Why would a man do this???

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  • Sick_Beard
    Sick_Beard Posts: 407 Member
    He just wants to have sex with you, and he was worried that if you were seeing someone else, he wouldn't be able. to.

    Maybe he misses the conversations too!!! It`s not always about sex, maybe he thinkis the other guy in the van is a smooth talker??

    Trust me when it comes to your ex you are more concerned about the other guy having a larger #### than you
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    He just wants to have sex with you, and he was worried that if you were seeing someone else, he wouldn't be able. to.

    Maybe he misses the conversations too!!! It`s not always about sex, maybe he thinkis the other guy in the van is a smooth talker??

    Trust me when it comes to your ex you are more concerned about the other guy having a larger #### than you

    the size of your hashtag has nothing to do with it believe me!!!

    edited to add maybe for the guy with worries lmao!
  • Sick_Beard
    Sick_Beard Posts: 407 Member
    He just wants to have sex with you, and he was worried that if you were seeing someone else, he wouldn't be able. to.

    Maybe he misses the conversations too!!! It`s not always about sex, maybe he thinkis the other guy in the van is a smooth talker??

    Trust me when it comes to your ex you are more concerned about the other guy having a larger #### than you

    the size of your hashtag has nothing to do with it believe me!!!

    edited to add maybe for the guy with worries lmao!

    Obviously not but from a psychological point of view it is what men think when going through a breakup, whether the new guy is better in the sack.
  • tumblyweed
    tumblyweed Posts: 416 Member
    He just wants to have sex with you, and he was worried that if you were seeing someone else, he wouldn't be able. to.

    Maybe he misses the conversations too!!! It`s not always about sex, maybe he thinkis the other guy in the van is a smooth talker??

    Trust me when it comes to your ex you are more concerned about the other guy having a larger #### than you

    the size of your hashtag has nothing to do with it believe me!!!

    edited to add maybe for the guy with worries lmao!

    *giggles* She said... hashtag...

    ROFLMBO
  • robin52077
    robin52077 Posts: 4,383 Member
    Many moons ago, when I was in high school, us girls used to make a point to drive by the ex's houses to see if they had another girl over...but only when we still LIKED him, once we were over him, we stopped and moved on.
    This tells me 2 things. One, he's not over you. Two, he is as immature as a high school girl.
  • Tennessee2019
    Tennessee2019 Posts: 676 Member
    I'm sorry, but to me this is creepy.
    The relationship is over, but it sounds like he still likes to keep tabs on you.
  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,149 Member
    He just wants to have sex with you, and he was worried that if you were seeing someone else, he wouldn't be able. to.

    He hasn't gotten laid and knows you put out. Tell him to f**k off and if he keeps driving by, call the cops.
  • Cassie8877
    Cassie8877 Posts: 177
    Avoid phone calls n text messages.. if it gets to the point where u see.him.driving past more.i would start to worry
  • onedayillbeamilf
    onedayillbeamilf Posts: 966 Member
    He just wants to have sex with you, and he was worried that if you were seeing someone else, he wouldn't be able. to.

    Maybe he misses the conversations too!!! It`s not always about sex, maybe he thinkis the other guy in the van is a smooth talker??

    Oh. Is that why the van was shaking?
  • alienrite
    alienrite Posts: 314 Member
    Creepy is as creepy does. I used to have bouts of obsessing about unrequited affection and while I am 99% sweet, it becomes a dark place in your mind. I stopped because it even creeped my out.
  • Iceman1800
    Iceman1800 Posts: 476
    As a guy, I would say the woman he left you for dumped him. He is lonely now and is hoping you are too.
  • Yani51
    Yani51 Posts: 48 Member
    "Not feeling anything creepy he is definitely not the stalker type!" - You know him better than anyone in this forum. So, if there is nothing malicious about this guy I would think he really does miss you, for whatever reason, and he may regret the break up and drives past to check if you are seeing anyone else who may be a block to him getting back together with you.
  • mrs_deg1983
    mrs_deg1983 Posts: 157
    He likes you more then he know. Don't know what you have till you do not have it anymore.
  • shellihooten
    shellihooten Posts: 53
    If, in your gut, it feels creepy, it is. Trust your instincts.


    ^^^^^YES^^^^
  • iambuttercup
    iambuttercup Posts: 31 Member
    Sounds like he's honest and regretted the break up. Also sounds like he kept his distance while you were dating another. This dudes interested for sure...the driveby stalking bit is awkward, but sounds like it is probably easily dealt with when he knows if you are interested in resuming relationship or not. This guy sounds like he's not able to express himself easily, probably part of why it did t work out in the first place
  • tmauck4472
    tmauck4472 Posts: 1,785 Member
    OMG People paranoid much? Maybe just maybe he truly misses her and wants to see if someone else is in the picture to know if he may have another shot. You know the old saying....you don't know what you have until it's gone. He could be just trying to mess with her but I doubt it.

    He told her he misses her so now the ball is in her court. Are you happy with who you with now? Or do you want to go back and see if things are better? It's up to her.

    I can't believe all the stalker comments, lmao. You guys are a hoot.
  • emmab0902
    emmab0902 Posts: 2,338 Member
    As a guy, I would say the woman he left you for dumped him. He is lonely now and is hoping you are too.

    Er he didn't leave me for another woman. I broke things off.

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