Should I wait another 10/15lbs to wear this outfit?

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  • liittlebrunette
    liittlebrunette Posts: 90 Member
    I'm gonna go with being truthful

    Do YOU feel confortable in that outfit right now? or do you feel self-conscience? if the answer is B) self- conscience then I say no. Don't wear it yet, wait til you feel good and confident to wear it.

    If you're asking us if you need to lose more weight, do you feel that you do?

    You look good regardless
  • msafunk
    msafunk Posts: 163 Member
    If you feel confident, go for it! Just don't slouch! If you stand up straight, you'll look fantastic in it. If you slouch, it might look a bit small.

    It looks great on you in the pictures :)
  • MisterGoodBar
    MisterGoodBar Posts: 157 Member
    I say wear it, i think you look awesome!

    this!
  • JBennis1013
    JBennis1013 Posts: 377 Member
    Looks good to me!
  • YOU look great.......... but I won't tell you to wear that combo out anywhere - in the house or yard, fine...... huge flowers are tacky and cheap looking...... You're not smiling wearing it, so thats the cue
  • usedasbrandnew
    usedasbrandnew Posts: 300 Member
    Wow. Thanks everyone!

    I totally agree on the spanx - they make spanx tights! - however, this dress/shirt is so short that the darker part shows on the thigh area.

    I think with heels and better posture (guilty as charged) this would be doable at night, sooner than later. :)

    Thanks everyone, didn't expect so many responses!
  • nixism
    nixism Posts: 258 Member
    Looks great! As long as you feel comfy and happy in it!!! Go for it!
  • You look damn good to me. I say go for it!
  • MrsWonderland
    MrsWonderland Posts: 107 Member
    You have nice curves, you look good in it. Id wear it if I looked like that.
  • I think you look awesome! It really shows off your curves (in a good way lol)! I'd say go for it. Wish I looked that good, but I'm still working towards that!
  • LaurenAOK
    LaurenAOK Posts: 2,475 Member
    So I expected to come on this thread and find you looking not all that great in an outfit, only to have everyone telling you "wear it!!!" anyway (that's what I usually see around here... people are too nice to be honest, haha).

    But in this case, I was wrong! I can seriously say that you look really good and I say go for it!
  • drakechic08
    drakechic08 Posts: 156 Member
    Wear it. You look awesome!
  • Looks good, but if your not comfortable, wait a bit.
  • Jazzyrose77
    Jazzyrose77 Posts: 153 Member
    Wear it now. U look cute :)
  • lmelangley
    lmelangley Posts: 1,039 Member
    Looks good to me. but its all about how you feel in it.

    This. If you feel comfortable in it, wear it. If not, wait.

    But....

    If you're like me, losing the weight doesn't feel real. I picture myself much heavier than I am now - even though I know logically that I'm much smaller. It's hard to transition to different clothing styles if in your mind's eye you still feel too big. What you might want to do is try wearing the outfit in public for just a short amount of time - sort of testing the waters. As you become more comfortable in your own skin, you can wear it for longer periods of time.
  • gaylynn35
    gaylynn35 Posts: 854 Member
    I think it looks great!!
  • Oh miss thang, you better wear that outfit and strut your stuff, shake that booty and feel FAB-U-LOUS!!!!!
  • If you're going to wear boots over the pants, I say super cute. I don't care for where the bottom of pants hit your leg in relation to the length of the shirt. To me, tt makes your legs look very, very short. That's not an issue of weight though, you definitely don't look like you're wearing clothes that are too small.
  • sullykat
    sullykat Posts: 461 Member
    wear it! you look hot
  • Looks good to me. but its all about how you feel in it.

    This. If you feel comfortable in it, wear it. If not, wait.

    But....

    If you're like me, losing the weight doesn't feel real. I picture myself much heavier than I am now - even though I know logically that I'm much smaller. It's hard to transition to different clothing styles if in your mind's eye you still feel too big. What you might want to do is try wearing the outfit in public for just a short amount of time - sort of testing the waters. As you become more comfortable in your own skin, you can wear it for longer periods of time.

    I struggle with this myself. I swear for all the weight ivr lost you'd think is have so much confidence. Ha.

    To the OP, love it, you look so stinking cute in it. Rock it!!
  • I say go for it, but I would skip the leggings and go with some heels, will make your legs look SO MUCH longer. Be proud of your accomplishment, stand tall and proud and strut your stuff. Nothing is sexier than confidence!
  • Marc713
    Marc713 Posts: 328 Member
    First I'll say, don't buy into the media's portrayal of beauty. Second, many of us men appreciate a woman with good curves JUST as much as we do one with well defined abs or other attributes. You look great! If I saw you out I would likely at least flirt if you weren't with your man and didn't have a wedding ring on!

    Congrats...now it's time to flaunt your accomplishments!
  • Wear it girl! You look great!
  • You look really cute! Wear it!!
  • dharmawrites
    dharmawrites Posts: 25 Member
    You look great. Enjoy your hard work and wear the things you love.
  • Tiffikat
    Tiffikat Posts: 47 Member
    huge flowers are tacky and cheap looking

    Really? I'm no fashionista so perhaps I'm just clueless, but I was thinking it looked really cute. If I saw you out I would think you looked fun.
  • miss_ally08
    miss_ally08 Posts: 167 Member
    That's a beautiful top! I say wear it, you look very pretty girl! Be proud of your accomplishments :)
  • MikesterAZ
    MikesterAZ Posts: 67 Member
    Wear it with confidence, you look GREAT!!
  • chattipatty2
    chattipatty2 Posts: 376 Member
    Another 10-15 pounds, and you may find it too big. IMO, you look fabulous, flaunt it.
  • Uh..."stuffed sausage"??? No. But go with how you feel. If you feel uncomfortable, then you'll look uncomfortable. But in my opinion, I'd say you're rocking it! You look great!