compliments

JenSpinnaChick
JenSpinnaChick Posts: 104 Member
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Do compliments mean more coming from the same sex??? Discuss......

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  • franmetamorphisis
    franmetamorphisis Posts: 51 Member
    I think it matters what the person says, and how sincere they are when they say it ...
  • sin485
    sin485 Posts: 125 Member
    I think it matters what the person says, and how sincere they are when they say it ...

    i agree with her
  • HeavyLiftGirl
    HeavyLiftGirl Posts: 1,267 Member
    Depends. If my male boss compliments me versus some hot guy at the gym, my feelings could vary quite a bit.
  • taylor5877
    taylor5877 Posts: 1,792 Member
    I think it matters what the person says, and how sincere they are when they say it ...

    i agree with her

    with the pic on her ticker, she could have said the government is responsible with money and I'd still agree with her...
  • jr1985
    jr1985 Posts: 1,033 Member
    Personally I find the opposite to be true... I'm a lot more free with my compliments with other women than I am with compliments to men because I don't think it is going to be taken the wrong way.
  • franmetamorphisis
    franmetamorphisis Posts: 51 Member
    I think it matters what the person says, and how sincere they are when they say it ...

    i agree with her

    with the pic on her ticker, she could have said the government is responsible with money and I'd still agree with her...

    :laugh: Oh shucks.
  • JohnMessmer
    JohnMessmer Posts: 536
    I don't think it truly matters. I have been paid compliments by both men and women throughout my life and I find that the ones that really matter the most are the ones I "believe" because of my actions. If someone says "hey you're looking great, have you lost a few pounds?" and I have, then I feel great but if I haven't then I presume they are just making small talk or have a bad memory. If I have accomplished something and others notice, I don't care if they are male or female, I appreciate that they noticed.
  • SeaChele77
    SeaChele77 Posts: 1,103 Member
    I think it has more to do with tone and the context in which the compliment is given than the gender of the person giving it..
  • franmetamorphisis
    franmetamorphisis Posts: 51 Member
    Personally I find the opposite to be true... I'm a lot more free with my compliments with other women than I am with compliments to men because I don't think it is going to be taken the wrong way.

    I'm kinda the same way, I like when my girls compliment me. Some times when guys compliment me, I shake it off within 20 minutes.
    It depends on the guy, and what he says. It also depends on the girl, and what she says. And how sincere she is...
    examples

    My bestfriend aisa: "Your butt looks great in those jeans"
    Me: Oh my god, really? Thanks *stares at butt all day*
    Some guy Ive been crushing on: You look really pretty today.
    Me: Oh tehehe Thanks :blushing:
    Female Teacher: Your really pretty!
    Me: Thank you!
    Male teacher: Your really pretty!
    Me: Oh, thanks... (Creeeeepy...)
    Stranger on the streets: I love your dimples
    Me: THANKS!


    It can go on and on... Ya know.
  • Turtlehurdle
    Turtlehurdle Posts: 412
    I don't know? Perhaps?

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