If I lose the weight....

jadesign19

Was talking to a good friend yesterday. I've lost a significant amount of weight in the last few years. She asked if things have gotten better with my husband since I'm now so much thinner. I shrugged. She said her husband would be soo happy if she lost weight. I told her that's what I thought too.

Later I thought about how hard I worked to make myself more attractive and change inside as well. And I realized things have not changed like I imagined they would. in fact, things are just harder. I'm like a hamster on a treadmill. I know this is now my lifestyle and I'm on this journey for me and me alone.

But I guess today I'm feeling like a hopeless romantic.

It be great to hear a good story. One about how you worked so hard, and your spouse loves you more for it. How you landed the dream job because you have the confidence you didn't have because the weight. I'd love to hear the stories of your friends and family compliment you. I'd love to hear the "positive", inspirational stories. So please post if you can.