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Am I starving my bf???

m0mofw4r
m0mofw4r Posts: 74 Member
edited December 2024 in Food and Nutrition
For the past month or so I've been trying to make more meals at home to eat healthier, well rounded meals. So I cook for both me and my boyfriend and always give him a much bigger serving. He is 6'2 about 300lbs and works in construction - if I'm hitting on or around my 1200cal goal even if I'm giving him double what I eat is that enough? He just started to work out and has lost a few pounds which is great but I want it to be a healthy loss. Any suggestions?

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  • jcpmoore
    jcpmoore Posts: 796 Member
    The best suggestion I can give you is to let him manage his own weight loss journey. You're cooking for both of you. He's a grown man. He will tell you if he's still hungry or he'll do something about it. Trust me-no man is going to let you starve him. Relax and don't worry about it.
  • The best suggestion I can give you is to let him manage his own weight loss journey. You're cooking for both of you. He's a grown man. He will tell you if he's still hungry or he'll do something about it. Trust me-no man is going to let you starve him. Relax and don't worry about it.

    This, he'll sort himself out, don't worry
  • gingerjen7
    gingerjen7 Posts: 821 Member
    Get him on MFP and then he'll know whether or not he's eating enough for his health goals.
  • m0mofw4r
    m0mofw4r Posts: 74 Member
    The best suggestion I can give you is to let him manage his own weight loss journey. You're cooking for both of you. He's a grown man. He will tell you if he's still hungry or he'll do something about it. Trust me-no man is going to let you starve him. Relax and don't worry about it.

    Lol! That sounds right - although he is the type of guy where if I don't pack him lunch he'll either go without eating or go to McDonald's for large triple quarter pounder combo.
  • SueInAz
    SueInAz Posts: 6,592 Member
    The best suggestion I can give you is to let him manage his own weight loss journey. You're cooking for both of you. He's a grown man. He will tell you if he's still hungry or he'll do something about it. Trust me-no man is going to let you starve him. Relax and don't worry about it.
    I have to agree with this one. If he were still hungry he'd be letting you know, either by saying something or eating a lot between dinner and bedtime. I can't really imagine anyone starving on 2400 calories per day, no matter how big.
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