Why do people class themselves in leagues?

imchicbad

If you believe you are out of someones league- your retarded.

I think I love you.
THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS

I LOVE YA BACK!

LOOK: all im saying is you should never say never...because YOU NEVA' KNOW.:bigsmile: and you could be passing by the greatest love of your life because your simple minded.
Yeah I said it, I went there.:smokin:

imchicbad

i will stop thinking married women are out of my league

LOL- you went to far ................:laugh:

Nickf887

When I was in high school (and most of college, actually), I played into the "out of my league" thoughts ... Looking back though I think that I just lacked confidence in those areas.

Looking back there were a lot of girls who would flirt with me, but I brushed all of it off as "they're just being nice." it wasn't until college where it began to click (with the help of friends who would point things out to me)

Now more than ever I have bought in to the thought that I can get and deserve the best (really not trying to sound arrogant, just realizing my own great traits).

Oh absolutely not! It's really more of a feeling that I shouldn't settle for anything less than I deserve, and if I really like someone, that I should be confident and not sell myself short or get into the mindset of well "that person would never like me!"

I believe that we all have really special qualities, and I'm open to meeting anyone and learning about those qualities ... And that those qualities are so much more than superficial characteristics ... Qualities that exist deep in the cores of our being.
So then do you believe all but the most amazing women are out of their league if they approach you?

pixtotts

i guess essentially its a way for people to protect themselves from anyone who may cause rejection and pain... i think the roots of it probably lie in social classes...
the idea that someone wouldnt want marry below their station socially/economically has evolved to be applied to looks only reversing the judgement and guessing who wouldnt want them...

Some claim that social class has gone from modern society, that we have moved beyond class boundaries, maybe this is what it has become a much more superficial version of itself, based on looks and popularity... i dont know just a theory... i personally still believe social classes to be a big thing in society today - i am middle class, i have middle class values, i strive for a middle class job, i am attracted to middle class men because they share my middle class values and understanding, and can equally support a middle class lifestyle


(if you hadnt guessed by now I studied psychology and sociology )
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