does your relationship with someone depend on...

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  • eatcleanNtraindirty
    eatcleanNtraindirty Posts: 444 Member
    totally, I have friends that I am only friends with, because I need them to take my secrets to the grave, but shhh, don't tell them that's why....... :devil:

    Like what?
  • blakejohn
    blakejohn Posts: 1,129 Member
    how many we can fit in the bed

    ^^hahaha

    still room :flowerforyou:
  • PomegranatePriestess
    PomegranatePriestess Posts: 2,455 Member
    To answer the question, no if it's just everyday crap. Yes if it involves what happens in the bathroom and bedroom.

    I can tell you right now that there is not a single person in my life who needs to be honest with me about what happens in the bathroom. In fact, I would very much appreciate it if no one ever felt the need to confide in me about that particular area, ever.
  • Louisianababy93
    Louisianababy93 Posts: 1,709 Member
    "secrets can keep you closer or it can tear you apart"
  • totally, I have friends that I am only friends with, because I need them to take my secrets to the grave, but shhh, don't tell them that's why....... :devil:

    Like what?


    lol, if I told you, I'd have to keep you, too....
  • yourenotmine
    yourenotmine Posts: 645 Member
    Not unless I'm Debra and my brother is Dexter! ;)

    Yeah!!!
  • AngryDiet
    AngryDiet Posts: 1,349 Member
    Don't all relationships depend on trust and honesty?

    No.

    Really? Care to elaborate?

    There are so many types of relationships which people have that it would be rather unlikely that every single one of them relied on those two particular traits. The odds are very much against your claim.

    Let me rephrase then: ALL Relationship should depend on Trust and Honesty. Without those two things, it is not likely that the relationship will mature and reach it's full potential.

    Your original post was trying to claim a truth. Your new post states a personal opinion.

    That's not rephrasing - that's completely changing what you wrote.

    As for your newly stated opinion, I don't agree with that either.
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
    whether or not you can keep their secret ?
    Yes.
    Every client I have.
    By law.
    Next.
  • hughtwalker
    hughtwalker Posts: 2,213 Member
    whether or not you can keep their secret ?
    Yes.
    Every client I have.
    By law.
    Next.
    and every patient of mine - it becomes a way of life that spills over into "reality" - "That which I see in the lives of men (blame Hippocrates, not me) that I should not disclose, that I will not disclose".

    If I had an intimate secret known only to a friend and subsequently discovered that it had become common knowledge then that "friendship" would automatically become an "aquaintanceship" - without mutual trust.
  • HerBravado
    HerBravado Posts: 392 Member
    Did they murder someone?

    This was going to be my question. o__o
  • serena569
    serena569 Posts: 427 Member
    I have a friendship that has run its course and now exists solely because we know too much about each other's secrets to piss the other off. Does that count?
  • wellbert
    wellbert Posts: 3,924 Member
    You eat a few people, and suddenly you're some kind of bad guy.
  • serena569
    serena569 Posts: 427 Member
    You eat a few people, and suddenly you're some kind of bad guy.

    Oh so tempting to drag this down to the gutter.
  • blakejohn
    blakejohn Posts: 1,129 Member
    You eat a few people, and suddenly you're some kind of bad guy.

    Oh so tempting to drag this down to the gutter.

    eat a few people....down in the gutter.....BAAAAAHAAAAA:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :sad: :laugh: :sad: :laugh: :sad: :laugh:
  • MellyGibson
    MellyGibson Posts: 297 Member
    Don't all relationships depend on trust and honesty?

    No.

    yeah, gimme sex and I can put up with a lot of anything...for a while.

    I would like to add to this - give me *GREAT* sex and I can put up with a lot of anything....mostly. But it has to be curl-my-toes and make-it-hard-to-walk-for-a-week great!
  • MisterGoodBar
    MisterGoodBar Posts: 157 Member
    yes
  • blakejohn
    blakejohn Posts: 1,129 Member
    Don't all relationships depend on trust and honesty?

    No.

    yeah, gimme sex and I can put up with a lot of anything...for a while.

    I would like to add to this - give me *GREAT* sex and I can put up with a lot of anything....mostly. But it has to be curl-my-toes and make-it-hard-to-walk-for-a-week great!

    I speciaize in it
  • hughtwalker
    hughtwalker Posts: 2,213 Member
    Don't all relationships depend on trust and honesty?

    No.

    yeah, gimme sex and I can put up with a lot of anything...for a while.

    I would like to add to this - give me *GREAT* sex and I can put up with a lot of anything....mostly. But it has to be curl-my-toes and make-it-hard-to-walk-for-a-week great!

    I speciaize in it
    Would that speciality be the "trust and honesty" or the *other* thing <shhhh!>?

    Anyway, that "toe-curling, can't walk for a week" could be Thrush
  • WhiskeyCity
    WhiskeyCity Posts: 711 Member
    You eat a few people, and suddenly you're some kind of bad guy.

    Oh so tempting to drag this down to the gutter.

    eat a few people....down in the gutter.....BAAAAAHAAAAA:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :sad: :laugh: :sad: :laugh: :sad: :laugh:

    Ha, ha, #metaphorefail.
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member
    Don't all relationships depend on trust and honesty?

    No.

    Really? Care to elaborate?

    There are so many types of relationships which people have that it would be rather unlikely that every single one of them relied on those two particular traits. The odds are very much against your claim.

    Let me rephrase then: ALL Relationship should depend on Trust and Honesty. Without those two things, it is not likely that the relationship will mature and reach it's full potential.

    Your original post was trying to claim a truth. Your new post states a personal opinion.

    That's not rephrasing - that's completely changing what you wrote.

    As for your newly stated opinion, I don't agree with that either.

    Somehow that does not surprise me....

    Are not all these answers based on opinion. There really is not right or wrong answer here. Is there?
  • dcurzon
    dcurzon Posts: 653 Member
    wrong, mine was fact
  • gingerjen7
    gingerjen7 Posts: 821 Member
    Just break up.
    That's what I was looking for.
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