I hate my husband!

tinksmommy2006
tinksmommy2006 Posts: 575
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No seriously though I hate him...I have to stick to about 1200-1700 calories a day, eating all clean foods and work my AS* off to lose weight. Then I married a guy that is buff without ever lifting a weight and eats like a friggin HOG and he never gains a friggin pound! I tell him he is a fat girl in a buff guys body...lol. Anyone else have this problem???

Btw i know this is a strange post...we just got back from camping, I took my healthy stuff with me for the weekend... controlled myself to only 4 smores over all 4 days, no pigging out, nothing really different in my diet, but I didn't get to work out and when we got home I found i gained 8 pounds over those 4 days!!!!!!! And him...well he LOST a pound...and he did pig out!!! so yeah...I hate my husband! lmao :sad: :laugh:
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  • still_crafty
    still_crafty Posts: 682 Member
    I thought this was going to be about something different . . . I have nothing to add here.

    ETA - if this is the biggest problem you have with your husband then you are one lucky girl :)
  • LovelyLifter
    LovelyLifter Posts: 560 Member
    *turns around and walks back out**

    On a side note.....UM YOU HAVE A BUFF DUDE THAT LOVES YOU!!!! stop whining and enjoy....your weight will come off eventually
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    you didnt gain 8 pounds....the scale is a lying wh:angry: re.
  • thebaconbeast
    thebaconbeast Posts: 560 Member
    My bad...
  • tinksmommy2006
    tinksmommy2006 Posts: 575
    lmao I am not whining...I am just being sarcastic...lol I love my husband very very much...it just seems a little unfair sometimes...lol
  • Jani2416
    Jani2416 Posts: 275 Member
    ETA - if this is the biggest problem you have with your husband then you are one lucky girl :)

    No kidding! :)
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    I usually only have one smore when I camp for a week.
  • tinksmommy2006
    tinksmommy2006 Posts: 575
    you didnt gain 8 pounds....the scale is a lying wh:angry: re.

    you didn't even have to say anything...you have effing fizgig as your profile pic... that's just plain awesomeness...lol
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    you didnt gain 8 pounds....the scale is a lying wh:angry: re.

    you didn't even have to say anything...you have effing fizgig as your profile pic... that's just plain awesomeness...lol

    HA...just frolicked in to say it isnt real weight gain...keep working hard...
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    Men do tend to need more calories than women, in general. But me, I wouldn't care how much someone else is eating unless I was feeling deprived myself. Is this just a passing frustration (understandable) or are you consistently feeling hungry or unsatisfied?

    I wouldn't worry about the weight gain... there's no way you gained 8 pounds in 4 days. Give it another week and see what the scale says then.
  • kaotik26
    kaotik26 Posts: 590 Member
    Ya, mine never exercises and eats Chips Ahoy and Honey Buns all the time and still can't break 18% body fat. And he loses weight so fast! If he works overtime a couple days there goes 5 lbs like that!! I'm trying sooo hard to weigh the same as him but crap! Maybe I should make him some pie, Paula Deen style!!
  • lil_bit_crazy
    lil_bit_crazy Posts: 161 Member
    My husband is the same way. I think of a cracker and gain 15 pounds. He eats 25000 calories all junk, never been over 125 in his life. *kitten*.

    I've told him I often plot his demise while he's asleep.

    Just. Not. Fair.
  • reojames
    reojames Posts: 96
    LOL! My wife says the same things (well, not the hate part). I lose weight a lot easier than she does, but I wish it wasn't that way.
  • iWaffle
    iWaffle Posts: 2,208 Member
    Men do tend to need more calories than women, in general.

    2700 calories today and I'm still short over 100 calories that I can make up if I think of something else to eat that I can squeeze in.
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    Ya, mine never exercises and eats Chips Ahoy and Honey Buns all the time and still can't break 18% body fat. And he loses weight so fast! If he works overtime a couple days there goes 5 lbs like that!! I'm trying sooo hard to weigh the same as him but crap! Maybe I should make him some pie, Paula Deen style!!
    You say he never exercises, but I'm guessing he has some kind of physical job, otherwise working overtime would not affect his weight.
  • vampy25
    vampy25 Posts: 30
    hahahaha yeah but ure husband may eat loads, but when hes older, he will probably put loads of weight on and u wud of lost it lol.. hahaha so dnt worry bout it.. hahaha
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    You didn't gain eight pounds in one weekend.



