How to motivate my boyfriend to work out with me

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  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    Of course as a man he must be expecting me to do cooking. He is not telling me so though. In fact he helps me in the kitchen if I ask him. It's just me who takes all responsibility about the house. It's not about cooking or doing housework. I am just getting used to living with someone else, I thought it would be nice to make time for my workouts and him at the same time.
    Where are you from? Join us in the modern world, sweetheart.
  • therealangd
    therealangd Posts: 1,861 Member
    Where are you from is a very good question.

    It would help us to help you if we actually knew your motivation behind your ideologies that you must cook for, clean for and motivate your boyfriend.
  • ChappyEight
    ChappyEight Posts: 163 Member
    Oh yes probabily I should ask him to join me although I know the answer. If he doesnt like to work out, I must let it go. I'll continue my life like I have done before. It doesnt mean I should change my life just because he lives with me now, does it? I'll tell myself I must not do something I dont like. Spending the evening in front of the TV is sooo boring to me. I just need to be sure if he doesnt think I disregard him. Oh maybe it's me who is trying to be a mom to him. I feel a bit pressure since we are living together. I love him but I am afraid when I think of myself married with kids. I am afraid I'll have no life and I'll have to live their lives. Do I sound paranoiac?

    Nope, sounds like you're asking the right questions.

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