Shoving Your Body In Their Faces
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I love these stories. Not just because I can relate, or because they're funny.. but because I can feel the emotion in a lot of these posts. It also reminds me to never be that guy, because words can really scar people for a long time. Kudos for sharing with everyone.0
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WOw-Karma really took a beat down on your sister, huh? I don't blame you for feeling good in front of her!My step-mother kindly whispered in my ear when I was pregnant with twins that I was destined to be fat like my mother.
Every pound I lose feels great, especially when my daddy tells me how proud he is right in front of that b!tch!
The other is sister. I know that sounds terrible. When I gained weight after the twins and then continued to gain weight over the next 10 years, my sister was constantly telling me how gross it was to let myself get fat. She would walk up to my husband/spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend and accidentally drop things so she'd bend over in front of them. Then she got pregnant with her daughter. She had ONE child and gained 140 pounds. I had 5 children and gained the same amount of weight. Now, every time I see her she is jealous and angry over my weight loss. It feels good to remind her that I wasn't always a fat *kitten*.0 -
Ex- wife who divorced me while I was deployed....and ex girlfriend who was a lying wh**e and cheated on me multiple times
Wow. Sounds like they both need a swift kick to the naughty bits. With stilettos. :laugh:
Bahaha...couldn't agree more
I'm a military wife, and I hate how often I hear about wives cheating leaving and screwing over ($$$) their hubs while they are away. Its just awfulk. Wheres the loyalty? the self control? where is everyones since of honor, respect? Its a mess. Screw them.0 -
Ex- wife who divorced me while I was deployed....and ex girlfriend who was a lying wh**e and cheated on me multiple times
Wow. Sounds like they both need a swift kick to the naughty bits. With stilettos. :laugh:
Bahaha...couldn't agree more
I'm a military wife, and I hate how often I hear about wives cheating leaving and screwing over ($$$) their hubs while they are away. Its just awfulk. Wheres the loyalty? the self control? where is everyones since of honor, respect? Its a mess. Screw them.
I agree. I'm not a military wife, but I have so many people in my family who are either in the military or dating those who are is disgusts me hearing women who do this. I mean honestly, that man is deployed protecting your life and freedom, and you can't even stand to be loyal to him. Despicable!0 -
Ex-boyfriend who would constantly remind me if gained weight, and how I need to go shopping for baggy tshirts and bigger jeans so when we would go out no one else would be able to tell I had a bit of a belly. He's the reason I had weight issues for a while and I would go from starving myself to emotionally eating and stuffing myself! I am glad to be on the right track again and happier than ever! So stuff it!
Ironically enough he has started trying to inch his way back into my life....well eff you! I am perfectly happy with my current bf of 2 1/2 years who appreciates me for who I am anytime and all the time!!0 -
Ex- wife who divorced me while I was deployed....and ex girlfriend who was a lying wh**e and cheated on me multiple times
Wow. Sounds like they both need a swift kick to the naughty bits. With stilettos. :laugh:
Bahaha...couldn't agree more
I'm a military wife, and I hate how often I hear about wives cheating leaving and screwing over ($$$) their hubs while they are away. Its just awfulk. Wheres the loyalty? the self control? where is everyones since of honor, respect? Its a mess. Screw them.
I agree. I'm not a military wife, but I have so many people in my family who are either in the military or dating those who are is disgusts me hearing women who do this. I mean honestly, that man is deployed protecting your life and freedom, and you can't even stand to be loyal to him. Despicable!
You both are amazing, wish there was more like you out there0 -
Ex- wife who divorced me while I was deployed....and ex girlfriend who was a lying wh**e and cheated on me multiple times
Wow. Sounds like they both need a swift kick to the naughty bits. With stilettos. :laugh:
Bahaha...couldn't agree more
I'm a military wife, and I hate how often I hear about wives cheating leaving and screwing over ($$$) their hubs while they are away. Its just awfulk. Wheres the loyalty? the self control? where is everyones since of honor, respect? Its a mess. Screw them.
I agree. I'm not a military wife, but I have so many people in my family who are either in the military or dating those who are is disgusts me hearing women who do this. I mean honestly, that man is deployed protecting your life and freedom, and you can't even stand to be loyal to him. Despicable!
