don't let others hold you back!

I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one who has found this, but since seriously engaging with my weight loss/ looking after my body - I spend more time at the gym and less time at the pub and people begin to resent it.

I spoke with a friend who I only see once or twice a year the other day and he commented that I'm looking good and when I'm out on the town blokes must be trying it on to which I responded that I barely go 'out' out and I've pretty much stopped drinking other than the occasional glass of wine to which he just called me boring and dull.

To be honest I don't mind being boring and dull to people like that - I've lost nearly 30lb this year and I have more healthy fun like going for long walks or cooking meals with friends. I like who and what I'm becoming and don't need some hammered 20 or 30something trying to grab my *kitten* to prove it to me!