Working my last nerve...

MSeel1984

SO for those of you that saw my post last Friday, a nurse at work had told me "See-I don't think you look like you've gained weight...you look like you've lost. I overheard some nurses saying you look like you've put on weight."

Long story short, I ended up crying in my office because I'm working like a dog and watching what I eat in order to stay in good shape.

SO today, this same nurse starts pretty much telling me how to do my job and insulting how I do my job...she then proceeds to (no joke) raise her voice to me and harass me not once...or twice...but THREE times about this...she is insulting me as a professional and I'm just about to lose my **** and tell her exactly what I think of her.

She's working my last nerve. She's grumpy with everybody and I don't know if I can take it much more.

*gasp*. End of rant. I just hate when people tell me how to do my job AND insult my weight loss efforts...I'm less hurt than Friday. Now I'm just mad.

yoovie

you need to spit in her coffee now.

tmauck4472

The best way to handle this is to remind her that you know what your doing and your doing things your way not hers, and if she doesn't back off with the attitude it will get ugly because you can scream as loud and as much as she does.

MSeel1984

The best way to handle this is to remind her that you know what your doing and your doing things your way not hers, and if she doesn't back off with the attitude it will get ugly because you can scream as loud and as much as she does.

That's the thing-I'm actually quite a pleasant person. I don't approve of people who have to raise their voice and be rude to get what they want...

Not to mention that we practice different areas of patient care and it's a bit insulting to have her tell me how to do my job...She hasn't said anything else today, but heaven help her if she does...I'm not prepared to be crossed again today.

jen10st

This is awful behaviour. I think you need to speak to her in private and explain that her attitude is upsetting you and that you do know how to do your job properly. If she persists then take it further, no one needs that c**p at work x