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LADIES what is the most important thing a man must have ?

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    Well .... the thing here is there is something you are looking for before you even look I know I have seen me do it !!! so even if you are not looking you have an idea of what you are and are not looking for !!!!!!!!!!!
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    Silly question tbh, we don't want one quality, we want a bunch of good qualities that make him 'him'.

    No good being funny but being a jerk.

    xx
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    Honesty. I cannot stand a liar. If a man is honest, then that is the most important thing to me :)
  • Posts: 226 Member
    sense of humour.
    a guy who can make me laugh and hold a conversation is such a priority over looks.
  • Posts: 129 Member
    sense of humor!
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    He must be intelligent. My husband is the smartest bloke I know :)
    Oh and endless patience with me. Because I am not the easiest person in the world to live with!!
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    Love and respect for me:love:

    A job would be nice but a d*ck is a must...
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    After being with my ex I would say job and overall respect and love for the woman he is with.

    This is my ex too...Any other guy in my life must be very different.
    EX called me fat and stupid all the time and still does ---must be an issue with him since I am not Fat and make more money than he does and have a college degree. I think it made him feel better about himself.
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    Self relient, motivated,always wanting to learn or be curious. A leader.
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    He's gotta have respect for his family, my family, friends, himself and I. He's got to respect my choices.
    He's got to have motivation for his health, job, life, you get the drift.
    He's got to be able to make me laugh and not take life too seriously. I'm a really jokey person and when I'm with someone I like to just goof around and I'd like someone who won't stare at me like I'm a complete loser, and just mess around with me lol.
    He has to be supportive, I have anorexia and I need to know you won't judge me if I start to relapse, but will help me back up again.
    He's got to be loyal and trustworthy. And patient, I have never done it before but I wasn't walking with jesus back then, I won't sleep with someone just because we're in a relationship, we have to be married first, I get most people aren't like that these days but my faith is important to me, more important than trying to keep a guy happy by sleeping with him.
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    A penis is really all I need.
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    I’ll pretty much talk to anyone because you really can’t tell much until you start talking to someone. But in order for me to keep talking to them they must:

    Must be kind to animals.
    Must take care of their children if they have any.
    Must treat women with respect.
    Must be capable of taking care of themselves.
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    A cake. A really big one.
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    1. Intelligence.
    2. A sense of humor.
    3. Honesty.
    4. He must like dogs.
    5. Nerdy.
    6. A Job or school.
    7. Goals.
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    A penis is really all I need.


    LOLOLOLOLOL
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    Multiple, multiple cats.
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    Basic, polite social skills.
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    A job.

    :laugh:
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    A good heart and sense of humor.
  • Posts: 88 Member
    respect - which i think would make him wanting to ensure he has a job, would ensure he was honest with himself and others and wouldnt take himself too seriously, so would have a GSOH
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    A cake. A really big one.

    That's a lie, by the way. The cake part.
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    Honesty. . . . tired of the liars, cheaters and no good womanizers. . . .

    im getting to old for that
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    Respectful!
  • Posts: 88 Member
    Intelligence.....intelligence is intoxicating.

    i agree totally with that :smile:
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    A sense of humor and intelligence are tied for first place. :flowerforyou:
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    I agree with the dominance part.
    I want to be the girl in the relationship. haha

    See, I prefer the same thing. I like strong men. If I have to take charge the rest of the time I want to be able to let him take charge when we're together.
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    The ability to take care of himself :P I want a man who can take of me (not that I need to be taken care of), not a boy who I have to take care of.
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    I don't think it is just what he has but what you have together!
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    Motivation/Determination/Goals(Times are tough- so I won't say a job...but you must at least actively be looking for one- I have a kid to support- I won't support a grown *kitten* man who isn't trying)
    . And close behind that - a sense of humor.
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    Personal Motivation, which covers a lot of areas to me. Motivation for his job, his personal life, his health etc. I also date Geeks lol

    ^^^ This. Even about the geeks! Last Christmas, my husband gave me a shirt that says "I <3 My Geek."

    He loves me and I embrace his geek-ness! :love:
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