7 year itch (plus some)

jammet80

i consider myself happily married for over ten years. We have some issues. I'm getting tired of him being irresponsible. Doesn't pay enough attention to me. etc etc. Problem is, i have found myself fantasizing about other men. Feel yucky for it! It's not intentional. Anyone else feel similar? Suggestions?

pain_is_weakness

it happens sometimes, all i can say is you need to express yourself openly and honestly about how you feel about him and what you need from him. Try doing it telling "I feel this, when you do that" not YOU . . .You . . .You!

I wouldn't mention the fantasizing part to him but that is just me, once you get the relationship from him you need you most likely won't feel a need for that, if you do thatn maybe it is not something that can be fxed but you never know he may not care.

I think you need to figure out if you are just sexually lusting after others or you are searching for an emotional connection or the "perfect man" in you head


good luck

brandiuntz

Consider marriage counseling. You both need to be willing to sit down, communicate your issues/concerns, and find solutions together.

TropicalFlowerz

try having a "Wish Day".....one day/wk or month you get a wish ...something u want from him...& he gets a turn aswell,it can be alot of fun,and draw you closer!