    Also, hate is a really strong word.
  • Maude_Lewbowski
    Maude_Lewbowski Posts: 395 Member
    This is ridiculous, is this Facebook.com/MFP/complain/?
  • summertyme73
    summertyme73 Posts: 17 Member
    I have the exact same husband!! I look at what he eats and gain weight. He eats it and doesn't gain an ounce. It's sickening. It just isn't fair.
  • missfelicia6
    missfelicia6 Posts: 174 Member
    Me too. My man eats whatever he wants all day.

    If he makes me a plate of food, he piles on the food!! I yell at him because he KNOWS how hard I have been working to lose weight and I count EVERY single thing I put in my mouth.

    It's like he has no respect for me. I just finally told him he's not allowed to make me a plate of food anymore.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    You didn't gain eight pounds in one weekend.



    Also, hate is a really strong word.

    I hate pulp.

    Love your buff man.
  • brandivestal
    brandivestal Posts: 2,637 Member
    That is the exact way my husband and I are! It is so not fair!!
  • roch1972
    roch1972 Posts: 113 Member
    *turns around and walks back out**

    On a side note.....UM YOU HAVE A BUFF DUDE THAT LOVES YOU!!!! stop whining and enjoy....your weight will come off eventually


    Agree
  • tinksmommy2006
    tinksmommy2006 Posts: 575
    Men do tend to need more calories than women, in general. But me, I wouldn't care how much someone else is eating unless I was feeling deprived myself. Is this just a passing frustration (understandable) or are you consistently feeling hungry or unsatisfied?

    I wouldn't worry about the weight gain... there's no way you gained 8 pounds in 4 days. Give it another week and see what the scale says then.

    No it is just me giving him *kitten*...lol. I never feel hungry or deprived...I still snack on what I want...I just cant eat as much of the "bad" stuff like he does. It is not a hunger issue...just a jealous one. lmao
  • p0pr0cksnc0ke
    p0pr0cksnc0ke Posts: 1,283 Member
    Saaaaaaaaaaad face emoticion.............
  • 2bFitNTrim
    2bFitNTrim Posts: 1,209 Member
    Lighten up folks! I am sure she is just exaggerating a little. :laugh: How many of us know of someone close to us who loses weight very easily while we have to work so hard?
  • Sahri21
    Sahri21 Posts: 21 Member
    Ha ha! I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!!! My fiancee is just like that! He has a size 30 waist, is over 6 foot and eats like a pig! And eats...and eats...he informed me last night that he ate 30 something pizza bites for dinner Friday when I was gone.

    He can't understand my frustration with weight loss (or lack thereof) but at least he DOES try and help me with meal planning. He told me last night that if he could give me his metabolism he would. He keeps saying he has to put on his wedding weight. Lol!

    We both have weight problems though if you think about it. He's not happy being so skinny, I'm not happy being over 200 pounds, and it's hard for us to reach our goal, so there ya go!
  • theresmynapkin
    theresmynapkin Posts: 183 Member
    I have the exact same husband!!

    this is an interesting issue in itself... :p
  • Pedal_Pusher
    Pedal_Pusher Posts: 1,166 Member
    sounds rough. Keep on keepin' on..............
  • kaotik26
    kaotik26 Posts: 590 Member
    Ya, mine never exercises and eats Chips Ahoy and Honey Buns all the time and still can't break 18% body fat. And he loses weight so fast! If he works overtime a couple days there goes 5 lbs like that!! I'm trying sooo hard to weigh the same as him but crap! Maybe I should make him some pie, Paula Deen style!!
    You say he never exercises, but I'm guessing he has some kind of physical job, otherwise working overtime would not affect his weight.

    Your right, he's a welder.

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