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kodijhill
kodijhill Posts: 116 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
has anyone actually dated on this site i mean it is for weightloss but hey there are some really nice poeple right i need help i want to get out of my relationship cause the guy is so mean anymore and i cant take it im so miserable but i love his company when he is nice i need an escape person i know that sounds terrible but im afarid ill never find anyone else

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  • JessigirlJb
    JessigirlJb Posts: 656
    going thru a divorce.. and i have met alot of great guys on here for sure. but i have realized i need to make myself happy and if others are involved, well thats great but i dont want to need anyone to be happy. love yourself first!
  • Mguilmot
    Mguilmot Posts: 232 Member
    I couldn't if I wanted to. All my MFP friends are from other countries. Downside of being from Belgium on this site I guess :p
  • ShreddedTweet
    ShreddedTweet Posts: 1,326 Member
    Surely you need to be properly out of one relationship before jumping into dating some random from a fitness site? Are you afraid of being alone? If so, dating someone else is the wrong thing to do. Ditch this guy, spend some time on your own, THEN move on.
  • tennisbabe94
    tennisbabe94 Posts: 444 Member
    I wouldn't suggest dating on this site, just because it is focused on fitness. There are dating sites that you could try. Most importantly though, if you really feel that way about your relationship, have you communicated your feelings to him? Have you tried fixing things? If so, and nothing has changed, it's time to move on. If you really feel that way, it's about time to kick him to the curb. If you're on MFP, it means you're ready to change your life for the better, while you're on this path, why not eliminate the negative people in your life? It only makes sense. Focus on you first, keep bettering yourself. When you embrace yourself, you'll realize you're worth more and that there are so many guys out there, you will find someone else. It doesn't make sense to stay with someone that's making you miserable only because you don't think you'll find someone else or are afraid to be alone. If you don't try, you'll never know. Just remember to love you first.
  • LittleMiss_WillLoseIt
    LittleMiss_WillLoseIt Posts: 1,373 Member
    Surely you need to be properly out of one relationship before jumping into dating some random from a fitness site? Are you afraid of being alone? If so, dating someone else is the wrong thing to do. Ditch this guy, spend some time on your own, THEN move on.

    ^^ what she said! =)
  • annie_banannie
    annie_banannie Posts: 65 Member
    Surely you need to be properly out of one relationship before jumping into dating some random from a fitness site? Are you afraid of being alone? If so, dating someone else is the wrong thing to do. Ditch this guy, spend some time on your own, THEN move on.

    Exactly. You don't need to be running from one man to another.

    Dump the guy who treats you poorly and figure out WHY you are afraid to be on your own.
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