Don't complain about things you allow...OR

NewLIFEstyle4ME

Do not complain about what you permit – Anon


I was thinking about this today for myself and for others who complain about stuff (life, weight, circumstances under their/our control, etc.) , that's something my father used to tell me years ago...I googled that term and found this:

Do not complain about what you permit – Anon

If you have time to complain, then you have time to FIX the thing you’re complaining about. Our problem is that we fuss about what’s going wrong but don’t take ACTION to make things better. A “woe is me” attitude will not help you progress. If you are unhappy with your mate, your job, or the people in your life, put yourself in a better situation. If you don’t, the only one to blame is YOU.

I thought I should post it here, as this may motive someone as it is/does me!

pamperedhen

Thank you for this positive post! We have to remember we are VICTORS and NOT victims!!!:drinker:

leken04

You're absolutely right! Very encouraging...will definitely keep this mindset for the future! Thank you

NewLIFEstyle4ME

I know, right????!!!????

Thanks for replying ladies :flowerforyou:

Pampered, girl...you are such a wise and fabulous person--I'm THRILLED to call you my beloved friend. I LOVE that we are victors NOT victims way of thinking (and speaking). I'm going to keep this in my heart and mind. Love you!!!!

NewLIFEstyle4ME

bumping for myself today!

Goal_Line

Self pity chaps my *kitten*. We pick the behavior, we pick the results.