WEIRDO FRIEND REQUESTS?

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  • MissShancey
    MissShancey Posts: 464
    i no longer accept requests with out a message ... i HATE when i get a request from somebody trying to sell weight loss shakes ... what? you dont think i can do it on my own? .. so mad lol .. im here for support not to shop!

    i also decline any request where im called baby ... whos baby am i lol... not yours!
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    LOL I get all kinds of funny FR... the pole photos have that effect I guess, but I usually think it's funny. If you don't want to be friends with guys or girls with EDs then just hit Decline.

    One time I got a FR stating something like, "Not gonna lie, I just have to be friends with you because you have a pole and can do that trick in your photo." Creepy? Maybe. But I thought it was so entertaining I accepted, and he's actually turned out to be a really cool guy.
    If they are truly creepy, I delete them!

    When I get something like, "Hey baby hop on my pole" or whatever... those I just Decline right away.

    I never get messages from guys asking me to hop on their pole. :sad: Never get Herbalife shoved in my face here, either, although now that I typed that I'll probably have an ad pop up on my screen. The guys I do have on my FL are really helpful when I have a question about lifting, or anything really. I didn't have any guys at all on my FL til last year.
  • xHelloQuincyx
    xHelloQuincyx Posts: 884 Member
    maybe its because you talk in all caps.

    just sayin'....

    i keep the people who try to add me for a week, and if it dosnt work then I get rid of them. if you don't give people a chance, you never know what could work for you. (this is referring to the male comment, I refuse to add anyone with eating disorders). The males in my friends list have been with me from 2 months to two years. CalJur for one, has changed the way i look at the world. he post inspirational quotes. he gives encouragement and advice. he has a detailed blog. but if i saw the picture he has up now, and he was trying to add me, nooo wayyy lol. dont judge a book by its cover, shoot people a message when they try to add you and ask why.
  • andrewlazenby
    andrewlazenby Posts: 151
    Heck i am a dude and i am scared to friend ladies because of all the weirdos and creepy dudes i have simply observed. My wife and i were talking about this the other day as we both jokingly discussed putting a more close-up shot for the Profile pic. I have a few supportive friends and its great.
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    OK, SOO, I JOINED AUG 1ST, AND I'M EITHER GETTING FRIENDED BY GUYS I DONT KNOW (NOT HAPPENIN) OOOOOR!! CHICKS WHO CLEARLY HAVE EATTING DISORDERS,WANTING TO TRADE "DIET TIPS",.REALLY???? .WHATS THEIR TIP ??!!!! DONT EAT!!!! NO THANX ,I'M HERE TO GEY FIT AND HEALTHY ,THATS ALL FOLKS!!! JUST SAY'IN~AMEE

    YEAH! WTF IS THERE TIP? JUST SAYIN! LOL!
  • reweldt
    reweldt Posts: 55 Member
    I dont either:(
    lol
  • WifeNMama
    WifeNMama Posts: 2,876 Member
    This is also a site where people would like to be talked to in a reasonable tone of voice. Would you want strangers randomly coming up to you in the street and screaming into your face, while asking for your help? Unless they're on fire, I would probably assume they are the weirdo, mace them and run in the other direction.

    oh yeah, I forgot. Smooches. :huh:
  • xHelloQuincyx
    xHelloQuincyx Posts: 884 Member
    This is also a site where people would like to be talked to in a reasonable tone of voice. Would you want strangers randomly coming up to you in the street and screaming into your face, while asking for your help? Unless they're on fire, I would probably assume they are the weirdo, mace them and run in the other direction.

    oh yeah, I forgot. Smooches. :huh:

    i thought mine was to harsh so i added an actual answer lmao. now i know i just gotta add 'smooches'! :p
  • WifeNMama
    WifeNMama Posts: 2,876 Member
    This is also a site where people would like to be talked to in a reasonable tone of voice. Would you want strangers randomly coming up to you in the street and screaming into your face, while asking for your help? Unless they're on fire, I would probably assume they are the weirdo, mace them and run in the other direction.

    oh yeah, I forgot. Smooches. :huh:

    i thought mine was to harsh so i added an actual answer lmao. now i know i just gotta add 'smooches'! :p

    Apparently that or "cheers!:flowerforyou: " covereth a multitude of sins.My first reply was a helpful suggestion. It wasn't taken well. I tried. I'm on pills from minor surgery and in pain. My tact just died. haha
  • WifeNMama
    WifeNMama Posts: 2,876 Member
    LOUD NOISES!!!

    Hiya Cotso, how's it goin? :-)

    I LOVE LAMP!
  • blinkiii
    blinkiii Posts: 90
    I like weird friend requests, they make me look like I might be sane :huh: :bigsmile:

    Agreed! :drinker:
  • skonly
    skonly Posts: 371
    Love the Family Guy pic. I thought of that too when I read....grinds my gears. lol.
  • cotso
    cotso Posts: 86
    LOUD NOISES!!!