You both are amazing, wish there was more like you out there
Well thank you. I honestly wish more people respected those who go through such trials, and had to be away from family and friend's for so long. It's just...completely terrible to even fathom such deceit.0 -
I feel like this guy deserves recognition. Thank you for not being that guy.I love these stories. Not just because I can relate, or because they're funny.. but because I can feel the emotion in a lot of these posts. It also reminds me to never be that guy, because words can really scar people for a long time. Kudos for sharing with everyone.0 -
I honestly don't have anyone in my life that I "could shov my body in their face,"
But I don't and want to wear a bathing suit the first time. And a dress...And be healthier...0 -
my ex bf of 8 years [we just recently broke up in july, hes an ugly mother ****er (no im not saying that cause we broke up...he really is) but he'd just make certain comments about my weight even tho he had no right to] lol
and just some people from hs. or from my organization0 -
Ex- wife who divorced me while I was deployed....and ex girlfriend who was a lying wh**e and cheated on me multiple times
Wow. Sounds like they both need a swift kick to the naughty bits. With stilettos. :laugh:
Bahaha...couldn't agree more
I'm a military wife, and I hate how often I hear about wives cheating leaving and screwing over ($$$) their hubs while they are away. Its just awfulk. Wheres the loyalty? the self control? where is everyones since of honor, respect? Its a mess. Screw them.
I agree. I'm not a military wife, but I have so many people in my family who are either in the military or dating those who are is disgusts me hearing women who do this. I mean honestly, that man is deployed protecting your life and freedom, and you can't even stand to be loyal to him. Despicable!
You both are amazing, wish there was more like you out there
Well thank you. I honestly wish more people respected those who go through such trials, and had to be away from family and friend's for so long. It's just...completely terrible to even fathom such deceit.
The optimist in me takes quite a beating in regards to ppl and reality. The sad truth is character, good character, is rare indeed these days. Honor, kindness, politeness, loyalty, respect, etc. All very rare. ppl are born with self serving "what about me?" attitudes. Most of America is brats! I very very very rarely find anyone worth saying could be a " role model". That way my whole childhood, I never had anyone I idolized. I thought everyone was flawed and full of it. I was bitter. I learned to let ppl in, to be nicer, happier, helpful, hug, be kind. Mother calls me her "sunshine girl" for my hopeful optimism and constant smiling nature. But in reality, when I decide to visit reality, not much has changed, there are few to no role models out there. Ppl are a mess. An ugly mess. But it can change, if ppl would just try. Teach the next gen. Pay it forward. Something. CHANGE IS ALWAYS POSSIBLE! "BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD"
Thank you for serving our country btw!0 -
My most recent ex who informed me that even though I was "plump," some men would still find me attractive. Oh, and he also saw Britney Spears on the Jimmy Kimmel show recently and let me know that she is chubby! Just so you know, Britney is like my idol and I love her and her body is BEYOND perfect in my eyes! And he knew how much I idolize her. So when I reach my goal, I want to walk by him in a mini dress and just laugh and laugh and laugh. . . and flip him off!! :laugh:0
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I don't think I have any of that driving me, for me it's more about I used to be in such amazing shape that I want to just get back for my wife and I. When we met I was a fitness freak and I really let myself go after we got married, she was awesome about it and never made me feel less-attractive or bad about my body so she deserves to get back what she signed up for
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Ex- wife who divorced me while I was deployed....and ex girlfriend who was a lying wh**e and cheated on me multiple times
Wow. Sounds like they both need a swift kick to the naughty bits. With stilettos. :laugh:
Bahaha...couldn't agree more
I'm a military wife, and I hate how often I hear about wives cheating leaving and screwing over ($$$) their hubs while they are away. Its just awfulk. Wheres the loyalty? the self control? where is everyones since of honor, respect? Its a mess. Screw them.
I agree. I'm not a military wife, but I have so many people in my family who are either in the military or dating those who are is disgusts me hearing women who do this. I mean honestly, that man is deployed protecting your life and freedom, and you can't even stand to be loyal to him. Despicable!
You both are amazing, wish there was more like you out there
Well thank you. I honestly wish more people respected those who go through such trials, and had to be away from family and friend's for so long. It's just...completely terrible to even fathom such deceit.
The optimist in me takes quite a beating in regards to ppl and reality. The sad truth is character, good character, is rare indeed these days. Honor, kindness, politeness, loyalty, respect, etc. All very rare. ppl are born with self serving "what about me?" attitudes. Most of America is brats! I very very very rarely find anyone worth saying could be a " role model". That way my whole childhood, I never had anyone I idolized. I thought everyone was flawed and full of it. I was bitter. I learned to let ppl in, to be nicer, happier, helpful, hug, be kind. Mother calls me her "sunshine girl" for my hopeful optimism and constant smiling nature. But in reality, when I decide to visit reality, not much has changed, there are few to no role models out there. Ppl are a mess. An ugly mess. But it can change, if ppl would just try. Teach the next gen. Pay it forward. Something. CHANGE IS ALWAYS POSSIBLE! "BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD"
Thank you for serving our country btw!
