Ladies---boob help!
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oh yes. my E cup problem!
and really, the only thing for it is to get over it. stand up straight and stick them out always
if you walk around feeling self-conscious, you'll slump to try to hide it, and slumping makes you look far heavier.
i wear a lot of stretchy tops, which demonstrate the presence of my boobs, but they do also demonstrate the presence of one wibbly tummy
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Yah, sadly I'm a bit bigger than that. UGH! I always find myself slouching because the are SO heavy!! I went to a specialty store to be sized, and once I get paid next week I'll be buying a bra that actually fits. I hope that helps some. I can't win. Either my boobs are squished and uncomfy, or my shirt is stretched out everywhere but my chest.0
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Wear different types of shirts.
A normal t-shirt fits weird on anyone with C+ cup.
Get shirts, dresses and tunics with a tie back, gathered at the waist or a belt around the waist. Something like that, instead of a straight shirt.
Dress according to your shape.
You can also look into how can draw the attention away from your breasts. Google it and you will find plenty about it.0 -
I'm a C cup, but I totally get what you're talking about! I suck at wearing t-shirts, but when there's darts just under the boob, it can give a nice look with the boobs contained, and what 'looks' like a slim tummy (though I definitely have a tummy that needs hidden at the moment).
Does that make sense?0 -
also, my flatmate is an H cup. from (covertly, i would NEVER comment on it) observing her, i can tell you that 1) a properly fitting bra will make a world of difference, and is worth every cent, and b) stretch fabrics are your friend0
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I hear ya. I'm breastfeeding, so what was once a slightly manageable situation is now outta control!
...sigh....0 -
Definitely try different necklines! I'm only a C (sometimes D depending on brand) but I do find I look I look heavier and bulkier when I wear regular T-shirts - the ones with the simple round collar sitting right at the neck. I've found V-necks and boat-necks and florentine necklines make me look like I've lost 10 pounds and a cupsize instantly. I think because they make the neck look longer and break up the torso a bit.0
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Definitely try different necklines! I'm only a C (sometimes D depending on brand) but I do find I look I look heavier and bulkier when I wear regular T-shirts - the ones with the simple round collar sitting right at the neck. I've found V-necks and boat-necks and florentine necklines make me look like I've lost 10 pounds and a cupsize instantly. I think because they make the neck look longer and break up the torso a bit.
Also...
...Unless you want to make your boobs look even bigger... Avoid horizontal striped tops.
Though I guess if you've got it and want to flaunt it - striped top is the way to do it! Lol!0 -
You definitely have to dress around them.. Mine are H and I have to choose wisely. Certain necklines make them look like they start at my chin, others make them look like they take up my entire torso. Empire lines help, as do vnecks ...0
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I was a J cup, now an E (I am so happy about this). I never wear button up shirts, always spend more on my bras than any other items of clothing (good scaffolding is important), and love jersey fabric (no gaping and does not have to make you look like you have no waiste line). I am also still very careful to avoid plunging knecklines.0
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I have this problem , sometimes I feel self concious and wear baggy tops which make me look like a heffer. Sometimes I don't give a crap and show them off, depends on my mood haha0
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I agree with neclkines being important. I NEVER wear proper tshirts... always one with a v-neck. Best way to go. 0
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V-necks & tops that can be tied in the back/worn with belt around the waist are best. I know for me sometimes I buy shirts a size bigger to fit the boobies but then they look like they're hanging on me and don't show my figure. So then you gotta work with that. Definitely start off with buying the right size bra. 0
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Yes, the bra will help, and try on lots of different styles of tops. I totally get the previous post about button-downs, they always spread apart! I also feel like a heffer when the boobs take over an outfit
< DD (down to a D now) cup, although my sports bra is squishing me big time in this photo!0 -
I can sympathize with everyone. I like Bali Minimizer bras. They at least do a little damage control when it comes to the girls' size. I also have to agree with the V-neck comment. I definitely look better in V-necks vs. a rounded. Absolutely NO stripes. I also don't wear button-up shirts because 1) if the shirt fits the boobs, it's way too big otherwise; and 2) most of the time there are gaps between the buttons, resulting in the need for safety pins.
I would say the first place to start is to go get fitted for a good bra and then dress from there. Try on a lot if different styles of shirts. Just because something doesn't look like your style on the hanger doesn't mean that it won't flatter you in all the right places.0 -
I'll never, ever, have this problem... *Sigh*
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I feel like my boobs make me look much heavier than I am, and most shirts look awful on me. Any one else have this problem?
Don't tell anyone, but I've found that my best fitting tops are maternity.0 -
Well, I used to have them, went from a D to a B, sad sad.............the weight loss took them away!0
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I am in the same club as you .. and I don't have a small waist.. which makes the whole tie back thing on a shirt not an option. However, I NEVER wear anything with a Square neckline. AND, patterns are your friend (though, I agree with others... no horizontal stripes). Also, to jump on the bandwagon- do invest in a good bra. Mine are $80 each (or more).. and I love mine. I don't love the cost.. but, find I really have no option to invest.
