Do men think "Where are all the 'good girls' "?

flatbellybella

You know how women always say Where are all the good guys...

I was wondering if men thought the same?
lol

Pepeboricua

Well its complex i think every person has its good and bad side regardless its genre.

About the good girls from my experience i think their way more "bad" than "bad girls"..a good girl may seem inocent and sweet but when that girl gets on fire... surprise baby the bad girl is on! Which i love! So girls please be good! lol

n0ob

Girls are so much more "in control" that they can pretty much be what they want to be and to a lot of degrees men don't care what you are as long as the sex is regular and fantastic.

For actual lasting relationships the person better be a match for what the other is expecting. Men don't need the excitement of a "bad girl" to want to sleep with you like it seems is the case in the reverse situation.

And yes, the world and relationships revolve around sex. If you happen to be nailing your best friend, it just makes it last.

flatbellybella

and to a lot of degrees men don't care what you are as long as the sex is regular and fantastic.

:sick:

WinnerVictorious

Do men think "Where are all the 'good girls' "?

not really. however, we do sometimes wonder where the non-crazy ones are? or at least the ones to the left of the Vicky Mendoza Diagonal.

sleepytexan

oh ha. I seriously doubt it.

n0ob

Do men think "Where are all the 'good girls' "?

not really. however, we do sometimes wonder where the non-crazy ones are? or at least the ones to the left of the Vicky Mendoza Diagonal.

The BSC afflicts all women. Some less, most more.

babygirl_70

Lol...I think some men think all pretty girls are good girls

flatbellybella

I've come to the conclusion that 90% of guys don't really care what they date.
lol

avir8

not really. however, we do sometimes wonder where the non-crazy ones are? or at least the ones to the left of the Vicky Mendoza Diagonal.

haha
except that if a girl does something a guy doesn't like then your automatically labeled crazy and/or a b ****

sportytalldoll

sadly i think men these days have a similar question of "where are all the genuine, trustwrothy women?" i see so many more women that just use men whether for their money, status, job, etc....and when that runs out-you know the faithfulness will fail if it hadnt failed before the goodies disappeared.

WinnerVictorious

I've come to the conclusion that 90% of guys don't really care what they date.
lol

honestly, it depends on what stage in his life the man is.

if he's single and sowing his oats, then dating is like going to an all you can eat smorgasbord. you want to try as much as you can to see what you like, but you're not going to stop and only eat the first good thing you find on the buffet line.

by the time he's ready to settle down, a man pretty knows what he's looking for in a wife/long term relationship. that's when the screening filters start working and he starts looking for that type of woman.

so, it's not so much good vs. bad, it's "who meets the most important criteria". the difference is, we don't really sit around talking about stuff like this with each other or anybody else. we just know when we know. we don't always choose correctly though... that's why divorce lawyers make such a good living.

stinkpurty

You know how women always say Where are all the good guys...

I was wondering if men thought the same?
lol

I have wondered this myself. I have heard guys--self-acclaimed "nice guys"--complain that women only want bad boys, but these same nice guys only seem to date "bad b*tches."

That being said I do not want a "nice guy" or a "bad boy", I want a good man.

Colonel_Brandon

I've come to the conclusion that 90% of guys don't really care what they date.
lol

Oh, we care.

But being a good guy sometimes isn't good enough.

There are women out there who SAY they want a good guy... but what they really want is a bad boy.

Trust me, I know. I'm everyone's teddy bear. Nobody wants to have sex with teddy bears.

EDIT: To address your original question, yes, we do sometimes wonder that. Sometimes we are just as surprised as you when a person who looks like she's a good woman ends up not being so good. You can't really tell if someone is a good man or a good woman until you peel back a few of the layers anyway...

Colonel_Brandon

sadly i think men these days have a similar question of "where are all the genuine, trustwrothy women?" i see so many more women that just use men whether for their money, status, job, etc....and when that runs out-you know the faithfulness will fail if it hadnt failed before the goodies disappeared.

This.

hedgiie

good girls are hard to find

ToughTulip

After being around my boyfriends buddies and hearing them talk... yes.