Your words are incredibly inspiring! And I agree once again. People lack good, honest character. I try to be that change, to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. Both grandfathers served, and two future brother-in-laws are currently serving, as well as many cousins, aunts and uncles. I appreciate everyone.
And cannot believe I forgot to thank you too sir! Thank you so very very much! For all those who do not appreciate what you do, I truly do. Thank you once more0 -
Ex- wife who divorced me while I was deployed....and ex girlfriend who was a lying wh**e and cheated on me multiple times
Wow. Sounds like they both need a swift kick to the naughty bits. With stilettos. :laugh:
Bahaha...couldn't agree more
I'm a military wife, and I hate how often I hear about wives cheating leaving and screwing over ($$$) their hubs while they are away. Its just awfulk. Wheres the loyalty? the self control? where is everyones since of honor, respect? Its a mess. Screw them.
I agree. I'm not a military wife, but I have so many people in my family who are either in the military or dating those who are is disgusts me hearing women who do this. I mean honestly, that man is deployed protecting your life and freedom, and you can't even stand to be loyal to him. Despicable!
You both are amazing, wish there was more like you out there
Well thank you. I honestly wish more people respected those who go through such trials, and had to be away from family and friend's for so long. It's just...completely terrible to even fathom such deceit.
The optimist in me takes quite a beating in regards to ppl and reality. The sad truth is character, good character, is rare indeed these days. Honor, kindness, politeness, loyalty, respect, etc. All very rare. ppl are born with self serving "what about me?" attitudes. Most of America is brats! I very very very rarely find anyone worth saying could be a " role model". That way my whole childhood, I never had anyone I idolized. I thought everyone was flawed and full of it. I was bitter. I learned to let ppl in, to be nicer, happier, helpful, hug, be kind. Mother calls me her "sunshine girl" for my hopeful optimism and constant smiling nature. But in reality, when I decide to visit reality, not much has changed, there are few to no role models out there. Ppl are a mess. An ugly mess. But it can change, if ppl would just try. Teach the next gen. Pay it forward. Something. CHANGE IS ALWAYS POSSIBLE! "BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD"
Thank you for serving our country btw!
I Love this....and thank you!0 -
Ex- wife who divorced me while I was deployed....and ex girlfriend who was a lying wh**e and cheated on me multiple times
Wow. Sounds like they both need a swift kick to the naughty bits. With stilettos. :laugh:
Bahaha...couldn't agree more
I'm a military wife, and I hate how often I hear about wives cheating leaving and screwing over ($$$) their hubs while they are away. Its just awfulk. Wheres the loyalty? the self control? where is everyones since of honor, respect? Its a mess. Screw them.
I agree. I'm not a military wife, but I have so many people in my family who are either in the military or dating those who are is disgusts me hearing women who do this. I mean honestly, that man is deployed protecting your life and freedom, and you can't even stand to be loyal to him. Despicable!
You both are amazing, wish there was more like you out there
Well thank you. I honestly wish more people respected those who go through such trials, and had to be away from family and friend's for so long. It's just...completely terrible to even fathom such deceit.
The optimist in me takes quite a beating in regards to ppl and reality. The sad truth is character, good character, is rare indeed these days. Honor, kindness, politeness, loyalty, respect, etc. All very rare. ppl are born with self serving "what about me?" attitudes. Most of America is brats! I very very very rarely find anyone worth saying could be a " role model". That way my whole childhood, I never had anyone I idolized. I thought everyone was flawed and full of it. I was bitter. I learned to let ppl in, to be nicer, happier, helpful, hug, be kind. Mother calls me her "sunshine girl" for my hopeful optimism and constant smiling nature. But in reality, when I decide to visit reality, not much has changed, there are few to no role models out there. Ppl are a mess. An ugly mess. But it can change, if ppl would just try. Teach the next gen. Pay it forward. Something. CHANGE IS ALWAYS POSSIBLE! "BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD"
Thank you for serving our country btw!
Your words are incredibly inspiring! And I agree once again. People lack good, honest character. I try to be that change, to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. Both grandfathers served, and two future brother-in-laws are currently serving, as well as many cousins, aunts and uncles. I appreciate everyone.
