt or hippo or whatever else. And when i was skinny the same applied. most people do it out of a sense of fun without any real maliciousness intended.
This world in my personal opinion has gone too far down the road of political correctness and everyone is scared of saying ANYTHING to or about anyone.
You should have fun in life and be able to laugh at yourself and its just human nature to find fun in others misfortunes whether it be weight, height , mannerisms or life choices.
Mose people are sensible enough not to be pointedly nasty to an individual whom they know would be upset by it.0 -
Mose people are sensible enough not to be pointedly nasty to an individual whom they know would be upset by it.
It seems not
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/569237-worst-comment-ever-made-about-your-weight?hl=nasty+comments0 -
My daughter and I was at Costco today and Babie was there. She was so beautiful. It made me sick to my stomach. I want to be that thin again. Over the last 3 years I have gained 30lbs and I want to push a Big Mac into any skinny girls mouth. If not a King Size Snickers bar would make me happy.
Sorry, but your weight is really your own problem. You don't get to force feed anyone.
Wanting to physically force a stranger to the floor for nothing more than her appearance is pretty crappy.0 -
Today I was at the store and this woman who was tall and thin to begin with had on 8 inch heels. With her heels on she looked like she was 6'8 and she only weighed about 100 pounds. I really felt like pushing her boney butt over and laughing because my center of gravity is lower. Part of me knows it was jealousy because she is tall and thin (which I will never be. I'm only 5'1) and a part of me knew it was because it would be hilarious to tip over a woman who looked like a praying mantis.
I know I am horrible and going straight to hell. Anyone else have moments where you think you suck as a person?
I spit out my water lol.
I saw a lady like that too once. I was in the mall and shopping for jeans. We all know jean shopping is f ucking evil, right? Nothing fit and l felt I looked like a emaciated prepubescent tranny until this woman walks by. 6'3" in her heels, maybe 115lbs tops. Her knees were bigger than her calves and thighs and her elbows larger than her biceps and forearms. I could see her collarbones and her ribs. She thought she was hot s hit though, so good on her, but omg. I'm skinny but really lady...wow.0 -
My daughter and I was at Costco today and Babie was there. She was so beautiful. It made me sick to my stomach. I want to be that thin again. Over the last 3 years I have gained 30lbs and I want to push a Big Mac into any skinny girls mouth. If not a King Size Snickers bar would make me happy.
I'll take the Big Mac. :flowerforyou:
I was one of those that got all butt hurt about posts like this one and the OP's...but you know what, life is too short to get my panties in a bunch.
When I was skinny fat and saggy I hated toned women of all sizes. I just work my own program and don't let s hit like that get to me anymore.0 -
Horrible for thinking something like that? Not really, we all do the same. But posting about it on a public forum and using phrases like "bony butt" and "praying mantis"? Yeah, that's pretty sucky....0
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I would have wanted to push her over and take her shoes. But I have a thing for shoes.
^this^ I have a shoe fetish myself lol When I could wear heals I owned maybe 40 pair, all stilettos and nothing under 5 inches. I'm 5'8"
Even I get a little cranky around really thin people. You did not do it, so I would say you're not horrible, just normal.
Still LMAO at some of the replies so far.0 -
I know I am horrible and going straight to hell. Anyone else have moments where you think you suck as a person?
Ya, usually. But not before I get a good chuckle out of my thoughts or ideas first.0 -
I thought about shooting a panda the other day just to piss off an environmentalist.0
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lol iam tall and i picture short women with coasters on the the top of there heads loll we all think stuff
That made me laugh so loud I woke the dog up from a sound sleep. Going to chuckling over that visual all day.0 -
I don't even want to tell you the thoughts I JUST had about the young amazing looking chick in her bikini that was working it at the gas station. It involved a king size snickers bar.0
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Lol!! You are insaneI thought about shooting a panda the other day just to piss off an environmentalist.0 -
I never said I hated her! I admit I was jealous. She was tall and thin and she was wearing a cute outfit and her hair looked perfect. No matter how hard I try my hair looks insane and my clothes are always slightly wrinkled. So no, I do not hate her.0
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LOLOLOL.
You're not a horrible person at all. Gah I totally think this way sometimes.
I once told a girl that I hoped she fell into a shark tank on her next period.... (In my defense, she was just awful to me and made some nasty comments about my height (5"11-6'0) and about how my wide hips would be able to birth quintuplets. LOL)
You're awesome.0 -
Mose people are sensible enough not to be pointedly nasty to an individual whom they know would be upset by it.
It seems not
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/569237-worst-comment-ever-made-about-your-weight?hl=nasty+comments
So it would seem
well I always like to think the best of people... shows how wrong you can be.
i will rephrase
Most decent people are sensible enough not to be pointedly nasty to an individual whom they know would be upset by it.0 -
I think bad things all the time. I don't mean to. I'm a nice person, really :flowerforyou:0
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I don't think you are a horrible person. I think you're normal, and you happen to be honest enough to admit that you are human. Some of the people slamming you need to RELAX.0
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Lol!! You are insaneI thought about shooting a panda the other day just to piss off an environmentalist.
You mean it's never crossed your mind?0
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