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I don't do needy.
And apparently I make guys feel insecure because they always turn needy on me.
I hear about girls who are texting every few seconds. Girls who are constantly calling. Girls who are constantly updating their SO's but not me. I tend to be a little TOO quiet... and then I get these guys who have to text me every second and check in ALL THE TIME and I dump them before the second date because I can't tolerate it. At all.
So ... where ARE the needy girls? Really? Because all I ever see are needy guys. :P
I am a Needy GF... but my BF travels alot like he will be gone for up to 2 months at a time so when he is home I expect him to make up for all the lost time. We work together we drive to work together and we live together, we also snowborad, bike, run, hike, and relax together.0 -
Neediness is a turn-off. Quite honestly, however, in past relationships, it bothered me far less if she was especially smart and attractive. In those cases, I viewed it as her being attentive rather than needy. I get the sense that you're really not attracted to him and that you don't find him particularly interesting.
If you're not really serious with the guy and he's telling you his every move -- that's weird. You certainly can't be blamed for thinking it's strange.0 -
for starters- he's VERY needy- like if I don't text him back immediately he freaks out (mind you, I have a 2 yr old and a full time job- i'm sorry I can't exactly text 24/7 - ) AND HE ALWAYS TELLS ME HIS EVERY MOVE... 'driving.' 'at work' 'leaving work' 'lunch' 'dinner' 'gym' .....so on and so forth- I mean- cool, I don't think i'd ever have to QUESTION where he's going b/c he TELLS ME .....but I really DON'T NEED TO KNOW EVERY SECOND OF YOUR DAY.... luckily, he hasn't started with the 'taking a s^it' yet but it still urks my nerves.....
My fiance has the exact opposite problem.. He won't answer his damn phone. Now, I'm not a needy human being. At all. It is not uncommon for me to wake up and go to work all day and not have any communication with him until I get home. That's just how it is. I'm at work.. I have nothing exciting to say.. Don't need to talk.
BUT LIKE THE ONE TIME THAT I NEED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT SOMETHING IMPORTANT HE WON'T ANSWER.
Why. Why. Why. Why. Why.
I don't call him over and over and over and over. I will text him once and if 30 minutes goes by, I'll call him. But he always forgets to take his phone off silent or he leaves it in the car or outside or whatever. It's not just me, either. His family and friends will text me asking if he's alive or not.
I mean, maybe it's a good thing he's not so dependant on his phone. I can't go anywhere without mine..
Maybe he is busy with his girlfriend
But I'm the only one allowed to have girlfriends.0 -
Oh no, i'm attracted to him! I just don't like needy people. My son is two- he's the only one allowed to be needy!!0
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I wonder if he gets annoyed that you don't know how to spell 'irk'?
F! That sucks, I am such a grammar nazi too, and I hate when I spell words incorrectly. Oh well, can't always be right. Thanks though, changed it.
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Well no So for me but the guy I'm dating seems to have a punctuality problem. I hate being late. So if he tell me he will be there to pick me up at 10 Im ready before 950. He is usually atleast 15 min late. So I have just started mentally adding 10-20 minutes to whatever times he tells me he is picking me up lol..
I dont do needy men I also dont like jealous men. I have alot of platonic male friends and you have to be able to handle that if you want to date me0 -
What annoys me:
When people use the abbreviation DH or DW to refer to their spouse. "Oh hey honey I love you enough to call you dear but not enough to write the whole thing out"
Comments on cooking sites. "OMG this scampi is so good! I just made a few little changes: used beef instead of shrimp, added some tomato sauce and oregano, and served it over angel hair pasta. YUM!!!!!!"
On a similar note: Rachel Ray. "OMG these delish sammies with EVOO are totally yummo!"
People who refuse to let you change lanes on the highway. "What's that? He's turning on his turn signal? BETTER SPEED UP DERP"
People who make get video game facts wrong. "LIEK MY BOYFRIEND PLAYS GAMES ALL THE TIME, HE PLAYS MADDEN ON HIS PLAYSTATION 360."
Oh you meant things about my significant other. Nope, can't think of a thing.0 -
Neediness is a turn-off. Quite honestly, however, in past relationships, it bothered me far less if she was especially smart and attractive. In those cases, I viewed it as her being attentive rather than needy. I get the sense that you're really not attracted to him and that you don't find him particularly interesting.
If you're not really serious with the guy and he's telling you his every move -- that's weird. You certainly can't be blamed for thinking it's strange.
Good point. Never thought of that, in that way.0 -
I mean, seriously....god forbid he texts me and by 5 minutes from that text I still haven't responded "night" is what I get.. then when I say "I was driving" or "I was giving my son a bath" he's like 'Oh, well I just figured you didn't want to talk to me' Ummm dude- chill, it was FIVE FREAKIN MINUTES.0
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Towels, when wet, don't belong on the bed/floor - the same applies to your clothes. Pick them up, put them away or on the radiator....please. Put the used tea bag in the bin, put the foil top from the milk in the bin, clean the work top when you have spilled something, don't leave stuff all over the damn house, then moan at me because I haven't moved one pair of shoes from near the door (that were surrounded by 5 pairs of yours).
Oh - and if you say you'll cook dinner as I've been away all day, please actually cook it for both of us, not just you.0 -
Towels, when wet, don't belong on the bed/floor - the same applies to your clothes. Pick them up, put them away or on the radiator....please. Put the used tea bag in the bin, put the foil top from the milk in the bin, clean the work top when you have spilled something, don't leave stuff all over the damn house, then moan at me because I haven't moved one pair of shoes from near the door (that were surrounded by 5 pairs of yours).
