GROOMING TIPS FOR MEN (FOR THE WOMEN PLEASE)

CalJur
CalJur Posts: 627 Member
edited 5:06AM in Chit-Chat
With women clearly outnumbering men on this site, it behooves us to take advantage of the opportunity to solicit your expert opinions about us especially given that at least half of what we do in our daily lives is to please you! Here goes:

Grooming dos and dont's for men.
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  • LittleD311
    LittleD311 Posts: 618 Member
    you crack me up!!!! My fiance shaves everything minus his arms, arm pit and legs, and i love it! soooo sexy! lol
  • OnWisconsin84
    OnWisconsin84 Posts: 409 Member
    Preferably shaved in & around the region, especially if you want dome. Not a fan of chest hair either. My man also prefers to shave his armpits, which I originally found odd, but whatever. Smoooooooth = :love: :bigsmile:
  • LittleD311
    LittleD311 Posts: 618 Member
    Preferably shaved in & around the region, especially if you want dome. Not a fan of chest hair either. My man also prefers to shave his armpits, which I originally found odd, but whatever. Smoooooooth = :love: :bigsmile:

    LMAO @ DOME! love it! yeah, i totally agree--- when i first started dating Jeff, he came over in a " wife beater" and had blood around his nipples, i was like um, did you have a shaving mishap!? LOL
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    Idk always felt like shaving wasn't very manly. But I don't like chest hair. Good thing my last bf didn't have any! His friends would make fun of him for it but I told him I liked it :)
  • OP: you do not need any tips, because hello look at you! you obviously know what up!!

    for the rest of you.... keep it clean, tidy, and manly! lol @dome!!


    p.s. brush your fuggin teeth every day, morning and night!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • OP: you do not need any tips, because hello look at you! you obviously know what up!!

    for the rest of you.... keep it clean, tidy, and manly! lol @dome!!


    p.s. brush your fuggin teeth every day, morning and night!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    this
  • george29223
    george29223 Posts: 556 Member
    i find women i date tend to want me even more hairy to the point there saving dog shedings and glueing them to me as i sleep , some non sence about the more hairy i am the less they gotta actually see of me
  • LizHowerton
    LizHowerton Posts: 329 Member
    Personally I think men should shave their faces and that's it.

    I don't care for back hair....that could be waxed off....but I like naturally everywhere else....maybe ear hair plucked :)


    Shows when I grew up......it's an age thing I think.

    Other grooming....tidy facial hair, short hair or shaved head. Clean shiny teeth...clean bod with some nice cologne, clean put together clothes...and all is good.
  • CarleyLovesPets
    CarleyLovesPets Posts: 410 Member
    Keep the hair on your head well groomed. I really don't like guys with long hair.
    Keep your downstairs trimmed and CLEAN.
    Facial hair should look neat as well, preferable just stubble.
  • RedHeadDevotchka
    RedHeadDevotchka Posts: 1,394 Member
    I guess it's good that I like chest hair and face hair bc I married an Italian guy with loads of hair. The only thing I care about is that he keeps his region manscaped. Everything else, no need to shave.
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    Oh, and I really hate cologne. It's overwhelming. Use a little unscented deodorant and your natural man smell is great!
  • DelilahCat0212
    DelilahCat0212 Posts: 282 Member
    i find women i date tend to want me even more hairy to the point there saving dog shedings and glueing them to me as i sleep , some non sence about the more hairy i am the less they gotta actually see of me

    Some chicks just dig hairy dudes. I hear about guys shaving and I want to scream NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
  • hbrittingham
    hbrittingham Posts: 2,518 Member
    Keep your nose and ear hair trimmed up. Please!
  • _KatieKat
    _KatieKat Posts: 224
    ok, everything above and .........FRIGGIN CLEAN UP AFTER YOURSELVES! I know thats not a grooming tip but just sayin..................:huh:
  • Prudiddy
    Prudiddy Posts: 262 Member
    I don't mind a trim cut on the lower region, just use shampoo, a clean fresh scent is always pleasant when making frequent visits for dessert! (smiley)
  • iLoveMyPitbull1225
    iLoveMyPitbull1225 Posts: 1,690 Member
    keep the landscaping tidy down south, brush your teeth and take a shower at least every other day. Other than that I dont care.
  • rchupka87
    rchupka87 Posts: 542 Member
    Think about it like this... Would you find a woman attractive if she had big ol' nose hairs attacking your upper lip while she kissed you? Would she be hot if she had eyebrows that climbed halfway up her forehead? Or if you had to scream at her all the time, because she can't hear due to all the hair in her ears?

    I didn't think so. Use some common sense. Trim your face up. Take the extra minute and a half to do your ears, nose, and brows. Take some pride in your manscaping. Especially around the twig and berries. For the *most* part - girls don't like bushwhacking through the forrest. We like things neat, and tidy. Plus - it makes the twig look taller. Bonus for you, and her.

