What is the best advice you can give others?

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  • elisa123gal
    elisa123gal Posts: 4,324 Member
    1. Losing weight is one battle

    2. maintaining a goal weight is another separate battle

    3. Not so good to weigh everyday when losing because you can get discouraged

    4. very good to weigh everyday after you reach goal to keep my #1 point out of your life (that is why I'm here again)
  • kzcortes
    kzcortes Posts: 208 Member
    What really helped me was cutting out soda at restaurants, at home, etc. I drop 5 - 10 lb in about a month just from that.
  • Log everything you eat and drink, an make sure it is measured out. It is easy to drink away your calories and to not realise how a portion should look.

    Don't deprive yourself of anything but also don't use that as an excuse to eat everything you love. Sometimes you will have to say no to that big BBQ burger and yes to a large salad instead!

    When you don't want to go to the gym just focus on getting out of the door! I keep my gym kit next to the front door, once im out of the flat I almost always make it to my workout

    Find out if your gym offers free trainers. Having someone else make a program for me to follow has helped me stick to it.

    Measure as well as weighing yourself. Take pictures. You'll notice the changes better this way
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    The biggest lesson I've learned thus far is, any step forward is a step in the right direction and baby steps count, too. Also, I am slowly learning that it doesn't have to be all or nothing. In the past, if I wasn't seeing results all the way across the board, I'd get frustrated and give up. Now I know that ANY success, great or small, is still success.

    I've found that, what works best for me in terms of seeing results on the scale, is a fairly clean eating regimen. That's not to say that I don't EVER eat something I shouldn't. We all have our momentsof weakness. However, as a rule, I don't eat anything out of a box, bag, or can (exceptions are whole grain pastas, breads, and cereals, some dairy, and some frozen veggies). As far as exercise, I do strength training w/ some cardio 2-3 days/wk and an hour of cardio 3-4 days/wk. On cardio days, I also implement leg/core conditioning exercises.


    Oh, and watch your sodium intake and drink LOTS of water. I've found that this helps eliminate some of the week to week weight fluctuation.
  • ketchup38
    ketchup38 Posts: 112 Member
    Plan your meals

    Eat whole foods, - lean proteins, vegetables & fruits - they will keep you fuller for longer, so calorie counting is a breeze

    Try new recipes, keep up the variety to keep up the motivation.

    You can do this.
  • AllTehBeers
    AllTehBeers Posts: 5,030 Member
    Like others have said: Patience.

    Also, one blip is not the end. I figure I ate crap for years to get fat, if I slip up on one day, I'm not going to gain it all back. Sometimes I even go a whole week without worring about food. The difference? Now, I just make better choices naturally.

    This is something that you should feel is making you healthier but also allowing you to live your life. Like Sidesteal said earlier, do NOT make this complicated.
  • The biggest thing for me is to make sure that the changes you're making are sustainable. If it isn't something you can stick with, you need to try something else, otherwise you're dooming yourself to failure. Don't think of this as a short-term journey with a specific goal or end, think of it as changing the way you live. Granted, you may be able to scale things down after a while (for example, I'm currently going to the gym 5 nights a week, but when I get to maintenance mode I will likely lower that to three), but these changes need to be permanent.

    The other thing is, don't get discouraged. Remember, if you're eating healthy and exercising you're doing something GOOD for your body, and for your emotional and mental health as well. Don't freak out if you hit a plateau, or if the weight isn't coming off as quickly as you'd like. Keep at it, and you'll see results.
  • Keep a food diary. I just love this MyFitnessPal. It totally makes it easy to keep track and then you can see how you are doing. Before I just guessed and, guess what, I was over eating... Go figure. So, my advice is to commit to writing down what you eat so you can see your habits, change them if they are excessive, and get on track to feeling healthier. I have been doing this for a week now and my energy level has gone up and I use to drink RedBull for energy. Now, I don't have to.
    Oh, I start my day with two glasses of water. It wakes me up and I read that it is good for your internal organs to get a boost on the day.
    There's my two cents worth.
    I hope it helps
    :-)
  • aftergypsies
    aftergypsies Posts: 248 Member
    Don't listen to advice on websites. Seriously. People need to take what they read on sites like this and others with a grain of salt. You can take it but it's best to apply certain things learned from others and adjust them to what works best for you.
  • isis2triple0
    isis2triple0 Posts: 106 Member
    The Best advice I would give beyond anything else is.................................... MENTALLY prepare yourself first!!!!!!

    Before you even start thinking about eating clean, working out, buying Insanity, new training shoes and clothes whatever!! You have to get your mind right (right-mindness) literally, or you will fail or it will be another failed attempt! Your body is a learning tool in this physical world the mind is what creates!! The mind is more powerful then we realize it never loses it's creative force, it never sleeps (think about it), every instant it is creating! Thought and belief, thought and belief combined! There are no idle thoughts, all thinking produces form at some level.


    TRAIN YOUR MIND FIRST and the BODY WILL FOLLOW!!

    Blessings
  • 47Jacqueline
    47Jacqueline Posts: 6,993 Member
    As far as necessities go:

    Create a sustainable energy deficit
    Exercise. You should probably incorporate some resistance training.
    Rest
    Repeat
    Do NOT complicate things.


