marriage advice - 16 ways

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  • slackerwoman
    slackerwoman Posts: 261 Member
    This is all simple knowledge that everyone knows, but due to the level overall respect that continues to degrade throughout society, these things are overlooked.

    relationships are not difficult when you base them on open communication, respect, honor, and love. And when you are married, holding true to the vows you make.

    Very true. I just think we all get so caught up in our routines and our daily busyiness (yes, I meant to misspell) that we take each other for granted and forget these "little things". At least I know I am guilty. So this was a good reminder.
  • mell6355
    mell6355 Posts: 171 Member
    While on the verge of divorce with my husband, I can only wonder with a tear in my eye, if him knowing that any of these things matter would be of use, or if it has been too few or too many of these things for too long?

    Glad that I am not the only one who "needs" these things. Or that having or not having them has ruined other relationships not just mine.

    Sorry- This is a little personal
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
    Love #10 made me think of the episode of Miranda in Sex in the City.
  • slackerwoman
    slackerwoman Posts: 261 Member
    While on the verge of divorce with my husband, I can only wonder with a tear in my eye, if him knowing that any of these things matter would be of use, or if it has been too few or too many of these things for too long?

    Glad that I am not the only one who "needs" these things. Or that having or not having them has ruined other relationships not just mine.

    Sorry- This is a little personal

    So sorry you are going through that as I have been there. Is it possible that maybe its not too late? Worth a shot!
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    I'm there now... and a number of these things are so true it stings.

    There's a pile more that led to our downfall, but these little bits certainly contributed to it.

    Thank you for sharing. :)
  • littlelaura
    littlelaura Posts: 1,028 Member
    read this , its inspiring to think not just a man but both partners could apply this wisdom and let their love stay alive!
  • EatClean_WashUrNuts
    EatClean_WashUrNuts Posts: 1,590 Member
    This is all simple knowledge that everyone knows, but due to the level overall respect that continues to degrade throughout society, these things are overlooked.

    relationships are not difficult when you base them on open communication, respect, honor, and love. And when you are married, holding true to the vows you make.

    Very true. I just think we all get so caught up in our routines and our daily busyiness (yes, I meant to misspell) that we take each other for granted and forget these "little things". At least I know I am guilty. So this was a good reminder.

    Complacency runs rampant...and it all starts with respect...respect for yourself and who you are.
  • DamnImASexyBitch
    DamnImASexyBitch Posts: 740 Member
    I hate this dude's blog. He had a controversial topic awhile ago about Costco Dad.
  • AggieLu
    AggieLu Posts: 873 Member
    Great read. Thanks for sharing.
  • LizHowerton
    LizHowerton Posts: 329 Member
    Thanks for pointing out that article. It is a good one
  • ImNotThatBob
    ImNotThatBob Posts: 371 Member
    Why is it we see things so much more clearly AFTER the fact? I guess hind sight is 20/20 after all.

    Do Over, anyone?
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  • OhThatBlonde
    OhThatBlonde Posts: 98 Member
    I thought it was a good read. :flowerforyou:
  • PinkHurricane88
    PinkHurricane88 Posts: 156 Member
    This is all simple knowledge that everyone knows, but due to the level overall respect that continues to degrade throughout society, these things are overlooked.

    relationships are not difficult when you base them on open communication, respect, honor, and love. And when you are married, holding true to the vows you make.

    Couldn't agree more!!
  • sarahmaryjane
    sarahmaryjane Posts: 41 Member
    This is wonderful. Whilst reading this, I realized what a great husband I have and how blessed I am. <3