Why is it when you move on a guy will message you again?

I was talking to a guy and then he just neevr responded so I moved on and now hes messaging me :/

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  • EBFNP
    EBFNP Posts: 529 Member
    Usually they are looking for something....Same thing happened to me with a crush I use to have...then he disappeared. Now I am wiser I see he probably was just looking to see if he could hook up with me....
  • kmkgurl
    kmkgurl Posts: 321 Member
    He's just doing it when its convenient for him. bleh.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,956 Member
    Looking for a booty call.

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  • CyeRyn
    CyeRyn Posts: 389 Member
    I had this guy who wanted to go out and see if "we" had things in common. We took our kids out to the park and everything went well and all.. the next day I get a message from him about a girl he was seeing and blah blah.. in the back of my head I was thinking "oh boy and here I thought we hit it off... ". After that he just completely disappeared until one day I got a message from him "we broke up, what u up to?". Don't wait around to be 2nd choice... an *kitten* is an *kitten*.
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