Ways To Treat A Woman !!! What Would You Add ?
Be compassionate and understanding!!
A woman wants a man to tell her often how important she is to him and as well as showing her that in his actions! Flowers, a gift, a card!!
Give her thoughtful gifts -- women love surprises.
Give flowers for no particular reason without waiting for a birthday or holiday.
When you are spending time with her, make sure she has your attention.
Understand that little things mean a lot! A love note, rose, sweet text message or things like this just to let her know you are thinking of her and care for her.
Never ever forget her birthday, Christmas, New Years, Valentines Day, Mother's Day--all her friends are getting little love gifts and acknowledgment and women compare how thoughtful their man was.
Be polite and complimentary. Women like to hear "please", "I am sorry", "I promise" and "thank you." Also, ask her how her day is going. Just telling her she is wonderful often helps. Thank her for everything she does for you. In addition, recognize that there is more to her than the physical aspect. Compliment her efforts, like when she cooks or buys a nice meal.
Be a good listener. Have respect for her thoughts and opinions. Recognize her intelligence and strong points. Even if you don't agree with her, find good points from both perspective's. It's paramount to her knowing she is seen as a total person. Never cut her down, even if you are kidding. Find something unique about her that no one has ever told her about.
When you are in places where you can't be visibly affectionate, look at her and smile lovingly.' Be a gentleman, open the doors for her, hold out your hand or arm for her, some say this is "old fashioned", not the case. It is a sign of respect, and just common courtesy in public for both sexes. However, don't just do it in public, still common courtesy, at home also-put her first as she is a lady.
Be a good communicator. Listen to her, hear her out, and give eye contact to let her know you are giving full attention. Be interested in her. However, you also need to open up and tell her your thoughts, opinions, and problems, but wait until she is done telling you her thoughts. Do not interrupt. Help give ideas about possible solutions to problems, but praise her if she finds something other than what you suggest.
Brag about her to your friends and to hers. This is especially important as relationships grow. She'll like knowing she is appreciated and that his friends know you are in love with her.
In general, it's best not to say another woman is beautiful or attractive to you. Be respectful towards your woman in how you treat other women. Even if they are your friends. Any favors, gifts, gestures, looks, over-friendliness or flirting can be very threatening and is probably inappropriate. Don't compliment another woman on something that your girlfriend is struggling with or knows she just doesn't have (i.e.: a skill or something to do with appearance) this will only make your girl feel embarrassed and devalued.
Help around the house. If it needs to be done do it without expecting her to. Remember: Work is important, but the house work is both of your responsibility. Don't expect her to constantly pick up after you. One of the best ways to a woman's heart is to do house work!
Don't leave sexuality completely up to the woman if you're in a relationship together. If you feel like the time is right, gently let her know how you feel. And when a women says she wants to spend quality time with you, don't assume she is thinking about the bedroom! Usually, she means spending time together one on one, whether you are in your PJ's watching a movie, or just going for a drive.
Compliment her on things other than her looks. What are her special qualities? Is she creative, fascinating, funny? Do you admire her achievements and her outlook on life? Tell her! Look the woman straight in the eye when giving compliments.
If she gets annoyed or upset with something you did or did not do, apologize first. Be prepared to offer an explanation that is not defensive and not a cheap excuse. Speak gently and be sincere. Women are adept at reading sincerity. A sincere apology is the best way to get true forgiveness.
Accept her interest in hobbies that don't involve you. She does have a lot to share and wants to tell you all about it if you'll let her. Don't belittle it, because even if it's not something you're interested in, it means a lot her.
Avoid being jealous of male friends, co-workers, and exes without good reason. Assume she is trustworthy unless she proves otherwise.
Talk to your friends, co-workers, and family about how lovely she is, too. It will make her feel good, even if you think she won't know you said it. It's always best, anyway. (Women just know things. They're very intuitive.) Plus talking about her in such a nice way makes you want to see her as soon as possible, and only good things can come from that.
