Super Embarrassing

This is really embarrassing to even ask but I really feel I need to find out more about it :/

So I have been on this diet/workout for almost 3 months now. And since I have been, I have been having one slight problem.

I am having really big problem with controlling my rectum muscles for bowel movements. Now the question is!

Is this because of all the protein I am taking in? Is it cause my eating habits have changed do quick with extreme? Too much fiber? or should I see a doctor to see exactly? Please only reply if you have some seriously suggestions that may benefit me, or help.

Thank you.
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  • Manda86
    Manda86 Posts: 1,859 Member
    I'm sorry you're having difficulty - can you be more specific? Do your bowels feel loose, or are you straining to push?
  • cramernh
    cramernh Posts: 3,335 Member
    This is really embarrassing to even ask but I really feel I need to find out more about it :/

    So I have been on this diet/workout for almost 3 months now. And since I have been, I have been having one slight problem.

    I am having really big problem with controlling my rectum muscles for bowel movements. Now the question is!

    Is this because of all the protein I am taking in? Is it cause my eating habits have changed do quick with extreme? Too much fiber? or should I see a doctor to see exactly? Please only reply if you have some seriously suggestions that may benefit me, or help.

    Thank you.

    If you are having problems with the rectal muscles functioning (I have a large GI office of surgeons out of 300+ physicians at work), then I would suggest you talk with your PCP first (if you have an HMO plan)... if you have a plan that doesnt require a referral, then talk directly with a GI specialist who can perform an evaluation....

    It could be diet, it could be muscular changes, it could be anything.... but, I would definitely suggest meeting with a healthcare practitioner...
  • krisiepoo
    krisiepoo Posts: 710 Member
    You'll have to expand on this... like you're having accidents? are you taking any diet pills?

    If you're having trouble controlling your BM's to the point of accidents, you need to see your doctor.
  • conkle23
    conkle23 Posts: 171 Member
    I am not taking any diet pills. When I feel a bowel movement coming on It's no worry. Then I feel my rectum muscle not keep closed, and they wont hold the bowel movement for some reason. Most time I am close to a bathroom I can run to. But thats not always gonna be the case.
  • KittieLea
    KittieLea Posts: 1,156 Member
    Maybe you should see your doctor. I'm not equipped to help out with issues in your fanny.
  • jocybee83
    jocybee83 Posts: 155 Member
    Too much protein can cause constipation. More fiber and more water.
  • cramernh
    cramernh Posts: 3,335 Member
    I am not taking any diet pills. When I feel a bowel movement coming on It's no worry. Then I feel my rectum muscle not keep closed, and they wont hold the bowel movement for some reason. Most time I am close to a bathroom I can run to. But thats not always gonna be the case.


    This is exactly why you need to seek medical assistance hun....
  • minkakross
    minkakross Posts: 687 Member
    this doesn't sound diet related to me at all. I would make that doctors appointment for sure.
  • MissAnjy
    MissAnjy Posts: 2,480 Member
    Too much protein can cause constipation. More fiber and more water.

    He's not talking about constipation. He's talking about needing to use the bathroom & almost as soon as the feeling comes on, the feeling comes out.......if you're getting me.
  • denezy
    denezy Posts: 573 Member
    That definitely does not sound like it has anything to do with diet. Go get that checked out.
  • ashlbubba
    ashlbubba Posts: 224 Member
    I don't know too much about this-- if you were taking Alli or something similar it would make sense... otherwise I'd say talk to your doc.

    Good Luck!
  • conkle23
    conkle23 Posts: 171 Member
    He's not talking about constipation. He's talking about needing to use the bathroom & almost as soon as the feeling comes on, the feeling comes out.......if you're getting me.

    Correct, When I think I can hold it to the bathroom ... its not the case.


    So you think I should go see a doctor then for sure? No one else has ever had this problem?
  • cramernh
    cramernh Posts: 3,335 Member
    Too much protein can cause constipation. More fiber and more water.

    He's not talking about constipation. He's talking about needing to use the bathroom & almost as soon as the feeling comes on, the feeling comes out.......if you're getting me.

    Right - he is describing the anal/rectal sphincter muscles and they are not returning back to their normal positioning after allowing the fecal material to pass... it could be a stricture, it could be a simple neurological issue (compressed nerve response), it could be anything..

    But, it is definitely treatable! We have many patients at work like him who have had successful therapies....
  • cramernh
    cramernh Posts: 3,335 Member
    He's not talking about constipation. He's talking about needing to use the bathroom & almost as soon as the feeling comes on, the feeling comes out.......if you're getting me.

