Hurt and discouraged...

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  • 1holegrouper
    1holegrouper Posts: 323 Member
    Its simple. Your young, your beautiful, your happy and they are NOT. This happens to me all the time (OK, not really, lol)
  • MSeel1984
    MSeel1984 Posts: 2,297 Member
    screw em, you are beautiful

    illbetravelin-OH MY GOSH so are you!!! Such fresh and dewy skin and what a beautiful smile! You remind me so much of someone and I can't put my finger on it...someone I knew in school.

    Sorry-just had to put that out there.
  • ctalimenti
    ctalimenti Posts: 865 Member
    Bless her stupid heart. That nurse was itching to be a catty b*tch without actually taking responsibility for it.

    LOLOLOL!!!! This is so good!!!
  • deksgrl
    deksgrl Posts: 7,237 Member
    I think you look amazing, and your wedding pictures are so beautiful. Enjoy. You know why you are doing this, it is for yourself and your health. Stay focused and live your life your way, girl!
  • mgmlap
    mgmlap Posts: 1,377 Member
    people will always be petty. others cant grasp the idea of someone looking better than themselves. the best thing some people can do to feel better about themselves ..is to hurt someone else..that whole superior attitude crap.

    I would say she attacked you cause you didnt come back from your honeymoon all bloated..cheers for you..I think you just keep moving on....success is the best revenge!

    BTW..you look gorgeous in your profile pic!
  • lg3703
    lg3703 Posts: 190
    #1. Life is too short to worry about other peoples opinions as long as you feel good! #2 people are catty, mean and some are just plain stupid. I'm sorry but that IS a fact of life. #3 you freaking rock. OWN IT!
  • newbsar
    newbsar Posts: 6
    Thank you everyone for the kind words. Mission accomplished and I'm much more cheerful and motivated-strange how nice words from strangers almost mean more than those from people you know well.

    I decided to take a running tally of things to be happy about:

    1.) I have an AMAZING new husband that thinks I'm sexy and amazing (he is too-but no need to go down that bunny trail).
    2.) I'm still sticking with the 5AM routine and feeling good.
    3.) I have a solid job which helps me afford my lifestyle.
    4.) I have a dog that loves me and has no opinions of weight whatsoever
    5.) I have my health. My blood sugars have been infinitely better since I started working out daily.

    Thanks again for the encouraging words.
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    And this is exactly why they are saying it my dear - they are jealous. You look beautiful in your wedding dress. Keep strong and focus on those things that make you happy x
  • The nerve of some people!

    Sorry I don't know you but that made me a little bit mad!

    That was a very rude thing to say! and excatly, you are not large at all it doesn't matter if you were it should not have been said.

    The only thing to do is ignore the comment and power through, it was a stupid comment so leave it hanging where it was!


    I just hate unneccesary rudeness! it grinds my gears.
  • MSeel1984
    MSeel1984 Posts: 2,297 Member
    The nerve of some people!

    Sorry I don't know you but that made me a little bit mad!

    That was a very rude thing to say! and excatly, you are not large at all it doesn't matter if you were it should not have been said.

    The only thing to do is ignore the comment and power through, it was a stupid comment so leave it hanging where it was!


    I just hate unneccesary rudeness! it grinds my gears.

    I know other people have posted these same kinds of threads when people start making rude comments. It just makes me feel like I'm back in high school...so much caddiness.