    Hiya Cotso, how's it goin? :-)

    I LOVE LAMP!

    I LOVE...CHAIR
    Can't wait for Anchorman 2
  • lindsy721
    lindsy721 Posts: 350 Member
    I never get messages from guys asking me to hop on their pole. :sad: Never get Herbalife shoved in my face here, either, although now that I typed that I'll probably have an ad pop up on my screen. The guys I do have on my FL are really helpful when I have a question about lifting, or anything really. I didn't have any guys at all on my FL til last year.
    Put up a default pic of a pole dancer and you'll get some males sending those kinds of requests. The decline button comes in handy! :-)
    I have a number of truly great and helpful guys on my FL, though, and no, they didn't send any "get on my pole" messages.
  • Zylahe
    Zylahe Posts: 772 Member
    :sad: i don't get weirdo friend request :sad:

    I don't get any friend requests. :brokenheart:
  • WifeNMama
    WifeNMama Posts: 2,876 Member
    LOUD NOISES!!!

    Hiya Cotso, how's it goin? :-)

    I LOVE LAMP!

    I LOVE...CHAIR
    Can't wait for Anchorman 2

    It's kind of a big deal.
  • AZDizzy
    AZDizzy Posts: 434 Member
    I like weird friend requests, they make me look like I might be sane :huh: :bigsmile:

    Agreed! :drinker:

    Me too!
  • jzaz903
    jzaz903 Posts: 306 Member
    Yeahhh if I get a request and any find where they found me(mutual friend, we both posted on a topic, etc) then I'm not adding them. And if they want to sell me something or are weird.. I'll delete them.
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    I never get messages from guys asking me to hop on their pole. :sad: Never get Herbalife shoved in my face here, either, although now that I typed that I'll probably have an ad pop up on my screen. The guys I do have on my FL are really helpful when I have a question about lifting, or anything really. I didn't have any guys at all on my FL til last year.
    Put up a default pic of a pole dancer and you'll get some males sending those kinds of requests. The decline button comes in handy! :-)
    I have a number of truly great and helpful guys on my FL, though, and no, they didn't send any "get on my pole" messages.

    I should try that just as an experiment :wink:
  • ShreddedTweet
    ShreddedTweet Posts: 1,326 Member
    Love the Family Guy pic. I thought of that too when I read....grinds my gears. lol.

    Derp! That's where I got it from you pair of geniuses!!! ;)
  • iWaffle
    iWaffle Posts: 2,208 Member
    Pretty much everyone in this discussion seems weird. I expect to receive several herbAlife requests.
  • lindsy721
    lindsy721 Posts: 350 Member
    Pretty much everyone in this discussion seems weird. I expect to receive several herbAlife requests.
    LOL!!!
  • elenathegreat
    elenathegreat Posts: 3,988 Member
    Pretty much everyone in this discussion seems weird. I expect to receive several herbAlife requests.

    Do u no where I can get sum herbalife?
  • FuneralDiner
    FuneralDiner Posts: 438 Member
    Weirdos need friends too. :(
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    i also don't add people who think they're the ****
    and i will send the herbalife to your mail
  • cordianet
    cordianet Posts: 534 Member
    I've only ever had one friend request, but their profile said they were looking for anorexic friends, don't know why they thought that was me, but I declined.
    As above I think not having a picture of yourself helps.

    well, you are obviously under weight in that blue head photo.


    Dude clearly needs some protein.

    I'd recommend breathing even before the protein. I promise, air does not have any calories!
  • Nerdy_Rose
    Nerdy_Rose Posts: 1,277 Member
    http://lifehacker.com/5930680/i-wont-hire-people-who-use-poor-grammar-heres-why
  • WickedBean
    WickedBean Posts: 244 Member
    WHY ARE YOU YELLING?
  • tumblyweed
    tumblyweed Posts: 416 Member
    I get a lot of Friend Requests and I have no idea where they come from. It's nice but I recently had to do a Friend Purge, because I feel fake saying the same thing on a bunch of threads. I kept a bunch of peeps that I felt connected to or that really seem helpful / motivating to me or that seemed to need the extra support.

    As for the Shake Sellers, yup, they get the delete. I have deleted about 5 of them and one Herbalife pusher.

    I also delete Lonely Boys: "D@mn, I just worked my butt off and I'm so h0rney I just wanna hump something!". True story. Who talks like that you ask. The guy I deleted and anyone else who's lookin' for nub in all the wrong places...
  • TropicalFlowerz
    TropicalFlowerz Posts: 1,990 Member
    lol..lol..lol..
    gotta luv joey

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