    Now, as far as pits, arms, legs, chest, and back hair go - while I can't understand ANY woman in the world finding back hair attractive - ask YOUR lady what she preferrs.... You don't want to shave off what turns her on...
  • misskatibear
    misskatibear Posts: 158 Member
    For me, it has to be showering. I know it's pretty obvious, but there's nothing nicer than knowing your man is CLEAN! :P
    I'm glad that my partner showers everyday, because I know some men don't (and women, obviously - not being sexist here!)

    Be sure to check your nose and ear hair too :P

    I kinda like stubble on men (neat looking stubble!). But that really is personal preference.

    And please, no piling on the aftershave/deodorant - A little is enough! :)
  • SafireBleu
    SafireBleu Posts: 881 Member
    I like everything trimmed and no back hair. That said DH has a hairy back and I don't care if he misses a waxing session every once in a while.
  • HotAshMess
    HotAshMess Posts: 382 Member
    Keep the manscaping tidy and clean. (if you need reasons why, watch Margaret Cho....she does an excellent bit on how things tends to get "gamey".) If you want your girl to do something...think about what condition you want things in if you were to do the same thing.

    Stubble...some women like it. But the trick to that sexy, unshaven day old stubble look is to still have it groomed. My boyfriend thinks he is so sexy walking around with 3 days of growth....yuck. But he doesn't listen to me. Regularly wash and groom facial hair.

    I hate men with a unibrow...so a little trimming there is appreciated.

    I know this is silly, but I hate dirty ears. I can't tell you how many people I meet who have it all together until you look at their grungy yellow ears. Blech.
  • iJiVE
    iJiVE Posts: 20
    Dirty fingernails is nasty! Dudes, please clip them ****s!! That gross **** aint cute or hygienic!
    Boom
    If your hair is all ****ed up - fix it! Hair gel & hairspray works wonders.
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    Look good in good clothes - not some outdated wack ensemble!
    Boom
    If you hairy - shave your back, somehow?
    Boom
    If you got a hairy chest, them wife beaters aint working for ya!
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    The unbuttoned look only works for guys who are in shape, & aint looking gorilla status. Keep that in mind.
    Boom
    Beards are disguising flavor savors. Ain't noone wanna kiss you with that mess on your face! Omg I almost chucked after writing that sentence.
    Boom
    Follow these steps my dudes & maybe yous will get laid!
    BOOM!
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    I appreciate my man for the furry Wookie that he is.
  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    As long as you don't have back hair, I think shaving is a bit odd (unless of course you're a swimmer or you do it for some other non aesthetic reason). If you're Robin Williams hairy, get that crap under control.

    I'm a huge fan of facial hair as well, just keep it neat and tidy. The ZZ top look only works on ZZ top. Oh and that little thin line of hair on the jawline that some men call a beard.....yea that instantly sounds the alarm on the Douche Detector.

    But honestly, no matter what you're grooming habits, just don't spend more time than me in the bathroom. That's just weird.
  • blonde71
    blonde71 Posts: 955 Member
    My hubby has become more conscious of his grooming habits over the years - partly because I'm always nagging him about it. He doesn't shave his chest but he's not that hairy. No back hair, so we're good there. Trims his eyebrows at the salon and that's about it.
  • GhostPack
    GhostPack Posts: 197 Member
    keep the landscaping tidy down south, brush your teeth and take a shower at least every other day. Other than that I dont care.
    Seems a bit high maintenance. I'm not showering more then once a week!
  • Tina0807
    Tina0807 Posts: 212
    OP: you do not need any tips, because hello look at you! you obviously know what up!!

    for the rest of you.... keep it clean, tidy, and manly! lol @dome!!


    p.s. brush your fuggin teeth every day, morning and night!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    this

    ^^^ yeppers!
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    i can't grow a beard or chest hair to save my life :laugh: most of my hair is on my legs :indifferent: but apparently girls like that
  • trojanbb
    trojanbb Posts: 1,297 Member
    body hair is nasty. anywhere besides the face/head, no thanks. except maybe a little short hair on lower legs.


    ugh I hate body hair. Can they just create a damn pill to permanently remove it forever
  • samra2012
    samra2012 Posts: 715
    dont worry friend!! you dont have hair :bigsmile:

    hair is ugly everywhere!
  • jerbear67
    jerbear67 Posts: 247 Member
    body hair is nasty. anywhere besides the face/head, no thanks. except maybe a little short hair on lower legs.


    ugh I hate body hair. Can they just create a damn pill to permanently remove it forever

    There is a laser treatment that can permanetly stop hair growth. It's costly and takes several treatments but effective.
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