What does your SO think of your transformation?

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  • JoniBologna
    JoniBologna Posts: 653 Member
    My SO was pretty supportive of me losing weight. However, I underwent a complete life transformation, became a healthier person and started setting and achieving goals. He, on the other hand, didn't have any goals, didn't take care of his body, or his mental health. Unfortunately, this led to me leaving him two weeks ago. It's hard when you change into a more positive and healthier person, but your significant other doesn't follow suit. In the end, he was an anchor dragging me down.
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    JoniBologna Posts: 653 Member
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  • Rosa1213
    Rosa1213 Posts: 456 Member
    My boyfriend is really proud of me, and always tells me that I am as tough as the She-Hulk and reminds me how sexy that is.
    He does get frustrated sometimes when I can't share a meal with him, and says that he likes to see me enjoy my food. But he knows this is important to me, and always gives me encouraging comments like "Look how toned you're getting" and "I definitely see a difference" because he knows those make me feel good. I don't know if they're all true, but who cares? They motivate me to work harder.

    Truthfully, I think that he fears I'll get too thin. But I always tell him not to worry.

    Recently, he looked at me and said "All your good parts are shrinking..." Then he laughed at my shocked face (I couldn't believe he could be so hurtful), and continued with "... because all your parts are good parts." :laugh:
    I can't not love him :heart:
  • danger_kitteh
    danger_kitteh Posts: 301 Member
    I should also add that in the past 3 months my husband has been eating better due to my new training/diet program and started running a month ago. I'm super proud of him for taking the leap into better health as well, because he's lost about 20 pounds, his legs are getting crazy sexy (and i'm a total leg girl) and it's fun to have someone to go out and have a jog with.

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