Question about dreams

amberleemoore

Okay so this is random I know but I have been thinking about this for awhile now and am wondering if you guys would give your thoughts. So I sometimes look up the meaning of my dreams and such and not 100% sure I believe in all of that but sometimes they are pretty accurate. Anyways about 4 nights ago my husband woke up very upset because he had a dream that I left him. In his dream I cheated on him and we got in a fight and then I left. I also had a dream about cheating on him that very same night. In my dream we were at a family reunion and he got mad at me because I was not hurrying fast enough (not sure what it was that I was suppose to be doing) but we got in a huge fight and I went to a restaurant and met and went to a hotel with another guy.

I just think that it is very strange that we both had the same kind of dream the same night. It has not happened before. Anyways I was just looking for some thoughts on this. I know it seems strange to ask but thanks all!

1ConcreteGirl

Start here:

http://www.amazon.com/The-Interpretation-Dreams-Sigmund-Freud/dp/0380010003

thelaurameister

Dreams are amazing, in my opinion...I mean what's not amazing about subconsciously creating your own adventures?! I've heard that with enough practice you can even control how your dreams go, interesting right?! That's besides the point, though...Anyway, I don't think there's necessarily anything to worry about as far as it becoming a reality or anything. I don't know what else to tell ya, but I hope that makes you feel a bit better about it

coliema

Dreams are amazing.

I can't even begin to explain.

SeaChele77

Dreams often are opposite of real life. Like dreaming of death means someone is pregnant. Dreaming of dying often indicates change (new adventure). Etc.

So cheating doesn't mean you're going to cheat. Maybe you're craving something - try to spice things up.

You need to analyze both sides of the dream a bit more. Cheating may have been the "big" thing you remember, but all the other details play into what the dream actually means.

delilah47

I'm glad dreams are not an omen of what's to happen. I have horrible nightmares if I dream at all. I haven't had a "good" dream for decades. I keep a log of my nightmares. It's like a horror story.

dumbbanana

I think it means you should cheat on your husband.

ErB56

Sometimes daily stuff creeps into dreams. Any chance the two of you watched a movie where someone was cheating or heard about friends that were having troubles? Maybe you both had the same external trigger with a little different interpretation in your dreams.

dmpizza

Without geting mystical or silly, dreams can certainly be a response to our experiences and concerns.

It is obvious that "fidelity" needs to be discussed in your household.

ThustonHowell

What did you guys watch before bed, Indecent Proposal?

BSchoberg

Since you both had the same theme in your dreams (fight, cheat, leave) - I gotta wonder if your husband doesn't feel neglected a little and left behind while you persue a healthier you... and maybe you feel like you're leaving him behind, too?

Just my two cents...

FitBeto

I've had some strange dreams. Recently my currently prego girlfriend wasn't in it. My ex was lying in bed with my exroomate and my ex was pregnant and i was trying to convince my roommate to let me get her preg too. Jesus i am a monster.

beach_please

I think dreams are often just the feelings, desires and fears of your unconscious mind. You may not even realize things you've been thinking about until they pop up in a dream. Maybe it's something that you and your husband have been worrying about??

I wouldn't put too much stock in a dream and don't let it bother you or him. Don't read too much into it. Forget it and move on. You'll be better off.