Your special passive aggressive anger signs....

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  • digitalbill
    digitalbill Posts: 1,410 Member
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    According to my wife:
    1: I take a half step back. always with the right foot.

    2: I will bring my hands up to about chest level and rub my palms together (that one is actually intentional. It keeps my hands in front of me but is non-confrontational)

    3: My voice will drop a bit.

    4: All of my joking and smiling vanishes and I speak very bluntly ("You should really consider just walking away right about now")

    She has seen me do this a total of five times in our thirteen years of marriage. Never to her. When i am irritated with her, I just give her a 'Whatever" and then I go out and buy something I don't need like a new Surfboard or car speakers.
  • MzBug
    MzBug Posts: 2,173 Member
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    I get real quiet, then turn and walk away. But.... God help you if you keep yapping at me or follow me. Someone will get seriously hurt. Give me a half an hour and I am ok and willing to talk about it.
  • sho3girl
    sho3girl Posts: 10,799 Member
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    i don't do passive aggressive - if I'm angry there's two ways it's going down. The part of me that's like my Dad will walk away the part that'smy Mum will tear you a new one

    My Dad's tell tell signs - he hisses

    My Nan huffs
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
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    When I get angry, I get quiet.
  • iLoveMyPitbull1225
    iLoveMyPitbull1225 Posts: 1,690 Member
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    I get a look. I'm not sure what it is. People that know me know it. People that don't will say.. "Are you okay? you look like youre gonna kill someone".


    My boyfriend calls it the fire lol
  • oldsalty1
    oldsalty1 Posts: 70
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    "Do what you want!!!"...my special line for folks that tick me off...

    Or the ignore button...(If I speak what is on my mind...it will not be pretty)

    Usually I am a passive person...if my emotions get involved....someone I don't know rises to the occasion!! lol
  • Helloitsdan
    Helloitsdan Posts: 5,564 Member
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    Ido a fake smile but I'm strangling you with my eyes.
    Followed by a "Okidoke!"

    It looks like this!

    What you see.
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    Hates you with a passion!
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    Loves you passionately!
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    Hates loving you passionately!
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    I work retail so its like this everyday!
  • FR89
    FR89 Posts: 186 Member
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    A smile followed by a nice long stare, followed by, "You know what..."


    ^^^^^^ this!!!!
  • smartmom0818
    smartmom0818 Posts: 83
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    If you ask me what's wrong, and I say nothing, it's probably something.

    When I say, Ok ok, do you what you want... there is trouble brewing.

    When I say, well who am I and what do I know, I am leaving you to your own foolish devices.
  • suzieqcookie
    suzieqcookie Posts: 314 Member
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    A smile followed by a nice long stare, followed by, "You know what..."

    ditto
  • dry61ed
    dry61ed Posts: 34 Member
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    I have an avoidance personality, when I get angry I keep to myself until I get the feeling under control.
  • secretlobster
    secretlobster Posts: 3,566 Member
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    Did I punch you in the eyes? It's probably because I'm mad. Don't tell my secret emot-ssh.gif
  • BeanQueen3000
    BeanQueen3000 Posts: 161
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    A smile followed by a nice long stare, followed by, "You know what..."

    This. Often.
  • lniffa
    lniffa Posts: 718 Member
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    I get quiet, then walk away.
  • nothing1994
    nothing1994 Posts: 1,936 Member
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    I know this sounds crazy

    But i start laughing. And it drives the person in front of me MADDD lool !
  • ScottyNoHotty
    ScottyNoHotty Posts: 1,957 Member
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    You know what you tell someone with 2 black eyes? Nothing! you told them twice already.
  • erin023
    erin023 Posts: 123 Member
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    I put my hand in front of my mouth anytime I'm uncomfortable in any way.
  • Berto0391
    Berto0391 Posts: 273 Member
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    I tell people to do what they wish
  • danielleduplantis
    danielleduplantis Posts: 20
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    If i send those 3 little dots it pretty much means screw you convo OVER! ( ... )
  • oldsalty1
    oldsalty1 Posts: 70
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    Today...there was not one ounce of passive available....That other person I do not know...took care of the problem...
    All is well.....i might use this person more often....seemed to work out very well...

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