What do I do if..
Cherryblosm3
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My boss keeps looking at my boobs. Like.. all the time. And he's probably almost twice my age. I dont know what to do! I dont want to say anything because I dont want to make things awkward.. and he hasnt gone beyond the "looking" thank god.
I dont wear revealing clothes either! (I work in a corporate setting, literally.. corporate, so you have to dress conservative).
GIRLS, has this happened to any of you?? what did you do?!
I dont wear revealing clothes either! (I work in a corporate setting, literally.. corporate, so you have to dress conservative).
GIRLS, has this happened to any of you?? what did you do?!
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Call him out on it. He's making things awkward. If it continues, HR.0
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Ignore him.0
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I'm sorry but I"d be staring at your boobs too.
Seriously though, is he staring or leering? If he's just looking at them and then looking away then I don't see a problem with it. If he's leering, complete with tongue hanging out, panting and making grabby motions with his hands then I"d be a little creeped out and would probably say something.0 -
Stare at his junk.0
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I'm sorry but I"d be staring at your boobs too.
Seriously though, is he staring or leering? If he's just looking at them and then looking away then I don't see a problem with it. If he's leering, complete with tongue hanging out, panting and making grabby motions with his hands then I"d be a little creeped out and would probably say something.
No he just glances. But like 4 times in a span of 5 minutes talking to him.
Like he cant help it or something0 -
Ignore him.
Thats what I currently do lol its just like.. jeez man! come on already.0 -
hahaha!Stare at his junk.
I've had this happen, it didn't end well. Started off with looking....eventually there were comments and ended up with him describing his veiny erection......I wore polo shirts and an apron as part of the work outfit.....and did not instigate any of it. I made a formal complaint, and quit.....
If it gets worse say something, if its quick glances i wouldnt say much, if its leering, id be tempted to stare back at his junk lol0 -
When you catch him looking cross your arms over your chest or if you are close to your desk grab a sweater and while putting it on over emphasis the covering of your chest. Should be a subtle hint.0
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I'm sorry but I"d be staring at your boobs too.
Seriously though, is he staring or leering? If he's just looking at them and then looking away then I don't see a problem with it. If he's leering, complete with tongue hanging out, panting and making grabby motions with his hands then I"d be a little creeped out and would probably say something.
No he just glances. But like 4 times in a span of 5 minutes talking to him.
Like he cant help it or something
*looks at profile pic*
Yeah. Neither can I. LOL!0 -
I'm sorry but I"d be staring at your boobs too.
Seriously though, is he staring or leering? If he's just looking at them and then looking away then I don't see a problem with it. If he's leering, complete with tongue hanging out, panting and making grabby motions with his hands then I"d be a little creeped out and would probably say something.
No he just glances. But like 4 times in a span of 5 minutes talking to him.
Like he cant help it or something
*looks at profile pic*
Yeah. Neither can I. LOL!
lol whats wrong with my profile pic?!0 -
Only 4 times in 5 minutes? Thats pretty damn good.
If I see a nice rack I struggle not glancing 5 times in 1 minute.0 -
a more direct hint, is look at him directly and cover your chest.... just keep doing it and they'll usually get the hint.
also.. i work in a corporate office as well.. sometimes its hard not to notice... although i try not to stare. lol.0 -
I'm sorry but I"d be staring at your boobs too.
Seriously though, is he staring or leering? If he's just looking at them and then looking away then I don't see a problem with it. If he's leering, complete with tongue hanging out, panting and making grabby motions with his hands then I"d be a little creeped out and would probably say something.
No he just glances. But like 4 times in a span of 5 minutes talking to him.
Like he cant help it or something
*looks at profile pic*
Yeah. Neither can I. LOL!
lol whats wrong with my profile pic?!
boobage.0 -
He's a man, there are boobs in the room, he will look. There is nothing we can do if they cross our field of vision!0
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I'm sorry but I"d be staring at your boobs too.
Seriously though, is he staring or leering? If he's just looking at them and then looking away then I don't see a problem with it. If he's leering, complete with tongue hanging out, panting and making grabby motions with his hands then I"d be a little creeped out and would probably say something.
No he just glances. But like 4 times in a span of 5 minutes talking to him.
Like he cant help it or something
*looks at profile pic*
Yeah. Neither can I. LOL!
lol whats wrong with my profile pic?!
boobage.
^^^ That.
I'm not dissing your picture. I like it. I'm small chested so I get a little envious of girls who are well endowed in that area.0 -
pull them out and say is this what u want......wait that only happens in a movie i own...nevermind dont do that0
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Sometimes you have to be direct and tell him to stop and if he doesn't, hit him with the sexual harassment.0
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I agree that arms over the chest or grabbing a sweater (even in the dead of summer) would give a good "Cut the $h*t" hint :bigsmile:0
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Well, if you're standing in front of him the same way as your standing in your photo, it's kind of a, "Hey look at my boobs!" stance.0
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Well, if you're standing in front of him the same way as your standing in your photo, it's kind of a, "Hey look at my boobs!" stance.
lol i dont stand like that at work. And even if i did.. that shirt isnt a "boob" shirt!! I dont get it0 -
Well, if you're standing in front of him the same way as your standing in your photo, it's kind of a, "Hey look at my boobs!" stance.
lol i dont stand like that at work. And even if i did.. that shirt isnt a "boob" shirt!! I dont get it
They don't need to be "boob shirts." If you've got them sticking out, they're automatically calling for attention. And heck, you've got big boobs, so I'm sure they're simply always calling for attention.0 -
Next time you "catch" him looking, simply say, "Thank you for the compliment." If he wonders what you mean, simply say, "i see you're admiring my breasts, thank you for the compliment." That just might embarass him enough to stop looking.0
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Next time you see him looking just look down and say do I have something on my shirt, because you keep looking down. might just emberass him enough not to do it again.0
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The top you're wearing in your profile pic, which I assume is at work given your wearing your badge on a lanyard.
What do you consider that top... Conservative? Revealing? Sexy? Business Wear? Bar Clothing? What do YOU consider it.0 -
lol whats wrong with my profile pic?!
Really!?!0 -
The top you're wearing in your profile pic, which I assume is at work given your wearing your badge on a lanyard.
What do you consider that top... Conservative? Revealing? Sexy? Business Wear? Bar Clothing? What do YOU consider it.
I agree. You are pushing your chest out in the profile pic. It's kinda hard NOT to look at it!0 -
When you catch him looking cross your arms over your chest or if you are close to your desk grab a sweater and while putting it on over emphasis the covering of your chest. Should be a subtle hint.
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Kick him in the weiner!0
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Does he look or stare? I have a guy at my work who always looks at my boobs. He looks at my face, then at my boobs, then my face, then my boobs. I can tell he feels embarrassed about it, yet he still does it. It's like they're magnetic.0
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