Always make sure you cherish her because in most cases she is going to be there when no one else is. If anyone says negative things about her (even behind her back), "stand up" and show them you are her man, tell them to stop; don't listen. Be and act worthy of her trust in and feelings for you.
Remember, she's a woman, and her thoughts about what she wants can change day by day. Don't get mad at her for it. Love her for it, because, hey, she's a woman, and you like that about her.
Never forget, compliments go a long way. You can't be mister charming at the beginning of the relationship and then, once you're involved, just stop the charm! That's not right, and it makes her feel like she's done something wrong to make you not feel that way anymore. Either that, or she'll feel like she was stupid for not seeing you for who you really were in the first place. If you're going to be charming and romantic, you have to stay that way. No matter how "comfortable" you are. A woman will feel like you are not interested in her anymore. If you are still interested you have to show her because telling her is not enough. A woman needs the man she fell in love with. Don't become detached and take her for granted. Call her, text her, and email her often, buy her flowers, chocolate, write a love note, tell her how special she is and that you miss her.
Romance her. Try to catch her attention and win her over. Even if you have her already, keep her! If you don't, other men will be there to give her the treatment she needs from you. Take charge, women like to feel swept away. If it is an anniversary of some sort, Men, listen up. Surprise her, especially if you don't surprise her with much. If you are with a highly respectable woman, money or gifts that cost too much are not the way to her heart. You will make a larger impression with a nice card and hand written words from your heart and a single rose, or small box of her favorite chocolates. And if you have a little money to put out, a simple necklace, or pretty earrings, can be found for little cash. It shows you put thought into your relationship and how much she means to you! Never ever ask a woman if you should get her something for an occasion. Women love gifts; as long as they are thoughtful, it won't matter if you spent anything on it. Make a card, do something corny in your own charming little way. They will remember it forever!
If you want to make her feel attractive to you, "Make Out". You can't skip steps! She loves and needs the steps it takes getting there. Even if you've gone that far before, this still applies. Kiss her, hold her, caress her, kiss her neck and look her in the eyes. Don't look bored, disinterested, or tired. She wants to feel special and sexy.
Hold her hand all the time -- Hold her hand when you are walking in the public, or mall. Hold her hand like she's your woman and like you're proud to have her beside you. Touch her hand across the table, put your arm around her when your sitting together watching T.V. or at the movies. These gestures will all make her feel protected, special and loved.
Don't go out of your way to get the last word just to win an argument. It will make you look uneducated and selfish. Gently explain yourself and then give her time to answer. Learn to let it go. If she doesn't want to talk about it, then don't; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to talk about it, then hear her out.
Don't make and break plans without a very good explanation and an apology. Make sure you call and not text to make such changes.
Be on time. Always call as soon as you know you may or will be late. Do not wait to call, even though you think she will be angry. Not calling before you are late can or will make her frustrated, then worried, AND then angry.
Always take care of your girl -- make sure all her needs are met. Besides the necessities of life, she needs to know most of all that you love her and only her. Surprise her today with a small gift she will cherish forever-give her your heart.
Always be respectful to her parents, they mean the world to her. If you don't respect the parents, you might as well say goodbye to her.
A woman can be very temperamental at times. Respect her wishes when she needs space to breathe. Do your best to listen to her and provide tender loving care. Touch her, give her a long hug, make some tea, or give her chocolate; it can make all the difference.
If you love her and can't imagine your life without her then make the commitment. Ask yourself this question, "If she walked out the door tomorrow could you and would you want to live your life without her in it?" If the answer is no, then ask her to marry you and mean it. Show her you mean it by buying a ring and tell her that you don't want to spend the rest of your life without her by your side. Tell her why you love her, what she means to you, why she's special, and why you're asking her to marry you. Trust me, she won't want to be your girlfriend forever. Most women want the stability of marriage and a husband who can provide and protect her.
A woman wants a man to tell her often how important she is to him and as well as showing her that in his actions! Flowers, a gift, a card!!
Give her thoughtful gifts -- women love surprises.
Give flowers for no particular reason without waiting for a birthday or holiday.
