29 lbs down and apparently I'm still FAT

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  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    Well the fantastic thing is you have lost 29lbs and counting down yay!

    The other good thing is that you are going to walk his socks off real soon because you are the girl to watch!!!! Keep up the great work girlie x
  • Crystal_Pistol
    Crystal_Pistol Posts: 750 Member
    I know how to make enough of a scene to embarrass the **** out of someone like this. Learn how to not only hurt feelings, but crush souls with your words. It is my specialty. I weigh a whole helluva lot more than you, but again I have soul crushing as a special skill. No one would EVER say something like that to me. If some sad soul did say it, they would NEVER say it again.

    You're gonna be an attorney. I want you to be KICK *kitten* at it. Thicken up that skin lady- the world requires it. Never let a little ***** make you cry with some punk *kitten* words.

    Best wishes.
  • lovinmyselfagain
    lovinmyselfagain Posts: 307 Member
    Losing 29lbs in two months is awesome! You should be very proud of yourself. Seriously. Last year a family member called me a fat @ss. When he said it, I wasn't even upset, maybe because I already knew I was overweight, so he wasn't saying anything shocking. And also because I knew he was trying to hurt me, because that's what he does. And I learned to not give this emotional abuser any power. What was astounding at the time is that you could tell he was upset because I wasn't. Some people literally get off on hurting other people, and the trick is to not let it show, to not give these people so much power. You are doing a great job, so don't let that fool slow you down.
  • Marc713
    Marc713 Posts: 328 Member
    Yeah, he is. But he's one of the few dominicans with a very stupid attitude. I'm dominican as well and I would NEVER say something to hurt somebody.

    There are ****ty people from every country. It's like the old saying goes, "I may be fat, but I can lose weight, but your an *kitten*, you'll always be full of ****."

    But on a side note, I've lost 35 pounds, back up about 5 now that I'm lifting heavy, but I still consider myself fat. I have much less of a gut, but my body fat percentage is still way higher than I would like....so take it how you will. I personally accept that I'm fat and it's what pushes me to kill it at the gym or doing cardio. That still doesn't mean it's right to be mean and point it out to someone....just keep doing what you are doing, when you get down to your goal, just hope you run into the DB again so you can flaunt your hard work. Then when he tries hitting on you, politely point out the time he was unkind, and tell him karma's a *****.

    What you think of yourself is the most important opinion! Love yourself. Continue doing what you do for YOU above all else, not to please someone else....
  • onedayillbeamilf
    onedayillbeamilf Posts: 966 Member
    Congrats on losing 29lbs. I had a similar situation with a guy I was really good friends with at work. It hurts when they say stuff like that. It took me a few weeks to feel like speaking to him again, and we aren't near as close as we were. I'm sorry you had to go through that. He can suck it.
  • Joey9407
    Joey9407 Posts: 14 Member
    Lol I knew only un dominicano dice algo asi. Def not all of them but I know our culture always wants us to be skinny I dont know how many times I heard to loose weight even from fam ("Tu te tiene que ponerte en linia") and thats to tell you is when i was my smallest around a size 11 lol now I'm like way bigger. so que se joda im trying if you dont like it keep your comments to yourself. Hes wack I hope you told him a few things if not get him next time.

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