would you ever not date someone because they are chubby?

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TropicalFlowerz

nope,......chubby,thick,....stocky......for me it's better than boney/skinyy....not my cup of tea.

Gremlinz

It's all about personality, attitude, and compatability!

trevpimp

Yez. I have an ex girlfriend that's chubby, shes not chubby now. Shes hot now actually haha

GeekyGoddess

I place value on who a person is, not what they look like on the outside. That being said, even chubby dudes don't ask me out.

BrokenBarbiexoxo

It depends what you find attractive, you obviously need to be physically attracted to someone as well as their personality, I like fit men with a bit of muscle so personally I wouldn't because I wouldn't find it attractive.

AshGetsFit1989

I dated someone who was in shape then got kinda fat......It completly turned me off them. I am not fat so It frustrated me that they let themselves go. Luckly for me, my current and hopefully life partner is a mega fitness junkie! There is not a day where he does not work out, keeps me on my toes. I've lost weight being with him as his healthy lifestyle has influenced me greatly :-D

Sherbog

absolutely

RubyRubixcube

I'll admit to being a bit of a "chubby chaser" I've dated one really big guy, few chubby people and very lean guys.. I"m currently fattening up my bf :P

msafunk

I do think that having a physical attraction to someone plays a pretty major part in a relationship, however the things that make up that physical attraction aren't just skin-deep.

When I first met my boyfriend, he was a bit chubbier than I usually like my guys, but the way he carried himself and the way he cared about me was enough to make me crazy for his body. He's lost weight since we met, but that's because he went from a desk job to one on his feet.

EDesq

Not That Alone!!! If she is pretty, intelligent, good personality and attitude, Spiritually and Emotionally sound. Guess what, ANYONE I date has to fill that bill...Not necessarily in that order, but every component has to be there. Foget a "slim" chick if she is UGLY...you can get rid of weight but UGLY is Forever!!! Stupid is NOT My thing so "air heads" are out and Mean chicks stink!

susiebear29

depends if I found them attractive or not?!!!! attractiveness is way more complicated than being based solely on someones weight/body shape!! I have an ED so I understand what it's like to have issues with food, however I would struggle to spend alot of time with someone who wasn't active or didn't like exercise because it's such a big part of my life!!

Tank_Girl

Im the chubby one in our relationship although I was skinny when I met him.. You couldnt put weight on my fella if you tried and believe me ive tried... He looks better with a little weight on him.

Shadowsan

Well the missus supposedly specifically picked me because i'm carrying a little timber. She associated being bigger with being able to look after her whilst at the same time being cuddly, i.e. 'gentle giant'.

What she doesn't realise is a few years before I met her I was lean and mean lol - so when I start getting closer to that point i'm gonna have to be careful she doesn't go off me hahaha!

Besides - is it just me, or do women _really_ like to feed up their men? lol!

1Tim4v8

No, I find chuby as being comfy, I love love love my husbands lean hard body for what it can do, but I would also love his body if it got soft and chuby, for its snugglebility

RainHoward

I'll admit to being a bit of a "chubby chaser" I've dated one really big guy, few chubby people and very lean guys.. I"m currently fattening up my bf :P

Hey, how YOO doin?

NeonRainbow83

I'd only not date someone I don't get on with. Attraction is more than skin deep anyhow.

kendrafallon

I'll admit, I prefer a guy with some meat on his bones, but too much and it's a real turn off! Saying that, it's me that's the one on the chunky side, though that didn't stop me dating before!!

shelbyfrootcake

Chubby I'm fine with, but I would find someone very big a turn off. My preference is a more slender man though.

cristalloseweight

No but not because they are chubby....just because it is not what I am attracted too. But on the flip side I am on this site due to gaining 30lbs from my once fit frame. Because I wouldn't want to date someone who went from fit to chubby I don't expect anyone to wan to date me until I am back to my normal size. I know it works both ways and I wouldn't expect anyone to do something I wouldn't.

marie_cressman

Well, I have dated chubbier men and thinner men. I found both attractive for different reasons. My husband is lean and fit though. "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"... yes cliche, but still very true. It's all on what you find attractive. I liked bigger men because... well they were bigger than me usually (I was 304lbs at my heaviest in my late teens/early 20s). They could wrap their arms around me and it was like snuggling with a bear. LOL I am attracted to thinner/fit men also though. My husband can wrap his arms around me. He's not all bones. He's strong (he could lift me at a heavier weight... of course it's easier now that I have almost lost 100lbs since we met.. LOL). Honestly though, he's not everyone's ideal physically. I have had a friend ask me what I saw in him because he isn't the conventional definition of handsome I guess (which for the record is rude... do not tell your friends "your husband is ugly... what is wrong with you? because they might just say... "YOU are ugly... what is wrong with your husband??" LOL. It doesn't matter though. I think he's handsome. I like the way he looks and wouldn't change anything about him.

Poods71

If I find them attractive and they have a good personality then yes. My husband was a bit chubby when I met him and it didn't stop me lol. He has now lost 3 stone and is buff and making me feel chubby :sad: :laugh:

apocalypsepwnie

No. I men who are soft in the middle are my type. I don't actually find gym junkies very attractive.
I don't like them huge, but just enough ya know lol. As long as they take pride in their appearance (aren't slobs).
My boyfriend is a very good dresser and takes alot of care in his personal grooming.

BerryH

Yes. I've done it. A lovely chap who was clever and funny and absolutely adored me. I just couldn't face the idea of getting nekkid with him. When I was at my largest too. I know, I'm shallow :ohwell:

Karma wins out though; I suspect I didn't get many second dates when I was internet dating around that time after the chaps realised my size in real life.

marie_cressman

Well the missus supposedly specifically picked me because i'm carrying a little timber. She associated being bigger with being able to look after her whilst at the same time being cuddly, i.e. 'gentle giant'.

What she doesn't realise is a few years before I met her I was lean and mean lol - so when I start getting closer to that point i'm gonna have to be careful she doesn't go off me hahaha!

Besides - is it just me, or do women _really_ like to feed up their men? lol!

To answer your question, yes some women tend to feed their men and put some weight on them. My husband was probably about 145-150lbs when we met 5 years ago. He's now 165-170lbs. Not my fault entirely though. It's his own fault for being so hungry all the time. He hasn't really gained a pant size in the last 5 years though so I guess that's good. I've been steadily trying to lose weight and he's been putting it on. LOL