A boyfriend's role in dieting

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  • clarebrad
    clarebrad Posts: 188 Member
    hmm, i would be not happy at all. Looking at your stats and your pic i think you look pretty great, and only going out for 2 months. Really think that was rude of him and really not called for personally. Is that your puppy in your pic , stick to him or her, dogs love you just the way you are,
  • gazelleintraining
    gazelleintraining Posts: 107
    I dated a very similar dude for about the same time frame and was on my last date with him when I met my now-husband. They were like night and day. This guy sounds like a bad match for you based on what you've shared. Two months is a small sunk cost; forget about your investment in him. If you invest in the wrong guy, he will bankrupt your heart and life because you won't even be aware of better opportunities for happiness around him and you'll spin your wheels flogging yourself, trying to figure out why he doesn't like you enough. Bottom line? Red flag raised when someone you've known for two months is suggesting you drop 25 and get a boob job to make him happy. "He's just not that into you," emotionally, anyway. NEXT.
  • HeidiMightyRawr
    HeidiMightyRawr Posts: 3,343 Member
    If I had never mentioned my goals or plans, I would be pissed. There's no reason for him to bring that up.

    If I had mentioned that I would like to lose 25lbs, or had spoken about MFP and / or losing weight, I'd take it as his attempt to motivate me, and not be pissed off at all. (unless he said negative things about the way I look right now)

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