When you are spending time with her, make sure she has your attention.
Understand that little things mean a lot! A love note, rose, sweet text message or things like this just to let her know you are thinking of her and care for her.
Never ever forget her birthday, Christmas, New Years, Valentines Day, Mother's Day--all her friends are getting little love gifts and acknowledgment and women compare how thoughtful their man was.
Be polite and complimentary. Women like to hear "please", "I am sorry", "I promise" and "thank you." Also, ask her how her day is going. Just telling her she is wonderful often helps. Thank her for everything she does for you. In addition, recognize that there is more to her than the physical aspect. Compliment her efforts, like when she cooks or buys a nice meal.
Be a good listener. Have respect for her thoughts and opinions. Recognize her intelligence and strong points. Even if you don't agree with her, find good points from both perspective's. It's paramount to her knowing she is seen as a total person. Never cut her down, even if you are kidding. Find something unique about her that no one has ever told her about.
When you are in places where you can't be visibly affectionate, look at her and smile lovingly.' Be a gentleman, open the doors for her, hold out your hand or arm for her, some say this is "old fashioned", not the case. It is a sign of respect, and just common courtesy in public for both sexes. However, don't just do it in public, still common courtesy, at home also-put her first as she is a lady.
Be a good communicator. Listen to her, hear her out, and give eye contact to let her know you are giving full attention. Be interested in her. However, you also need to open up and tell her your thoughts, opinions, and problems, but wait until she is done telling you her thoughts. Do not interrupt. Help give ideas about possible solutions to problems, but praise her if she finds something other than what you suggest.
Brag about her to your friends and to hers. This is especially important as relationships grow. She'll like knowing she is appreciated and that his friends know you are in love with her.
In general, it's best not to say another woman is beautiful or attractive to you. Be respectful towards your woman in how you treat other women. Even if they are your friends. Any favors, gifts, gestures, looks, over-friendliness or flirting can be very threatening and is probably inappropriate. Don't compliment another woman on something that your girlfriend is struggling with or knows she just doesn't have (i.e.: a skill or something to do with appearance) this will only make your girl feel embarrassed and devalued.
Help around the house. If it needs to be done do it without expecting her to. Remember: Work is important, but the house work is both of your responsibility. Don't expect her to constantly pick up after you. One of the best ways to a woman's heart is to do house work!
Don't leave sexuality completely up to the woman if you're in a relationship together. If you feel like the time is right, gently let her know how you feel. And when a women says she wants to spend quality time with you, don't assume she is thinking about the bedroom! Usually, she means spending time together one on one, whether you are in your PJ's watching a movie, or just going for a drive.
Compliment her on things other than her looks. What are her special qualities? Is she creative, fascinating, funny? Do you admire her achievements and her outlook on life? Tell her! Look the woman straight in the eye when giving compliments.
If she gets annoyed or upset with something you did or did not do, apologize first. Be prepared to offer an explanation that is not defensive and not a cheap excuse. Speak gently and be sincere. Women are adept at reading sincerity. A sincere apology is the best way to get true forgiveness.
Accept her interest in hobbies that don't involve you. She does have a lot to share and wants to tell you all about it if you'll let her. Don't belittle it, because even if it's not something you're interested in, it means a lot her.
Avoid being jealous of male friends, co-workers, and exes without good reason. Assume she is trustworthy unless she proves otherwise.
Talk to your friends, co-workers, and family about how lovely she is, too. It will make her feel good, even if you think she won't know you said it. It's always best, anyway. (Women just know things. They're very intuitive.) Plus talking about her in such a nice way makes you want to see her as soon as possible, and only good things can come from that.
Always make sure you cherish her because in most cases she is going to be there when no one else is. If anyone says negative things about her (even behind her back), "stand up" and show them you are her man, tell them to stop; don't listen. Be and act worthy of her trust in and feelings for you.
Remember, she's a woman, and her thoughts about what she wants can change day by day. Don't get mad at her for it. Love her for it, because, hey, she's a woman, and you like that about her.