Oh.. and pay attention to the padding. While it may seem the opposite of what you want-- a little padding is good. WHY? you say? I really really hate it when people comment on how you can tell the temperature by my ta-tas !! Something to think about..
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Not to hijack the thread, but do the bigger frame ladies (like myself) notice that you don't feel colder temperatures like our slimmer counterparts?
I find that work colleagues at work feel cold temps more than me. I'm a size 16 (Australian). Do you think it has to do with extra padding?0 -
I have a sports bra that I love (Enell) but struggle to find a "good" everyday bra as suggested above. I'm probably too picky, because I'm looking for something that doesn't have seams all over the cup - I don't want to look like I've got a road map under my shirt. I also don't buy underwire because every one I've ever tried just digs into my ribs or that area next to the underarm. I'm not opposed to an underwire if it didn't do those sorts of uncomfortable things. Finally, I'd like to be able to get a color other than white or black.
Can anyone recommend a particular brand they've found to be comfortable or a store with multiple locations?
I'm not so concerned about cost as I agree that a good, durable bra is worth the $$$$ - afterall we wear them every day. I'm looking in the 42D range.
Thanks in advance for any suggestions~
OP-Sorry to sorta hijack your post, but I figure it fits under the how to dress category0 -
A well fitting bra can do wonders!
I never used to wear shirts as they would either gape or be too baggy at the waist. In the UK we have two great companies for those with a D+ cup. Not sure where you are, but if you are in the UK, try:
www.bravissimo.com - for bras/swimwear
and www.bravissimo.com/pepperberry/ - for clothes, and the shirts finally fit and look good. Yay!
If you are in the States, perhaps you have something similar? Or perhaps they ship?0 -
Not to hijack the thread, but do the bigger frame ladies (like myself) notice that you don't feel colder temperatures like our slimmer counterparts?
I find that work colleagues at work feel cold temps more than me. I'm a size 16 (Australian). Do you think it has to do with extra padding?
Very possible (also an AUS16). We very literally have more fat, which stores heat better.
Also: boobs are the best heaters ever. I have been busted sneaking hands down my top before.0 -
For button up shirts, I always wear one that fits with a sports bra underneath, and then unbutton the shirt slightly. That solves the buttons gapping near the chest as well as not having to wear an enormous shirt. And I like Lululemon tops- they are slightly higher than normal tanks so you are not crazy cleavage lady....0
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Same problem, I am only a DD however I have lost 77lbs and they havent gone down one bit. At 242lbs and a size 18 you look normal with DDs, but at 164 in a size10 you look off balance.
I find that mine are much less perky then they were before two breastfed kids and weigthloss, if I have a good bra that lifts them up and holds them without shoving them into my chin, I look instantly 10lbs lighter at least0 -
To add to the actual thread: V NECKS. I'm a 16DD and I wear nothing high necked. Also avoid patterns on the top half - at best they'll draw attention to the boobage, at worse, your boobs will stretch it all out of shape.
Would also suggest some physio time. I didn't think I was overly hunchy, but that amount of weight on your front can do some bad things to your back muscles without some additional exercises. Good posture will help everything.0 -
I can relate being a 36H..and like the poster above me I lost 50lbs previously and I didn't lose a cup size...(they actually went up from36DD to36H).
Always keep your posture straight. I have also found that wearing,v-neck,boatneck, or scoop shirts dont make you look as big as say, tshirts, or any shirt with a high neckline...
and GREAT bras as well..CACIQUE is where I get mine...
Just remember, stand tall, stand proud, and we were blessed....show 'em if you got 'em girl!!!!0 -
i'm a 42D... the only bras i find comfortable are sports bras because underwire, even plastic underwire kills. i mostly wear shirts made for men so they're bigger in the chest. it sucks not to be able to find anything girly to wear. the only shirt i have with ties at the waist or cinching or anything just make me look pregnant because i have such a chunky stomach!0
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I feel like my boobs make me look much heavier than I am, and most shirts look awful on me. Any one else have this problem?
I was a HH and it didnt matter how much weight I lost the cup size never went down. I was tired of having to order bras from overseas and nothing I wore fit right and I always looked heavier than I was because of the hoots. I have already had back surgery and have arthritis in my shoulders, neck and spine so instead of fighting it all I got a breast reduction this last June. Insurance paid for it. Best thing I ever did. The surgeon couldnt go any smaller than a DD (too much shock to the body) but I am so happy with the outcome. She removed 7 lbs of tissue! No more pain and everything fits nicely!0 -
Hi, I now only ever buy proper fitted bras. They will change your shape completely, for the better. When I first started losing weight (not on MFP) I bought two fitted bras and did not buy any more untill I lost more weig.ht as luckily I am pleased to see it came off by bust first haha, chuffed. If I may say so, you may also find that it takes a little getting used to as you may not be used to looking so pert.:blushing:0
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