Big Oops

Lisa760

Apologize properly, in person tonight. An email is weak and he deserves better. Apologize for snapping and tell him that he didn't deserve your anger especially when he was thoughtful enough to bring you medicine and breakfast. Validate it from his point of view. Your explanation for it (being upset about not losing weight) doesn't need to be part of the equation at this point. Believe me, he gets it now and I seriously doubt he'll do it again.

Make sure you're not concentrating on damage control for yourself and your feelings, as in trying to rid yourself of guilt. It's not about your guilt, it's about his feelings.

If you're lucky enough to have a next time (because that means he's trying to do something he believes is nice), graciously thank him for his thoughtfulness, tell him you're the luckiest gal in the world for having a sweet husband, and unfortunately you need to decline so you can concentrate on being a sexy goddess for him.

As far as your non-weight lose, don't sweat it girl. Today is a new day and there's great decisions to be made. Hang in there!

JacksMom12

Sex is your only answer, tell him the only blueberries you want are his.

It will make him laugh and then moan if you do it right.

This is the right answer!