    Correct, When I think I can hold it to the bathroom ... its not the case.


    So you think I should go see a doctor then for sure? No one else has ever had this problem?

    Yes!!!!!!
  • By the "Too Much Fiber" question I am presuming you mean that it is difficult to get it out. If you are experiencing hard stools that are difficult to pass, incorporate a stool softener into your daily vitamins, I would recommend Dulcolax, they don't make you go they just draw moisture into your feces so that when you go it is much easier as it is more moist, thus softer.

    Edit: Ahh, ok..read that was not the issue.
  • MissAnjy
    MissAnjy Posts: 2,480 Member
    He's not talking about constipation. He's talking about needing to use the bathroom & almost as soon as the feeling comes on, the feeling comes out.......if you're getting me.

    Correct, When I think I can hold it to the bathroom ... its not the case.


    So you think I should go see a doctor then for sure? No one else has ever had this problem?

    If there is some sort of kegal exercise, for the cornholio, I would try that? It's worth a try while you're waiting for a doctors appointment.
  • cramernh
    cramernh Posts: 3,335 Member
    He's not talking about constipation. He's talking about needing to use the bathroom & almost as soon as the feeling comes on, the feeling comes out.......if you're getting me.

    Correct, When I think I can hold it to the bathroom ... its not the case.


    So you think I should go see a doctor then for sure? No one else has ever had this problem?

    If there is some sort of kegal exercise, for the cornholio, I would try that? It's worth a try while you're waiting for a doctors appointment.

    There is however, this should not go without the advice of his PCP and then a GI.... dependent on the type of insurance he has...
  • MissAnjy
    MissAnjy Posts: 2,480 Member
    He's not talking about constipation. He's talking about needing to use the bathroom & almost as soon as the feeling comes on, the feeling comes out.......if you're getting me.

    Correct, When I think I can hold it to the bathroom ... its not the case.


    So you think I should go see a doctor then for sure? No one else has ever had this problem?

    If there is some sort of kegal exercise, for the cornholio, I would try that? It's worth a try while you're waiting for a doctors appointment.

    There is however, this should not go without the advice of his PCP and then a GI.... dependent on the type of insurance he has...

    what? he should get advice from a PCP or GI to squeeze together his manhole? I'm not talking by using instruments or inserting anything, I'm just talking......the whole squeeze-me motion.
  • CORTNEY5
    CORTNEY5 Posts: 87 Member
    Intestinal Worms.
  • drmerc
    drmerc Posts: 2,603 Member
    I would not consult MFP for medical advice

    Please see a doctor
  • cramernh
    cramernh Posts: 3,335 Member
    He's not talking about constipation. He's talking about needing to use the bathroom & almost as soon as the feeling comes on, the feeling comes out.......if you're getting me.

    Correct, When I think I can hold it to the bathroom ... its not the case.


    So you think I should go see a doctor then for sure? No one else has ever had this problem?

    If there is some sort of kegal exercise, for the cornholio, I would try that? It's worth a try while you're waiting for a doctors appointment.

    There is however, this should not go without the advice of his PCP and then a GI.... dependent on the type of insurance he has...

    what? he should get advice from a PCP or GI to squeeze together his manhole? I'm not talking by using instruments or inserting anything, I'm just talking......the whole squeeze-me motion.

    Because he has an underlying medical condition, he should be consulting with a healthcare practitioner... as I posted in another post, if he has an HMO, he has to see his PCP first, then get referred to a GI Specialist. If he doesnt have an HMO, he can self-refer to a GI specialist on his own (I dont know if he lives here in the states)...

    The Kegal related exercises will definitely not be enough if its regarding the anal/rectal sphincter muscle group. There is alot more involved with that condition to the point that Kegals wont rectify enough.

    We do have a patient right now who waited for quite a long time before he sought treatment... I wont go into detail the 'type' of treatment he ended up having because I dont want to scare the OP....

    Early treamtent means better results... especially in the long term approach. Lets put it that way
  • angiemartin78
    angiemartin78 Posts: 475 Member
    You should probably see a doctor about that. Sorry you're having issues and I hope it gets better soon!
  • MissAnjy
    MissAnjy Posts: 2,480 Member
    ahhhh, I understand.

    I agree he definitely needs to seek medical attention.
  • MissAnjy
    MissAnjy Posts: 2,480 Member
    He's not talking about constipation. He's talking about needing to use the bathroom & almost as soon as the feeling comes on, the feeling comes out.......if you're getting me.

    Correct, When I think I can hold it to the bathroom ... its not the case.


