Breaking up is hard to do :-(

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  • MattTheWaterRat
    MattTheWaterRat Posts: 167 Member
    She means that it has been two weeks since they broke up, not that they have only been together for two weeks...

    I see now. Thank you.

    Find a rebound.





    haha ya that is what I hear to do .... I don't know LOL

    Ok, inevitably, at every Yoga Class there is 1 straight dude, who has probably nailed or is in the process of nailing every regular female in the class. Go to him.
  • MattTheWaterRat
    MattTheWaterRat Posts: 167 Member
    She means that it has been two weeks since they broke up, not that they have only been together for two weeks...

    I see now. Thank you.

    Find a rebound.





    haha ya that is what I hear to do .... I don't know LOL

    Ok, inevitably, at every Yoga Class there is 1 straight dude, who has probably nailed or is in the process of nailing every regular female in the class. Go to him.

    Assuming you didn't meet your ex in a yoga class.
  • sizzle92
    sizzle92 Posts: 1,015 Member
    Sizzle is right...

    :flowerforyou: Man....after that jacked up night on your thread, that feels really good. :heart:

    Try replying to my PM!

    I didn't get one! I think the in boxes have been jacked up today! Resend??

    Can you hear me now?

    Argh noooo!!!! I will write you again.......
  • deniseearheart
    deniseearheart Posts: 919 Member
    She means that it has been two weeks since they broke up, not that they have only been together for two weeks...

    I see now. Thank you.

    Find a rebound.





    haha ya that is what I hear to do .... I don't know LOL

    Ok, inevitably, at every Yoga Class there is 1 straight dude, who has probably nailed or is in the process of nailing every regular female in the class. Go to him.

    Assuming you didn't meet your ex in a yoga class.







    hahahah Ya that is a good idea but I hardly doubt guys at the gym would be interested in me. They are more focused on nailing the super thin super hot super perfect women .. That is NOT me :-/
  • DawnEH612
    DawnEH612 Posts: 574 Member
    The thing is, it doesn't matter what anyone here tries to tell you or how much experience they have obtained going through a similarly painful break up... You will emotionally disconnect from him when the pain of staying or wanting him back becomes GREATER than loosing him. I recall holding onto the thread of a thread of a thread with my ex until one day, I walked out, and just never went back... It wasn't a planned move. I just could not get myself to go back into our home... The pain was just too great.... Yes I missed him but I had to remind myself what was happening to me... I was falling apart. I didn't even recognize who I was , how much I had compromised ME for him and his happiness.. And the thing is, he wasn't even happy.. We both lost years of our lives because of it.
    I do what to make sure your son isn't around when he is treating you "less than". Kids watch by example and you certainly don't want your son to think its ok for a guy to treat a female the way it sounds your ex treated you. Your son should never think it is ok to kick a girl out and put her in a hotel with her kid...
    Remember, when the PAIN IS GREATER you WILL disconnect! All the best on this journey ... And btw, I think counseling would help you tremendously. Many churches offer it for free but check with the YMCA , they may know of grief and loss counseling and often times that's free.
  • Dave198lbs
    Dave198lbs Posts: 8,810 Member
    You are not defined by a man. You are not defined by your heartbreak.

    You are defined by how you pick up the pieces and move on now with your head held high.

    be careful you aren't defined by how many threads you can start over a topic more appropriate for 15 year olds
  • deniseearheart
    deniseearheart Posts: 919 Member
    The thing is, it doesn't matter what anyone here tries to tell you or how much experience they have obtained going through a similarly painful break up... You will emotionally disconnect from him when the pain of staying or wanting him back becomes GREATER than loosing him. I recall holding onto the thread of a thread of a thread with my ex until one day, I walked out, and just never went back... It wasn't a planned move. I just could not get myself to go back into our home... The pain was just too great.... Yes I missed him but I had to remind myself what was happening to me... I was falling apart. I didn't even recognize who I was , how much I had compromised ME for him and his happiness.. And the thing is, he wasn't even happy.. We both lost years of our lives because of it.
    I do what to make sure your son isn't around when he is treating you "less than". Kids watch by example and you certainly don't want your son to think its ok for a guy to treat a female the way it sounds your ex treated you. Your son should never think it is ok to kick a girl out and put her in a hotel with her kid...
    Remember, when the PAIN IS GREATER you WILL disconnect! All the best on this journey ... And btw, I think counseling would help you tremendously. Many churches offer it for free but check with the YMCA , they may know of grief and loss counseling and often times that's free.






    Ya I am going to check around this week...
  • deniseearheart
    deniseearheart Posts: 919 Member
    You are not defined by a man. You are not defined by your heartbreak.

    You are defined by how you pick up the pieces and move on now with your head held high.

    be careful you aren't defined by how many threads you can start over a topic more appropriate for 15 year olds






    and if you do not like it : when you see my name by it DON'T click on it!!!!
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    You are not defined by a man. You are not defined by your heartbreak.

    You are defined by how you pick up the pieces and move on now with your head held high.

    be careful you aren't defined by how many threads you can start over a topic more appropriate for 15 year olds
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    I think I love you, Dave.
  • deniseearheart
    deniseearheart Posts: 919 Member
    My son keeps me VERY busy so that is helping. i am also starting a part time job and will be joining the Y and volunteering at his school part time as well. The best/worst part is I have to walk everywhere cause I have no car! Sucks I have to walk but great I am getting exercise

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