OK, now what is the biggest TURN ON???

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  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    But for me.....A calm not judgemental, and *****y woman with a good sense of humor is 'just about' all it takes.


    One things I HATED about my ex wife.....She would see a pretty woman, and automatically not like her. Even if she never met her. Skinny *****, or stuck up skank etc.

    My ex wasn't a bad looking woman at all, but MAN was she crazy. It's like ALL women were competition to her.
  • still_crafty
    still_crafty Posts: 682 Member
    sense of humor and confidence

    nice eyes and smile are a bonus
  • gym_king_carlie
    gym_king_carlie Posts: 528 Member
    I love a girl who has something unique to her, could be something to do with her apperance or just her personality, confidence is a big yes, down to earth girl, Apparently, I have a thing for hairdressers as random as that is lol
  • Angie__1MR
    Angie__1MR Posts: 388 Member
    muscles, confidence, tattoos (lots of them)
  • cheerforsteelers
    cheerforsteelers Posts: 686 Member
    I love me some pretty eyes on a man, nice lips, and a nice booty. Not a huge one, but somethin' there. Other than that I really love a sense of humor, intelligence, a kind heart, and a man who loves kids and is good with them.
  • mikes99mail
    mikes99mail Posts: 318 Member
    it's all the b's for me - brains, butt and loving bacon :)

    (but not always in that order...)
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    doesnt take much.
  • cheerforsteelers
    cheerforsteelers Posts: 686 Member
    OK THIS IS A QUESTION....

    I have heard a couple of these were so I'm asking are they?

    #1 A guy who takes his mother out to eat.

    #2 How a man talks to and treats a server when out to eat.


    I say how he treats his mother overall and yes, I watch how he treats the server when we're out. There's never a reason to be rude and that ticks me off if we're out and he's being short/snippy with the waiter/waitress.
  • katrinkap
    katrinkap Posts: 443 Member
    For me, a woman needs to be:

    - emotionally available
    - intelligent
    - sense of humour
    - great communicator
    - romantic

    But the biggest thing for me - that spark/ chemistry/ even crazy draw towards one-another. When I meet a woman and we just sorta have that spark.


    Course, Im still a guy...so...if she shows up naked, and brings beer...I'm good.


    LMAO! LOVE IT!
  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    OK THIS IS A QUESTION....

    I have heard a couple of these were so I'm asking are they?

    #1 A guy who takes his mother out to eat.

    #2 How a man talks to and treats a server when out to eat.
    ^^This.
    After seeing how important my mother-in-law was to my now husband, I knew he was "the one"

    Watch how a man treats his mother. That's how he'll treat you (of course if his mother is a raging b!tch that's another story)

    If a man can be respectful to complete strangers, he'll be amazing to those he truly cares about.
  • katrinkap
    katrinkap Posts: 443 Member
    bacon....

    so if i brought you a pig, what would you do? lol
  • katrinkap
    katrinkap Posts: 443 Member
    But for me.....A calm not judgemental, and *****y woman with a good sense of humor is 'just about' all it takes.


    One things I HATED about my ex wife.....She would see a pretty woman, and automatically not like her. Even if she never met her. Skinny *****, or stuck up skank etc.

    My ex wasn't a bad looking woman at all, but MAN was she crazy. It's like ALL women were competition to her.

    ditto about my e husband... oh ufda. a guy would look at me and he would almost jump him.
  • iLoveMyPitbull1225
    iLoveMyPitbull1225 Posts: 1,690 Member
    I have a hundred... I cant really think of a number one. But I have to agree with what others said about a man and how he treats his mother. Another thing I love in a man is if he loves kids/is good with kids. Thats a great turn on for me.
  • Jaymazing
    Jaymazing Posts: 32 Member
    I can't believe no one has gone here yet...Christian Grey?
    Lol.
    No, but seriously...cologne, nice healthy physique, intelligence, and I think alot of women agree that nice clothes and nice car makes you look successful. Success = security to alot of women. Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I like a man with the means to pamper me. BUT that doesn't mean I can't support and pamper myself!
  • dinosnopro
    dinosnopro Posts: 2,177 Member
    My wife, she is the total package.
  • Muscles_Curves
    Muscles_Curves Posts: 385 Member
    *Intelligence
    *Good sense of humor (I ♥ to laugh)
    *Strong arms
    *Great with children and his mother
    *Bright smile and eyes that makes me melt
    *Hard working (Can't tolerate laziness)
  • PittShkr
    PittShkr Posts: 1,000 Member
    tattoos piercings bacon runners and women who lift
  • NWCyclingBeast
    NWCyclingBeast Posts: 157 Member
    Tough to say... Intelligence and confidence, coupled with an extraordinary sense of humor and a love for life! Throw this together with physical beauty and a serious love of physical activity, and that would pretty much do it for me. Oh, and it helps if she owns a liquor store and a nice bass boat.
  • apedeb09
    apedeb09 Posts: 805 Member
    OK THIS IS A QUESTION....

    I have heard a couple of these were so I'm asking are they?

    #1 A guy who takes his mother out to eat.

    #2 How a man talks to and treats a server when out to eat.

    Watch how a man treats his mother. That's how he'll treat you (of course if his mother is a raging b!tch that's another story)


    This is absolutely true. Wish I would've known it before I got married though! Ohh well.
  • lots of things but my #1 cant be mentioned here. but lot of other ppls sound good too!
  • Taller than me....6 foot or more.
    Brown Hair
    Brown Eyes
    Humor/Laugh
    Strong Arms
    and how he treats me....like I am his whole world....lucky me.... I have that!!!!!
  • _Punjab
    _Punjab Posts: 67
    OK THIS IS A QUESTION....

    I have heard a couple of these were so I'm asking are they?

    #1 A guy who takes his mother out to eat.

    #2 How a man talks to and treats a server when out to eat.

    Oh yes, the way a man treats a server is very important in my mind. How you act with a server or anyone else in food/retail/service, especially if there's a problem with something, is a look at your general patience, understanding, flexibility, and respect with people.
  • Brittmy
    Brittmy Posts: 141 Member
    Welp, this confirms it! I am the total package! ;-) bahahaha

    Humor is key for me. Humor and intelligence. When a guy can make me laugh, and think, he has pretty much got it in the bag. :)
  • jonward85
    jonward85 Posts: 534 Member
    My wife, she is the total package.


    This
  • TxAngel79
    TxAngel79 Posts: 318 Member
    Freshly shaven bald head...just something about it!!!
    Fit, but not overly muscular
    Pretty eyes
    Good attitude and sense of humor
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    booty :devil: :devil: :devil:
    latina
  • AlayshaJ
    AlayshaJ Posts: 703 Member
    nnn
  • _Punjab
    _Punjab Posts: 67
    Physical appearance =
    -when a guy has one of those smiles that kind of crinkles off to the side and really nice teeth
    -strong hands
    -a little bit of salt and pepper hair

    Personality =
    -smart enough to "fight" with me about things
    -a cheesy sense of humor
    -passionate about something in life (whether it's his job or a football team, I don't care, its just a turn on when you talk with real passion and a sparkle in your eye)
  • Jaymazing
    Jaymazing Posts: 32 Member
    So, to sum it up for the men...
    Thy want a woman who has a boat and beer, is naked, and has an unquenchable desire for her man.
  • grrrlface
    grrrlface Posts: 1,204 Member
    Tattoos
    Facial hair
    A guy who knows what he wants in life and works hard but still needs me to take care of him at the end of the day when he comes home. :-) that ones a bit deep, I know! Lol!