Never forget, compliments go a long way. You can't be mister charming at the beginning of the relationship and then, once you're involved, just stop the charm! That's not right, and it makes her feel like she's done something wrong to make you not feel that way anymore. Either that, or she'll feel like she was stupid for not seeing you for who you really were in the first place. If you're going to be charming and romantic, you have to stay that way. No matter how "comfortable" you are. A woman will feel like you are not interested in her anymore. If you are still interested you have to show her because telling her is not enough. A woman needs the man she fell in love with. Don't become detached and take her for granted. Call her, text her, and email her often, buy her flowers, chocolate, write a love note, tell her how special she is and that you miss her.
Romance her. Try to catch her attention and win her over. Even if you have her already, keep her! If you don't, other men will be there to give her the treatment she needs from you. Take charge, women like to feel swept away. If it is an anniversary of some sort, Men, listen up. Surprise her, especially if you don't surprise her with much. If you are with a highly respectable woman, money or gifts that cost too much are not the way to her heart. You will make a larger impression with a nice card and hand written words from your heart and a single rose, or small box of her favorite chocolates. And if you have a little money to put out, a simple necklace, or pretty earrings, can be found for little cash. It shows you put thought into your relationship and how much she means to you! Never ever ask a woman if you should get her something for an occasion. Women love gifts; as long as they are thoughtful, it won't matter if you spent anything on it. Make a card, do something corny in your own charming little way. They will remember it forever!
If you want to make her feel attractive to you, "Make Out". You can't skip steps! She loves and needs the steps it takes getting there. Even if you've gone that far before, this still applies. Kiss her, hold her, caress her, kiss her neck and look her in the eyes. Don't look bored, disinterested, or tired. She wants to feel special and sexy.
Hold her hand all the time -- Hold her hand when you are walking in the public, or mall. Hold her hand like she's your woman and like you're proud to have her beside you. Touch her hand across the table, put your arm around her when your sitting together watching T.V. or at the movies. These gestures will all make her feel protected, special and loved.
Don't go out of your way to get the last word just to win an argument. It will make you look uneducated and selfish. Gently explain yourself and then give her time to answer. Learn to let it go. If she doesn't want to talk about it, then don't; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to talk about it, then hear her out.
Don't make and break plans without a very good explanation and an apology. Make sure you call and not text to make such changes.
Be on time. Always call as soon as you know you may or will be late. Do not wait to call, even though you think she will be angry. Not calling before you are late can or will make her frustrated, then worried, AND then angry.
Always take care of your girl -- make sure all her needs are met. Besides the necessities of life, she needs to know most of all that you love her and only her. Surprise her today with a small gift she will cherish forever-give her your heart.
Always be respectful to her parents, they mean the world to her. If you don't respect the parents, you might as well say goodbye to her.
A woman can be very temperamental at times. Respect her wishes when she needs space to breathe. Do your best to listen to her and provide tender loving care. Touch her, give her a long hug, make some tea, or give her chocolate; it can make all the difference.
If you love her and can't imagine your life without her then make the commitment. Ask yourself this question, "If she walked out the door tomorrow could you and would you want to live your life without her in it?" If the answer is no, then ask her to marry you and mean it. Show her you mean it by buying a ring and tell her that you don't want to spend the rest of your life without her by your side. Tell her why you love her, what she means to you, why she's special, and why you're asking her to marry you. Trust me, she won't want to be your girlfriend forever. Most women want the stability of marriage and a husband who can provide and protect her.
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Don't make her read long boring ramblings.0
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tl;dr
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You're not the boss of me, you can't tell me what I want!0
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When a woman says nothing's wrong, that means everything's wrong. And when a woman says everything's wrong, that means everything's wrong! And when a woman says something's not funny, you'd better not laugh your *kitten*! - Homer Simpson0
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Yes!Don't make her read long boring ramblings.0 -
Is this to gain you even more girls in your FL? *cough, cough, girl-collector, cough, cough
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Be compassionate and understanding!!
