Ugly duckling becoming a Swan

laneikqua

I have been overweight my whole life and I have never considered myself beautiful, and now that I'm losing weight I'm slowly becoming more confident and becoming happy with the way I look. But one of the things that scare me the most is someone finding me attractive and coming to talk to me. If any could give me their experience with finding someone special after weight loss I would appreciate it.

Curvimami

I have been overweight my whole life and I have never considered myself beautiful, and now that I'm losing weight I'm slowly becoming more confident and becoming happy with the way I look. But one of the things that scare me the most is someone finding me attractive and coming to talk to me. If any could give me their experience with finding someone special after weight loss I would appreciate it.

Confidence is key. And a beautful personality never hurt anyone. From the looks of it you are already a very lovely girl. the weightloss is just the icing on top. Id say whatever you are looking for and/or expecting from a special someone is what YOUR guideline should be. Someone who accepts you for who you are, healthy journey, flaws and all. Someone worth YOUR time. If you are your awesome self, not someone you think another would like. Then you will attract an awesome someone. Know your worth and they will too. Good luck :flowerforyou:

laneikqua

Thank you for the words of wisdom. I'm slowly gaining confidence in my self as I see how I'm finally taking control in the way my body looks

tdotali

Accept compliments as they come - even if at the moment you don't believe it. Eventually you will start to know and believe that you are worthy of the attention. Own it girl! Feel your strength and beauty and show it off!!