single ladies and gentlemen if you don't enjoy intimacy

ls_66
ls_66 Posts: 395 Member
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please do not get married...
just saying ......
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  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    What is with the PSAs today? Is it After School Special Day and I missed the memo?
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    Sucks for you...
  • AggieLu
    AggieLu Posts: 873 Member
    Right on the point, Lino. I couldn't agree more.
  • hbrittingham
    hbrittingham Posts: 2,518 Member
    please do not get married...
    just saying ......

    I'm thinking that probably applies to married folks who don't enjoy intimacy, too.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    please do not get married...
    just saying ......

    Wouldn't this usually be something you knew about someone before the wedding? Anf if not, you didn't know that person well enough to marry him or her.
  • auroranflash
    auroranflash Posts: 3,569 Member
    please do not get married...
    just saying ......

    Wouldn't this usually be something you knew about someone before the wedding? Anf if not, you didn't know that person well enough to marry him or her.

    This is why you never marry someone you haven't lived with for at least two years.

    And from experience, that still may not be long enough to determine whether or not they'll flip out and become batsht crazy.
  • djsupreme6
    djsupreme6 Posts: 1,210 Member
    anyone who doesn't enjoy intimacy isn't doing it right and doesn't know what they're missing
  • Illona88
    Illona88 Posts: 903 Member
    please do not get married...
    just saying ......

    Everything all right at home?
  • _Elemenopee_
    _Elemenopee_ Posts: 2,665 Member
    I don't know ANYONE who doesn't enjoy intimacy.
  • fleur_de_lis19
    fleur_de_lis19 Posts: 926 Member
    Define intimacy.....
    Does cuddling count?
  • ls_66
    ls_66 Posts: 395 Member
    living together for a few years is a nice way to test the waters... but that can also be deceiving... we all know that the first few years of living together/being married are fun but not a true indication on what real life together is gonna be down the road..
    Should marriage have an expiration date?
  • ls_66
    ls_66 Posts: 395 Member
    @ Fleur yes cuddling does count to a degree
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    living together for a few years is a nice way to test the waters... but that can also be deceiving... we all know that the first few years of living together/being married are fun but not a true indication on what real life together is gonna be down the road..
    Should marriage have an expiration date?

    I think someone is having home issues. (Read: Someone isn't getting laid enough.)
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    please do not get married...
    just saying ......

    Didn't everyone know this?

    35, never married, never divorced. Almost had the word NEVER tattooed around my ring finger.

    Or as Bill Burr said it, "Hey is this the line to lose half your stuff??"
  • auroranflash
    auroranflash Posts: 3,569 Member
    living together for a few years is a nice way to test the waters... but that can also be deceiving... we all know that the first few years of living together/being married are fun but not a true indication on what real life together is gonna be down the road..
    Should marriage have an expiration date?

    Like a 5 year or 10 year term, at which time the contract is re-evaluated and necessary changes made as the two parties see fit?

    Dude, that's kind of a great idea.
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    What is with the PSAs today? Is it After School Special Day and I missed the memo?

    Geez. No doubt.
  • ls_66
    ls_66 Posts: 395 Member
    @Illona88 nope.... once upon a time there was fire lighting the house... that was so long ago that I don't even remember how long....
  • pawnstarNate
    pawnstarNate Posts: 1,728 Member
    hmmm....I may not feel like cuddling every night but, if the wind blow just right....I'm definately ready for some intamacy..lol My first wife had issues from being sexually abused as a child which caused her to have intimacy problems during our 7 yr marriage. Of course that didn't work out but, that should be one of the few reasons a person should NOT enjoy it. jmo
  • ZombieChaser
    ZombieChaser Posts: 1,555 Member
    Marriage: Betting someone half your stuff that you'll love them forever.
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Okay, here is a fact of life. Intimacy goes down as you get older. At least for men. We get tired of the romancing and just want to get it done. Once you get the house, kids and what not, too tired for the rest. I may be the only one like this, my wife complains that I do not pay enough attention to her etc. I work, take care of kids, I am tired.
  • MustBeTheRows
    MustBeTheRows Posts: 377 Member
    Marriage: Betting someone half your stuff that you'll love them forever.

    or in my case 90%
  • ls_66
    ls_66 Posts: 395 Member
    @ auroranflash... I'm glad you like the idea.. marriage in our worlds is almost always associate with something that is supposed to last forever.. reality is nothing last forever
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    @Illona88 nope.... once upon a time there was fire lighting the house... that was so long ago that I don't even remember how long....

    Perhap it's you.
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    please do not get married...
    just saying ......

    Wouldn't this usually be something you knew about someone before the wedding? Anf if not, you didn't know that person well enough to marry him or her.

    This is why you never marry someone you haven't lived with for at least two years.

    And from experience, that still may not be long enough to determine whether or not they'll flip out and become batsht crazy.

    100% agree. I tell my wife, you were one way, got married, and now you another way. It is like a switch went off. For instance, she had no problem with a certain act, and then there is a problem. I got punked in some ways.
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    Marriage: Betting someone half your stuff that you'll love them forever.

    Prenup.
  • djsupreme6
    djsupreme6 Posts: 1,210 Member
    Okay, here is a fact of life. Intimacy goes down as you get older. At least for men. We get tired of the romancing and just want to get it done. Once you get the house, kids and what not, too tired for the rest. I may be the only one like this, my wife complains that I do not pay enough attention to her etc. I work, take care of kids, I am tired.

    I may be the exception of the rule. I love romancing and always will. As for tired, i'm never too tired for my significant other as she deserves that attention and then some...but...i'm single lol...so I guess i'm in the wait for someone to treat like a Queen
  • ls_66
    ls_66 Posts: 395 Member
    @Charlie don't you feel like is a little unfair for your wife?
  • beach_please
    beach_please Posts: 533 Member
    Obviously we don't know your story but you can't expect the same level of sexual intimacy from when you were dating, and everything was new and exciting and couldn't keep your hands off each other to after being married for several years. If you were expecting to maintain the same amount of sex you had initially, that's not necessarily HER fault. Maybe try spicing things up.
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    @Illona88 nope.... once upon a time there was fire lighting the house... that was so long ago that I don't even remember how long....

    Well maybe if you go light fires somewhere else....... :wink:
  • _Wits_
    _Wits_ Posts: 1,286 Member
    *facepalm*

    Lame post.

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