A woman wants a man to tell her often how important she is to him and as well as showing her that in his actions! Flowers, a gift, a card!!
Give her thoughtful gifts -- women love surprises.
Give flowers for no particular reason without waiting for a birthday or holiday.
When you are spending time with her, make sure she has your attention.
Understand that little things mean a lot! A love note, rose, sweet text message or things like this just to let her know you are thinking of her and care for her.
Never ever forget her birthday, Christmas, New Years, Valentines Day, Mother's Day--all her friends are getting little love gifts and acknowledgment and women compare how thoughtful their man was.
Be polite and complimentary. Women like to hear "please", "I am sorry", "I promise" and "thank you." Also, ask her how her day is going. Just telling her she is wonderful often helps. Thank her for everything she does for you. In addition, recognize that there is more to her than the physical aspect. Compliment her efforts, like when she cooks or buys a nice meal.
Be a good listener. Have respect for her thoughts and opinions. Recognize her intelligence and strong points. Even if you don't agree with her, find good points from both perspective's. It's paramount to her knowing she is seen as a total person. Never cut her down, even if you are kidding. Find something unique about her that no one has ever told her about.
When you are in places where you can't be visibly affectionate, look at her and smile lovingly.' Be a gentleman, open the doors for her, hold out your hand or arm for her, some say this is "old fashioned", not the case. It is a sign of respect, and just common courtesy in public for both sexes. However, don't just do it in public, still common courtesy, at home also-put her first as she is a lady.
Be a good communicator. Listen to her, hear her out, and give eye contact to let her know you are giving full attention. Be interested in her. However, you also need to open up and tell her your thoughts, opinions, and problems, but wait until she is done telling you her thoughts. Do not interrupt. Help give ideas about possible solutions to problems, but praise her if she finds something other than what you suggest.
Brag about her to your friends and to hers. This is especially important as relationships grow. She'll like knowing she is appreciated and that his friends know you are in love with her.
In general, it's best not to say another woman is beautiful or attractive to you. Be respectful towards your woman in how you treat other women. Even if they are your friends. Any favors, gifts, gestures, looks, over-friendliness or flirting can be very threatening and is probably inappropriate. Don't compliment another woman on something that your girlfriend is struggling with or knows she just doesn't have (i.e.: a skill or something to do with appearance) this will only make your girl feel embarrassed and devalued.
Help around the house. If it needs to be done do it without expecting her to. Remember: Work is important, but the house work is both of your responsibility. Don't expect her to constantly pick up after you. One of the best ways to a woman's heart is to do house work!
Don't leave sexuality completely up to the woman if you're in a relationship together. If you feel like the time is right, gently let her know how you feel. And when a women says she wants to spend quality time with you, don't assume she is thinking about the bedroom! Usually, she means spending time together one on one, whether you are in your PJ's watching a movie, or just going for a drive.
Compliment her on things other than her looks. What are her special qualities? Is she creative, fascinating, funny? Do you admire her achievements and her outlook on life? Tell her! Look the woman straight in the eye when giving compliments.
If she gets annoyed or upset with something you did or did not do, apologize first. Be prepared to offer an explanation that is not defensive and not a cheap excuse. Speak gently and be sincere. Women are adept at reading sincerity. A sincere apology is the best way to get true forgiveness.
Accept her interest in hobbies that don't involve you. She does have a lot to share and wants to tell you all about it if you'll let her. Don't belittle it, because even if it's not something you're interested in, it means a lot her.
Avoid being jealous of male friends, co-workers, and exes without good reason. Assume she is trustworthy unless she proves otherwise.
Talk to your friends, co-workers, and family about how lovely she is, too. It will make her feel good, even if you think she won't know you said it. It's always best, anyway. (Women just know things. They're very intuitive.) Plus talking about her in such a nice way makes you want to see her as soon as possible, and only good things can come from that.
Always make sure you cherish her because in most cases she is going to be there when no one else is. If anyone says negative things about her (even behind her back), "stand up" and show them you are her man, tell them to stop; don't listen. Be and act worthy of her trust in and feelings for you.