The label many girls as stuck up *****es, teasers, sluts, etc. And other rude names. Just as we do to guys.
Some of them want a "good girl"
They just include extras like breast size and hotness LOL

PapaDunx

I've come to the conclusion that 90% of guys don't really care what they date.
lol

Im afraid to say that I disagree. We, like you ladies, want what's in our "movie". You know the movie. Where you are the hero/heroine and you have your idyllic image of what life is like and what potentials it holds.

Its the movie that has certain things in it that you crave in a relationship.
e.g. "Walking the hills, wet shaggy dog, getting caught in the rain, that long sensual kiss that says "Its ok the dog will only smell for a while when we get home"" :laugh:

But when we meet someone, they also have a movie. Then it becomes about compromise. The relationship lasts as long as the people in it are prepared to compromise.

So, yes, the majority of us single guys are wishing for "The One"
Just takes time and a lot of movie re-writes

elcyclista

You know how women always say Where are all the good guys...

I was wondering if men thought the same?
lol

All the time.

_JR_

You know how women always say Where are all the good guys...

I was wondering if men thought the same?
lol

I can generally tell if a girl is a "good girl" by how she dresses and carries herself...... although it does take a few conversations to make sure she isn't bat-sh1t crazy, or keep an icepick under her pillow! :noway:

ETA: I think age plays a big roll in this. As we get older, we want less drama and more stability; not a lot of room for "bad boys" or "bad girls" when you have a mortgage, a job, and kids to take care of.

bulbadoof

From my experience men are less critical of women than women are of men. My female friends nitpick at all their boyfriends' tiniest flaws, where my male friends just think their girlfriends are awesome. Occasionally crazy, sure, but generally they have way fewer complaints.

So in my opinion no, men don't think "where are all the good girls", because they see the good in every girl.

neverstray

Not at all. I think most women are pretty good, for the most part. The most difficult thing, believe it or not, is finding women committed to health and fitness, but that don't also think they are hot *kitten* or have a stick up their butts. At my age, all the ones I like from a personality perspective are unhealthy and don't care, the ones that are healthy and fit are stuck up so bad that you can't even say hi to them, unless you are wealthy. Lol. It's stupid. I need a down to earth fit and healthy woman. I'm simple, but it's hard to find.

It doesnt matter anymore. I've given up. I'll just die alone. I'm happy, so I don't need anyone to "complete me". Lol.

_JR_

Not at all. I think most women are pretty good, for the most part. The most difficult thing, believe it or not, is finding women committed to health and fitness, but that don't also think they are hot *kitten* or have a stick up their butts. At my age, all the ones I like from a personality perspective are unhealthy and don't care, the ones that are healthy and fit are stuck up so bad that you can't even say hi to them, unless you are wealthy. Lol. It's stupid. I need a down to earth fit and healthy woman. I'm simple, but it's hard to find.

It doesnt matter anymore. I've given up. I'll just die alone. I'm happy, so I don't need anyone to "complete me". Lol.

I agree with this. The percentage of that desirable group tend to be fairly small.... or they're all hiding somewhere.

Growtinymusclesgrow

I've come to the conclusion that 90% of guys don't really care what they date.
lol

Oh of course we do...they have to be female, human, hot and breathing!

Hahahaha, some of us are pretty picky actually!

diligentjosh

I haven't been laid in almost 2 years, so I ask a lot of things...

diligentjosh

And I am generally not too picky...

zrmac804

I can generally tell if a girl is a "good girl" by how she dresses and carries herself...... although it does take a few conversations to make sure she isn't bat-sh1t crazy, or keep an icepick under her pillow! :noway:

I'm curious - what kind of dress/carriage you would associate with a good girl vs a bad girl?

T34418l3angel

I can generally tell if a girl is a "good girl" by how she dresses and carries herself...... although it does take a few conversations to make sure she isn't bat-sh1t crazy, or keep an icepick under her pillow! :noway:

I'm curious - what kind of dress/carriage you would associate with a good girl vs a bad girl?

I am also curious to this. Because sexy =/= bad girl all the time. One can be sexy and confident and still be a complete sweet heart.

WeekndOVOXO

Maybe back when I was going through puberty and didn't know **** all about girls being as horny or hornier than men are. They just show it differently.

PapaDunx

I've come to the conclusion that 90% of guys don't really care what they date.
lol

Oh of course we do...they have to be female, human, hot and breathing!

Hahahaha, some of us are pretty picky actually!

The warmth and the breathing are negotiable, though .. right?

TylerJ76

Yes