How different would your life be if it wasn't for the weight

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I find myself wondering all the time how differently my life would have been if I had not been overweight. Don't get me wrong I have a good life but I know my weight issues have held me back a lot. Of course there are also positives as I believe my experiences of being teased/bullied has made me a better person. I have a friend who is 20 years older and she always tells me that I am very mature for my age and she compliments me on being a good listener as I genuinely seem interested. However as a negative, all my life I felt I wasn't good enough because of my weight failures which affected my confidence. I let people treat me bad because I didn't feel I was worthy enough to leave that friendship/relationship. This has changed since I lost some of the weight. How do you think your life would have been different? either negative or positive.