Remember, she's a woman, and her thoughts about what she wants can change day by day. Don't get mad at her for it. Love her for it, because, hey, she's a woman, and you like that about her.
Never forget, compliments go a long way. You can't be mister charming at the beginning of the relationship and then, once you're involved, just stop the charm! That's not right, and it makes her feel like she's done something wrong to make you not feel that way anymore. Either that, or she'll feel like she was stupid for not seeing you for who you really were in the first place. If you're going to be charming and romantic, you have to stay that way. No matter how "comfortable" you are. A woman will feel like you are not interested in her anymore. If you are still interested you have to show her because telling her is not enough. A woman needs the man she fell in love with. Don't become detached and take her for granted. Call her, text her, and email her often, buy her flowers, chocolate, write a love note, tell her how special she is and that you miss her.
Romance her. Try to catch her attention and win her over. Even if you have her already, keep her! If you don't, other men will be there to give her the treatment she needs from you. Take charge, women like to feel swept away. If it is an anniversary of some sort, Men, listen up. Surprise her, especially if you don't surprise her with much. If you are with a highly respectable woman, money or gifts that cost too much are not the way to her heart. You will make a larger impression with a nice card and hand written words from your heart and a single rose, or small box of her favorite chocolates. And if you have a little money to put out, a simple necklace, or pretty earrings, can be found for little cash. It shows you put thought into your relationship and how much she means to you! Never ever ask a woman if you should get her something for an occasion. Women love gifts; as long as they are thoughtful, it won't matter if you spent anything on it. Make a card, do something corny in your own charming little way. They will remember it forever!
If you want to make her feel attractive to you, "Make Out". You can't skip steps! She loves and needs the steps it takes getting there. Even if you've gone that far before, this still applies. Kiss her, hold her, caress her, kiss her neck and look her in the eyes. Don't look bored, disinterested, or tired. She wants to feel special and sexy.
Hold her hand all the time -- Hold her hand when you are walking in the public, or mall. Hold her hand like she's your woman and like you're proud to have her beside you. Touch her hand across the table, put your arm around her when your sitting together watching T.V. or at the movies. These gestures will all make her feel protected, special and loved.
Don't go out of your way to get the last word just to win an argument. It will make you look uneducated and selfish. Gently explain yourself and then give her time to answer. Learn to let it go. If she doesn't want to talk about it, then don't; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to talk about it, then hear her out.
Don't make and break plans without a very good explanation and an apology. Make sure you call and not text to make such changes.
Be on time. Always call as soon as you know you may or will be late. Do not wait to call, even though you think she will be angry. Not calling before you are late can or will make her frustrated, then worried, AND then angry.
Always take care of your girl -- make sure all her needs are met. Besides the necessities of life, she needs to know most of all that you love her and only her. Surprise her today with a small gift she will cherish forever-give her your heart.
Always be respectful to her parents, they mean the world to her. If you don't respect the parents, you might as well say goodbye to her.
A woman can be very temperamental at times. Respect her wishes when she needs space to breathe. Do your best to listen to her and provide tender loving care. Touch her, give her a long hug, make some tea, or give her chocolate; it can make all the difference.
If you love her and can't imagine your life without her then make the commitment. Ask yourself this question, "If she walked out the door tomorrow could you and would you want to live your life without her in it?" If the answer is no, then ask her to marry you and mean it. Show her you mean it by buying a ring and tell her that you don't want to spend the rest of your life without her by your side. Tell her why you love her, what she means to you, why she's special, and why you're asking her to marry you. Trust me, she won't want to be your girlfriend forever. Most women want the stability of marriage and a husband who can provide and protect her.
Holy f@ck.. do you work? Have children? LIVE? WHen I started reading i thought awww than it turned into WTF... :laugh: :laugh:
All I want is him to appreciate, respect me, show me how much I mean to him. (every hr please)
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Well, I think that if you tie your woman up for some dirty fun, you should at least make sure you do a little of what she wants too. lol.0
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Holy wall of text, Batman.0
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How about not making broad generalizations based off of gender?
