Guys--what do you see when you...

TouchDownJesus

I it possible for you to feel as attracted to a woman after having seen her at her heaviest as you would a woman that you've only seen "in shape?" I know that as I lose weight, I am having issues with still seeing the grossness of fat, I guess I still see me as a "before" and can't picture the work in progress. I used to be told that I was on the sorta attractive side but I can't see that anymore...even as the lbs drop off and my pants fall down! Since its hard for me to see the new me, I'm just wondering if the same would hold true for a guy that's seen the old me? Any thoughts?

ironanimal

The working-hard-to-drop-the-weight-be-healthy-and-live-longer factor is attractive in of itself. Becoming lax and allowing yourself to rebound to that prior state would be unattractive.

Elf_Princess1210

Any man worth your time will love you no matter what you weigh.