Oh - and if you say you'll cook dinner as I've been away all day, please actually cook it for both of us, not just you.
BREATHE!!! LOL I could hear the irritation in your post.0 -
Stalking and neediness. I have a child already I don’t want another to raise. MAN UP!
Your pic is awesome haha!
What bugs me the most about a significant other is probably when they are cruel or mean to thier friends. It shows me alot when a girl is willing to ignore or not even forgive a good friend. Shows me what we will be like in a few years (if it lasts that long!)0 -
My hubby & I have a very secure marriage, but sometimes, it's like he is the woman and I am the man when it comes to who talks more. I love that he likes to talke to me, but sometimes I just want quiet after a long day! :grumble: Also, he loves eating crap food.0
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He gets to eat whatever he wants and not gain weight! :grumble:0
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The lack of support or belief that I have made a change to a healthier life. I was fit a lot longer than I was fat so she should know that I prefer this way.0
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He leaves lights on when he leaves the bathroom. And when I go and turn it off, he says "Sorry, I wasn't sure if I'd go back in". Now, I tend to wait until about 10 minutes after he exits, but it bugs the crap out of me...it's my apartment and I pay the electric bill...0
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for the win!The calluses on my right hand sometimes are uncomfortable0 -
This is what annoys me:
Me: What do you feel like eating tonight?
Her: Anything, I don't care.
Me: Okay, let's have some Italian.
Her: No, I don't feel like Italian.
Me: Okay, what about seafood?
Her: No, not seafood.
Me: So what do you want to eat?
Her: I don't care.
Me: OMFG! GTFO my car!0 -
Lots of things. 0 -
This is what annoys me:
Me: What do you feel like eating tonight?
Her: Anything, I don't care.
Me: Okay, let's have some Italian.
Her: No, I don't feel like Italian.
Me: Okay, what about seafood?
Her: No, not seafood.
Me: So what do you want to eat?
Her: I don't care.
Me: OMFG! GTFO my car!
Oh yesss, that would annoy anyone!0 -
He leaves lights on when he leaves the bathroom. And when I go and turn it off, he says "Sorry, I wasn't sure if I'd go back in". Now, I tend to wait until about 10 minutes after he exits, but it bugs the crap out of me...it's my apartment and I pay the electric bill...
Yeahhh, if you're paying the bill he should turn the light off. If / when he goes back on- he can turn it back on. It's not hard to flip a switch.0 -
that would annoy the crap out of me. i don't think i could deal with that. what annoys me about my SO is that he gets super jealous. don't get me wrong, i don't mind a bit of jealousy because it shows he cares, but he goes a bit overboard sometimes. a comment from another dude could totally ruin a date night out for us. it has in the past and i had to spend the rest of the night being told how it is my fault for dressing the way i do and blah blah blah...like, damn! i don't work my *kitten* off in the gym to wear a freakin muumuu!0
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needyness for sure. It can feel like you are being used0
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This is what annoys me:
Me: What do you feel like eating tonight?
Her: Anything, I don't care.
Me: Okay, let's have some Italian.
Her: No, I don't feel like Italian.
Me: Okay, what about seafood?
Her: No, not seafood.
Me: So what do you want to eat?
Her: I don't care.
Me: OMFG! GTFO my car!
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He leaves lights on when he leaves the bathroom. And when I go and turn it off, he says "Sorry, I wasn't sure if I'd go back in". Now, I tend to wait until about 10 minutes after he exits, but it bugs the crap out of me...it's my apartment and I pay the electric bill...
Yeahhh, if you're paying the bill he should turn the light off. If / when he goes back on- he can turn it back on. It's not hard to flip a switch.
Oh, trust me, we've already had that conversation. I think he really just forgets and comes up with a stupid excuse. I do love him, I just don't love that...0 -
This is what annoys me:
Me: What do you feel like eating tonight?
Her: Anything, I don't care.
Me: Okay, let's have some Italian.
Her: No, I don't feel like Italian.
Me: Okay, what about seafood?
Her: No, not seafood.
Me: So what do you want to eat?
Her: I don't care.
Me: OMFG! GTFO my car!
OMG This is my husband!!! Then he wonders why I don't cook!!!0 -
Husband has very low activation energy - like, if he's on the computer, he will be on the computer ALL DAY. If I make him clean up, he wants to clean EVERYTHING all at once. He's perfectly happy with exercising, but he wants to go on a four hour bike ride... even if it's night time. But once you're married it's different... all these little annoyances are part of the great overall package that you bought into! To be honest, I probably wouldn't go any further with this guy because that would annoy the crap out of me to be "accountable" to him at all hours of the day. I don't even have a regular cell phone for that reason...
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Walks in and puts tv on and flicks.
Never ever washes dishes.
Never replaces toilet roll.
Leaves wet towels on floor.
Treats me like an idiot (I have a masters degree in Education)
Says crying is just a form of manipulation.
Makes me ask for money and makes me say what I spent it on.
Says we have no money then buys brand new Range Rover.0 -
The calluses on my right hand sometimes are uncomfortable
I would recommend a good hand cream.
You should also probably do something to treat the calluses.0 -
Hmmm. He can be a little bossy.. and sometimes when he gets an idea or a new interest, he can get very narrow focused and sort of shut out everything else! Then again, I think that happens with most men and as much as it annoys me I love him for it at the same time.
seriously though... i'm not the type who needs attention at all times, but when I'm at his place and he plops down in front of the computer and starts playing a game, I have brainscreams.0
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