Anyone else like this?

KxCoyote

I am only borderline overweight, but I want to be 'thin', flat stomach, etc. but I have no in-life support. My mom keeps saying I need to eat more, a lot more, she's been majorly obese since I was born and blames me for her weight while she eats all day long and hardly exercises, she doesn't support me at all, saying I'm a stick already. My only friend is my boyfriend, and he doesn't believe in physical beauty being true beauty. I'm not usually so vain, but I really want to look physically pretty, to me. for me. but it'd be nice to have support.


(Wow, i sound like a pre-teen, lol. No, I'm 19, but still live with my mother as I'm disabled by severe chronic migraines.)

cramernh

How tall are you and how much do you weigh?

marycmeadows

its hard to say whether or not you're eating enough since your diary is not public. but if all you want to do is 'tone' up your stomach, exercise would probably do the trick.

boxkat

Just be careful not to starve yourself.

And it sounds to me like maybe you could use some more social interaction if those are the only two sources of support in your life...