    As far as other notes:

    I would eat "mostly" whole foods for both satiety and nutrient sufficiency.
    I would prioritize protein and fat over carbohydrate but provided you are not doing a low-carb program, carbs can still be your friend and you should eat enough of them to train with intensity.
    I would not eliminate foods that you enjoy. Instead, eat them in moderation and fit them into your daily nutrition goals.


    For research, I would very much recommend anything from the following sites:
    www.alanaragon.com
    www.weightology.net
    www.bodyrecomposition.com
    www.leangains.com
    www.body-improvements.com

    I would absolutely not recommend:
    Gary Taubes

    This sounds good to me. Also have patience.
  • CoffeeJunkieMann
    CoffeeJunkieMann Posts: 95 Member
    Eat less!

    Move more!

    This is now my quote on my profile!
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    1. Educate yourself ... about how weight gain/loss happens (i.e. BMR, calories in vs. calories out, etc.), about macronutrient ratios, about the pros and cons of strength training and cardio, etc. Read and question, read and question, read and question.

    2. Don't confuse planning with the actual doing of things. Planning is important, but don't spend so much time planning and talking about what you're going to do that you have no time or energy to actually do it.

    3. Don't assume ANYONE, especially your doctor or any doctor on TV, is an expert on weight loss. Verify everything, even if it's by trial and error.

    4. Record EVERYTHING. Your meals, your workouts, your water intake, even your thoughts and feelings about what you are doing. Continually review, evaluate, and adjust where necessary. Don't be afraid to change things up. It makes more sense to try something new than to continue doing something that has not worked.

    5. Recovery is more than half of the equation. Your body needs rest, food, and therapy (foam rolling, massage, ice baths, joint mobility work). It cannot do what you ask it to do if you don't fuel it properly.
  • doonesbury
    doonesbury Posts: 281 Member
    Eat less!

    Move more!

    This is now my quote on my profile!


    :-D
  • ModoVincere
    ModoVincere Posts: 530 Member
    never give up.
    and try to help someone else along their journey everyday.
  • AnvilHead
    AnvilHead Posts: 18,343 Member
    What Sidesteal said - he's right on the mark.


    I'd also echo the advice to educate yourself. Learn about your body and the processes involved in this journey. Read beyond the BS spouted by snake oil salesman and found in magazines. Separate myth from truth and don't waste your money on fads or quick fixes.
  • Learn to do all exercises correctly. Learn to do the exercises that you like to do to the extreme of your strength and cardio system.

    If you only have 30 minutes to exercise, then get the most bang for your buck, compound strength but without the huge rests and plyo body weight to HIIT or tabata protocols - if you are not fit, these will make you fit, if you are fit these will make you fitter.

    If you have hours and hours per day to do cardio, then lucky you. I will stick to sub-60 minute work outs or less, but these workouts will be relentless.
  • raeleek
    raeleek Posts: 414 Member
    Do something you can live with.

    Saying you can NEVER again eat this or that, or shunning all the foods you love, or insisting you must do 8 hours cardio a day, every day, etc. will lead to quick failure.

    THIS!

    And, never never never give up! Like someone else said, no matter how many times you fall off the horse get the f*** back up!
  • Annaruthus
    Annaruthus Posts: 301 Member
    Rule number one: If you don't know what it is, then you shouldn't be eating it!
    As in, if you picked up some boxed/canned food off the shelf at the grocery store, and read the ingredients list, and don't know what you are eating, chances are your body has absolutely no use for it. Put it BACK!
  • antizoni1
    antizoni1 Posts: 334
    If you fall 9 times get up 10
  • tara_seay
    tara_seay Posts: 171 Member
    Do what works FOR YOU. Other things may work for others, but it may not work for you. Also, eat your calories, don't starve yourself.
  • curryinahurry
    curryinahurry Posts: 83 Member
    you are not better than anyone, but you make better decisions!
  • needamulligan
    needamulligan Posts: 558 Member
    Keep logging. For me backsliding happens SO much faster than progress.
  • That we are all humans & we will all fail, regardless. But when we do the most important thing is to get back up and keep on going!!!

    As I like to say, Keep on keepn' on my friends!!


    Support and motivation is a MUST. Surround yourself with people that support your goals!!!
  • one of the hardest things for me to do was not to make up excuses for myself. If you have a goal...go for it. But don't say, "but friday there's a party, or next week is my sister's get together, or but I'm on vacation." those will ALWAYS happen and for years when I would start dieting, I would use those as excuses and it would throw me off the horse and it would take forever to get back on and then low and behold, after a good two weeks of dieting, another happy hour or another party. Give those up until you know you can control yourself.
  • Very well said! Thank you! Thats telling it straight up and not sugar coated!
  • Angie__1MR
    Angie__1MR Posts: 388 Member
    eat clean
  • tashaa1992
    tashaa1992 Posts: 658 Member
    It's not advice to do with anything in particular, but it's something my mum said to me a few weeks ago and it just sort of stuck with me: be the best you can be. When I'm feeling down I remind myself of it and I find it helps, I can't be anyone else, just me and if I'm doing the best I can then that's all that matters.
  • cevans_rr
    cevans_rr Posts: 44 Member
    Log your calories BEFORE you eat them! Sometimes you decide not to when you see the numbers in black and white - or red:)
  • Neeser926
    Neeser926 Posts: 100 Member
    Be honest. If you ate or drank it,log it. Even if it was not a good choice. Every bite,every sip, everything,every day. You will learn so much about yourself if you do.