Looking Up Past Flames On The Internet...

DamnImASexyBitch
DamnImASexyBitch Posts: 740 Member
edited January 2 in Chit-Chat
Would it bother you if your signifigant other was looking up old high school/college girlfriends/boyfriends on Facebook? My friend was venting to me last night and I'm honestly not sure how I'd feel. Ive looked up people from my past but there was no intent there to friend them. It was more like yeah dodged a bullet there. I'd think if I were in her shoes and my husband was friending old flames I'd be upset even though it's the past. Both my husband and I do currently have some exs on our pages, but it was so long ago, and they've been on there for a long time plus there is hardly any interaction with them. It's nothing new, if that even makes sense. Either way she's hurting and I feel bad for her. If it makes her uneasy, I'd hope she could communicate that with him and he would stop. So back to the question at hand... would this bother you?

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  • Briteblu
    Briteblu Posts: 71
    I agree with you.. if it was nothing then no I wouldnt be upset. Guess it depends on the situation and his reasons.
  • calichica35
    calichica35 Posts: 229 Member
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  • MariaMariaM
    MariaMariaM Posts: 1,322 Member
    It would not bother me at all because Im confident in our relationship. I know it would bother my husband and I really font understand why. Maybe because he feels insecure even if I never gave him reasons to feel this way.
  • DamnImASexyBitch
    DamnImASexyBitch Posts: 740 Member
    bumping back up to the top for more opinions.
  • ukulele2010
    ukulele2010 Posts: 126 Member
    Playing with fire - sometimes someone will get burned...
  • MaryB2
    MaryB2 Posts: 331 Member
    Playing with fire - sometimes someone will get burned...

    Exactly!
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
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  • DamnImASexyBitch
    DamnImASexyBitch Posts: 740 Member
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    Hahah <3 it!
  • magj0y
    magj0y Posts: 1,911 Member
    we grew up in different states, so it's pretty much a non-issue for me. (Husband had two girlfriends before me)

    I don't think my husband would feel the same, though.
  • trophywife24
    trophywife24 Posts: 1,472 Member
    Creeping people on FB and actually friending them are completely different. That's my POV, anyway. I've totally creeped people, isn't that what FB is for? I would never "friend" an ex, geeze.
  • Ocarina
    Ocarina Posts: 1,550 Member
    No issues between me and my husband. He gets a kick out of me finding something funny out about an ex. LOL! It's fun and harmless if you are mature about it. :)

    It's a reason why I don't have Facebook so they can't creep back at me!! :D
  • _kannnd
    _kannnd Posts: 247 Member
    It depends on your relationship and how secure you are in it. My hubby and I have been together for 12 years and married for 8.5. He has ex's on his friends list, as do I. I'm not going to tell my husband who he can and cannot be friends with. And the same goes for him telling me. We have a solid relationship so there are no worries. If you have to worry about who your SO is friending on social networking sites, then there is probably something there are some trust issues in the relationship that you need to work out.
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