Relationship problems - advice needed

sarahjenkins77

Hi, I need some advice as i have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 months. We know each other from our childhood and get on really well.

He's very keen and talks about a long term future, im a bit more cautious at this early stage. He has just booked a surfing hol which i knew he was planning but found out on facebook that he's going for 6 weeks. I trust him not to cheat and stuff like that, but deel hurt that a) he's happy to go away for such a long time without me, is he using me? Am i expected to wait? I'm disappointed that i hear about it via facebook and makes me feel unimportant.

I know this mat sound a bit bunnyboilerish but im a laid back person but just surprised at the length of time given thats its him being overly keen about our relationship.

We any thoughts appreciated

corn63

I would have an open and honest communication with him about your feelings. That's your best bet. Just lay it all out on the table. It's a good foundation to set a long relationship on too. If you start hiding thoughts/feelings from him now, it's going to become a tough habit to break.

Good luck!

Edit:

I apologize for giving such awesome feedback that nobody responded

digitalbill

Am I the only one who is envious that this guy is able to take six weeks off work to go surfing?