Wow what a way to motivate me...

hurleycutie142

so i went to the movies today... and it was a great day until the end of the movie. i was looking at the alvin and the chipmunk statues and my friend says omg you look like theadore... so i look at him and say why cause im fat? and he laughs.... hmmm well now maybe this feeling of feeling like crap will help me start my diet tomorrow...

thanks a lot a hole

Jennplus2

Jerk! I have a few of these in my life. Try to no let that get to you. :flowerforyou:

fooja

some friend you got there.......

sirCed

You need to get a new friend. If you continue to hang around people that tear you down. its all your fault and no one else

hurleycutie142

i know right... and my boyfriend is making it worse by saying o he didnt mean it well ill help you go on a diet... i cant take this anymore... i dont understand why my weight is the thought on everyones mind... and i dont understand why people take pleasure in breaking me down...

hurleycutie142

You need to get a new friend. If you continue to hang around people that tear you down. its all your fault and no one else

its my fault that he said that to me? its my fault because i knew that he was going to say that before he said it... you sound just as ignorant as he does... and i know i need knew friends but it effin sucks cause they were all i had...

sirCed

if it sounded harsh that wasn't my intention. what i mean is if you keep good company, and people around you that is going to encourage you, be honest, and correct you when you are slippin without offending you then you're doing a good thing for yourself. Your journey will be easier and a more enjoyable one. By him saying that he showed you the type of person he is. IF you enjoy that type of company then continue to have him around. Because whether he did it or does it to your face he may only do it behind your back and it get around to you and hurt you just the same. the choice is yours

xeniasimms

I think you should be 100% honest and tell your friend and boyfriend how those comments make you feel. Then if they are not supportive and uplifting, give them the boot. Sometimes people who have never had a weight issue do not understand how it feels to have someone joke about something like that. My boyfriend and friends are super supportive and even tell me that I wasbeautiful the way I was before my 30+ weight loss, but I remember a time when my boyfriend and friends at the time (in the past) where not that way and it actually sabotaged my weight loss. It's crazy but the less you have people breathing down your neck and making you feel insecure, the more you want to eat better and exercise. You deserve to feel beautiful and have those close to you tell you and make you feel that way no matter what size you are!

hurleycutie142

exactly thank you! it shouldnt matter what size i am... and i know that im big and its like im already hard on myself do i really need some stupid *kitten* guy (who is just as big as i am) calling my fat? im tired of the haters... screw them imma do this for myself and there gonna be feeling stupid when i lose my weight...

Saken

look at the bright side.
Theodore is a cute chipmunk, i would say that you look lovely