Dinner with family

I have dinner with my family every Sunday and my family loves to make a lot of food. And I'm talking about soul food; baked macaroni and cheese, collard greens, candied yams, fried chicken, fried fish, cornbread, and the list goes on. I love food, which makes it hard for me to turn these things down. So when its my turn to cook at my place, I'd make a seafood platter, but nothing fried, everything's baked, grilled or steamed, but I'm running out of ideas. They love the food, but there are still those other Sundays I'd have to go over their house and look at all of that good food knowing that I can't enjoy it the way I'd like to. Are there any suggestions on what I should do for both situations?