UGH!!!!!! Need advice
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Normally I wouldn't talk to complete strangers about this, but I need help! It seems that my husband does not want me...in an intimate way! I mean it's been a while, and he just came home from work on a break.....I had literally just stepped out of the shower...and NOTHING!! Instead he asks for some pain pills(that I have due to multiple kidney stones) not caring that I am almost out. Pats me on the stomach gives me a little peck and leaves. I thought I was beginning to look good, but I'm beginning to think not! So flipping frustrated!! How can I seduce my husband?!?!?! Any advice is welcome!
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Tell him someone from your gym has been checking you out - that should get his A into G0
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Honestly it sounds like he was tired and in pain. It probably had nothing to do with you at all. I would simply wait until he's feeling better and try again.0
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Instead he asks for some pain pills(that I have due to multiple kidney stones) not caring that I am almost out.0
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Instead he asks for some pain pills(that I have due to multiple kidney stones) not caring that I am almost out.
That. Plus why assume you aren't sexy if he doesn't want to jump you every time you think he should.0 -
Give him the pain pills....a few shots of vodka....and then sit on his face. Works every time!0
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Instead he asks for some pain pills(that I have due to multiple kidney stones) not caring that I am almost out.
Ok yes I didn't explain that. He says they give him energy and he's working 16 hour shifts. No he is not in pain! And no this is a long standing problem about the intimacy! I'm at a complete loss on what to do anymore!0 -
Give him the pain pills....a few shots of vodka....and then sit on his face. Works every time!
This absolutley should work, excellent idea0 -
Instead he asks for some pain pills(that I have due to multiple kidney stones) not caring that I am almost out.
That. Plus why assume you aren't sexy if he doesn't want to jump you every time you think he should.
Point being he doesn't at all!! Maybe once a month if I'm lucky once every two weeks!0 -
Give him the pain pills....a few shots of vodka....and then sit on his face. Works every time!
I'll give it a shot!0 -
Text him some super sexy "money shots" of you and if that doesn't work then you may need to have a sit down talk with him. Maybe he's just in a rutt.0
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Instead he asks for some pain pills(that I have due to multiple kidney stones) not caring that I am almost out.
Ok yes I didn't explain that. He says they give him energy and he's working 16 hour shifts. No he is not in pain! And no this is a long standing problem about the intimacy! I'm at a complete loss on what to do anymore!0 -
Talk to him0
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Give him the pain pills....a few shots of vodka....and then sit on his face. Works every time!
:laugh: love it! :bigsmile:0 -
Try to initiate it in the bedroom if it doesn't work by then...I would suggest talking.0
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He's taking pain pills not prescribed for him? And how often does he do this? Narcotic painkillers, especially excessive use, will kill a man's sex drive!0
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Instead he asks for some pain pills(that I have due to multiple kidney stones) not caring that I am almost out.
Ok yes I didn't explain that. He says they give him energy and he's working 16 hour shifts. No he is not in pain!
That doesn't sound good.0 -
I do not believe his addicted to the pills, he only takes them when working the night shift. To be honest this is a problem that has been going on for a while. We have talked about it! Things got real good then went back downhill! I know we all have ruts, but I just feel unwanted. I know he's not cheating, so that's not the problem.0
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Ask him you may not like what you hear but at least you will know and can deal with it0
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I have asked him, and his answer is sex isn't that big of a deal. Granted we have been together 10 years, but for a while in the beginning we could not keep our hands off each other! I'll admit I was the one who tried to get him into my bed first! He knew I was a girl who loved it when we got married! As I said we will have a talk, and afterwards we have two amazing weeks! Then it's back to the way it was! Example.....Last weekend we were at a big party lake. We were having a great time and he was showing me alot of attention! I was excited! When we got home nothing! I do admit that the next morning I woke him up and demanded it and got my way, but nothing since!0
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the real issue now is that you two have already problematised sex.
Can I suggest getting a little drunk, watch some porn, and see where it takes you? The less attention you can pay to the fact that its "been a while", the better.
Also some new lingerie. Subtle doesn't appear to work on dudes so go straight out filthy.0
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