    So you think I should go see a doctor then for sure? No one else has ever had this problem?

    If there is some sort of kegal exercise, for the cornholio, I would try that? It's worth a try while you're waiting for a doctors appointment.

    There is however, this should not go without the advice of his PCP and then a GI.... dependent on the type of insurance he has...

    what? he should get advice from a PCP or GI to squeeze together his manhole? I'm not talking by using instruments or inserting anything, I'm just talking......the whole squeeze-me motion.

    He needs to see his doctor because it's not normal to have this situation. People like you make the boards ridiciulous

    slow down there attack dog. In a previous post, I stated to see a doctor, make an appointment, etc etc....
    I said this was merely something he could TRY in the interim to see if it would help "in the moment" when it's happening.
    where did I say that this was a cure all? Have a nice day sweetie.....and squeeze that tush.
  • IronSmasher
    IronSmasher Posts: 3,908 Member
    Doctor's I'm afraid. And the first examination he/she is going to do and see if you can shut it. However, they're then going fix it. It's not an uncommon problem, they've seen plenty before, and it's their job.

    Even if it does turn out to be diet related (it really doesn't sound like it), there's no sane person on here that isn't going to tell you to get it checked out.
  • Heather_Rider
    Heather_Rider Posts: 1,159 Member
    Hi Honey. =)

    This started hapening to me back in my 20's AND the first time i ever started dieting (when i THOUGHT i was fat.. lol) Ended up, i was eating entirely too much fiber, and through the testing.. i found out i had chroans disease.

    When someone is doing all the proper things for their body, and their body reacts to it, thats typically when they find out something is wrong. I suggest seeing your regular doctor and explaining to him that you have been on the new eating habits for X amount of time and it just started.. it didnt start at the onset of the eating habits.. (so he knows its not really from the diet change)

    SO, yes you should see a doctor just to rule things out. In the mean time, if you want to write something here in your journal..

    For instance.. If say today you have this problem.. in your food diary.. put a litter B for a regular bowl movement or an X for a bowel movement that you barely made it or didnt. then, if say, you had a lot of dairy that day, cut out ALL dairy the next two days. see if that stops the issue. if it does, go back to dairy for two days. if you have no more problems, then that wasnt the problem.. try something else. try only ONE thing each time.

    I have crohns and if you like, i can take a look at your diary, and while everyone is different, I can tell you the typical items that would set a person off. Just send me a message. =)



    Edited to say.. first, dont freak out.. anything thats TOO THIN isnt going to stay where its put. Have you people ever vomited & not made it to the bathroom? same thing? and worms?? BWAHAHAH.. please.. have you never seen a cat with worms? They dont walk around sh*tting themselves wverywhere.. they still make it to the dang litterbox. SHEESH. Dont stress so much about it.. you will see when you call the doctor, you may get an appointment in a few days, then it may be a few weeks for a specialist. they are not going to tell you to rush to the emergency. You arent losing weight by the day. its poop. you are suppose to get rid of it anyway. As long as its not full of blood you will be okay. YES, its a pain in the *kitten* (no pun, sorry) but its OKAY. As embarassing as you think it is, and it IS, i grant you... no one is in the bathroom with you.. so if you need the extra protection.. take some maxi pads (which will be the cheapest way) or get some mens undergarments and wear when going out, or working if you need it in the mean time. =)
  • debs6
    debs6 Posts: 232 Member
    Please see a doctor- only they are equipped to give you medical advice. I have experienced similar problems but they are unrelated to change in my diet. I suffer from Crohn's disease. I am not suggesting that you have the same issue - just that it is beyond the scope of MFP to determine your problem. Good luck with getting it sorted
  • lorib75
    lorib75 Posts: 490 Member
    Sorry, but I can't believe no one has asked this..... please don't be offended BUT
    is there any reason your rectal/*kitten* muscles would have been STRETCHED OUT? Just curious....also lots of sugar free foods will give you the runs......
    I know , I know, I'm a horrible person for asking....save the judgement!
    :ohwell:
  • Weezoh
    Weezoh Posts: 171 Member
    Yes, see a doctor - that said, lactose intolerance can cause that 0 - 60 i have to go to the bathroom NOW situation also.
  • conkle23
    conkle23 Posts: 171 Member
    Lol no. I do not put foreign object or body parts in my *kitten*! lol

    I will go and make an appointment with a doctor. I do not actually have one so I will look around. And I have no Medical ... So hope its not crazy expensive. Thank you for your answers ... and ummm opinions lol hahaha.!