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OR.... Just dont be an @$$
Im so glad Im low maintenance. If I needed all the stuff listed up there Id drive myself to a mental malfunction.0 -
alright, for the most part it seems like you make her your life... and don't let her have hers. I am single and I wouldn't do have of these if it was the only way to get a woman. Sorry, two people two lives... my knowledge if you treat her like a queen then she will be your queen... simple0
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This makes me feel ill.0
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I don't make her unhook her own fish, bait her own hook or gut her own deer. So I would add that to the list on how to treat a woman.0
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Most women want the stability of marriage and a husband who can provide and protect her.
Most of this post sounded like BS to me... But this last part really put the cherry on top.
I must be weak and incapable of providing for myself. And I won't have any self-worth unless there's a man give it to me (like talking me up to other people and buying me gifts).
And since when did "quality time" not actually mean "let's bang"? I can sit on the couch and eat Doritos with you all day long.0 -
The list of things guys want if far shorter. And it includes a woman not like the one described in the first post.0
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The list of things guys want if far shorter. And it includes a woman not like the one described in the first post.
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Don't make her read long boring ramblings.
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You forgot the part about spitting on it before pooper play. I hear women like that.0
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You forgot the part about spitting on it before pooper play. I hear women like that.
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You forgot the part about spitting on it before pooper play. I hear women like that.
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OP deactivated.0
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:laugh:Holy wall of text, Batman.
At first I thought about disagreeing with the ridiculous parts...but then I realized it went on for another 30 paragraphs and I couldn't be bothered.
Also, I echo what other posters say, OP: don't lump us all together. You don't know what I want or how I want to be treated. Guys: when it comes to me, **** this rule book and just be yourself, and if I think you're treating me badly or in a way that's otherwise inappropriate, I'll tell you, and I expect you to do the same. Simple.0 -
UmmUmmm how about treat her like a person. Given the wall of text I'll give you the hint that no one likes to be reduced to their group membership and no one likes to be lectured. Start there. Then get to know the person and don't generalize.0
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It makes me sad that the OP deactivated...I assume it was because of this thread. I doubt any of you were friends with him on here. If you had been his friend you would have known that he has a very kind heart and was always very positive and supportive. I'm certain he didn't mean to offend anyone here and that his intentions were to show the respect he has for women.0
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Really!!!..This guy says some of the nicest things i've ever saw about ways to treat a woman and he gets totally shut down and belittled. What the hell...and to think it was all BS, i'm not sure why you all would even think that. It wasn't boring at all, it was a good read. Its really upsetting to see that this site is supposed to be about support yet this happens. Then he deactivates, not sure why but i'd assume maybe he's embarrassed or just feels like crap..c'mon folks..why all the hate anyway0
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Holy wall of text, Batman.
this^
it was very nice, but long, and he didnt need to deactivate.:flowerforyou:0 -
It makes me sad that the OP deactivated...I assume it was because of this thread. I doubt any of you were friends with him on here. If you had been his friend you would have known that he has a very kind heart and was always very positive and supportive. I'm certain he didn't mean to offend anyone here and that his intentions were to show the respect he has for women.
I agree it is sad that he deactivated, but unless you knew him why point the blame at a few silly responses. No one jumped his *kitten*. I think the issue runs deeper than a few silly responses.0 -
Well I couldn't write something that long about how to treat a man if I'm honest with myself. Even if it's a long read, or you don't agree, it deserved kudos just for the fact that not enough of us spend as long as that probably took to write thinking about our gestures towards others, male or female. However, on average I would say that we spend much longer moaning about others, especially us girls about men. A bit of banter with people you know is o.k, but maybe an "if you don't have anything constructive/nice to say, say nothing at all" approach would go a long way, especially on a site like this where there are alot of people who are very sensitive to criticism and come here for support. I'm sure no one meant offense, and I hope that's not why he deactivated.0
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