And cannot believe I forgot to thank you too sir! Thank you so very very much! For all those who do not appreciate what you do, I truly do. Thank you once more
Awww thanks, y'all are far too kind0 -
No one specific but I've been overweight since around 8th grade and was made fun of a bit back then through high school because of it, which really killed my confidence. My 10 year reunion is coming up next year and if I decide to go, I'd love to be in the best shape I've ever been in, kind of as a f u to some of them0
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Ex- wife who divorced me while I was deployed....and ex girlfriend who was a lying wh**e and cheated on me multiple times
Wow. Sounds like they both need a swift kick to the naughty bits. With stilettos. :laugh:
Bahaha...couldn't agree more
I'm a military wife, and I hate how often I hear about wives cheating leaving and screwing over ($$$) their hubs while they are away. Its just awfulk. Wheres the loyalty? the self control? where is everyones since of honor, respect? Its a mess. Screw them.
I agree. I'm not a military wife, but I have so many people in my family who are either in the military or dating those who are is disgusts me hearing women who do this. I mean honestly, that man is deployed protecting your life and freedom, and you can't even stand to be loyal to him. Despicable!
You both are amazing, wish there was more like you out there
Well thank you. I honestly wish more people respected those who go through such trials, and had to be away from family and friend's for so long. It's just...completely terrible to even fathom such deceit.
The optimist in me takes quite a beating in regards to ppl and reality. The sad truth is character, good character, is rare indeed these days. Honor, kindness, politeness, loyalty, respect, etc. All very rare. ppl are born with self serving "what about me?" attitudes. Most of America is brats! I very very very rarely find anyone worth saying could be a " role model". That way my whole childhood, I never had anyone I idolized. I thought everyone was flawed and full of it. I was bitter. I learned to let ppl in, to be nicer, happier, helpful, hug, be kind. Mother calls me her "sunshine girl" for my hopeful optimism and constant smiling nature. But in reality, when I decide to visit reality, not much has changed, there are few to no role models out there. Ppl are a mess. An ugly mess. But it can change, if ppl would just try. Teach the next gen. Pay it forward. Something. CHANGE IS ALWAYS POSSIBLE! "BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD"
Thank you for serving our country btw!
Your words are incredibly inspiring! And I agree once again. People lack good, honest character. I try to be that change, to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. Both grandfathers served, and two future brother-in-laws are currently serving, as well as many cousins, aunts and uncles. I appreciate everyone.
And cannot believe I forgot to thank you too sir! Thank you so very very much! For all those who do not appreciate what you do, I truly do. Thank you once more
Awww thanks, y'all are far too kind
Nah, you deserve it!0 -
This ex "friend" of mine, who is the ex wife of one of my guy friends. She talked about everyone behind their backs and acted like the best friend of the century when she was with you. She was clueless when it came to the gym, and she was "supporting" me and coming with me to the gym, and would ask me questions but I was all about doing my own thing, and tried to tell her that she needs to find what works for her, and do that. She'd get on the treadmill or elliptical next to me and copy all of my info (speed, incline) and if I adjusted mine, she'd follow suit. She'd tell me how good I was doing to my face, but would then say stuff to her husband and other friends about "well, if Jen knows all of this stuff about diet and exercise, then how come she's still so extremely fat? She obviously doesn't know what she's doing."
Yeah... well, I found that out after they separated... and I was hurt. But I like to use it as fuel when I am struggling with my weight loss because I haven't seen her in a year or two, and if I ever do see her again (which is possible as she hangs out at the same places as we always used too, but thankfully I haven't seen her since), I can't wait to see her face when she realizes its me. muuhaaahahahahahaa!!!!!! Stupid hoe.0 -
everyone who ever called me fat I suppose. Which is a great number of people. It started in kindergarten. wth, right?
They did it because it upset me and I reacted and was helpless. Kids are cruel.
Honestly, the circumstances of my life that started my "weight loss journey" were pretty crap. But, out of the ashes (to be dramatic lol) I came to find who I really am and accept and love that person.
My ability to shove Me and my awesome in anyone's face who had an issue is a great pleasure. Not as vengeance but as a, "look what I found. Isn't it cool?"
People like that never really see things right anyway. I'm sure they all still hate no matter how I look and that is sad for them.
As for ex's. I had one ex who told me not to lose weight because he was afraid other guys would want me and I'd leave him.
Well, no one else wanted me but I left him because, damn! That was at my heaviest too! Just boggles the mind.0 -
That's rough about the military. Then again, you all have been fighting an unjustified war in Iraq and terrorizing a bunch of innocent people so....who's the real a-hole here?0
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My baby daddy and his new girlfriend!
We were together for 3 years and had a child together. I caught him texting some girl from work and when I confronted him, he left me for her. They have been together now for a year, I see him a couple times a week when he comes to pick up or drop off our daughter. His new girl friend is ALWAYS with him. I have always been overweight, but he never seemed to have a problem with it when we were together. His new girl friend is skinny. I cant wait to get to my goal weight and SHOVE my 100lbs of fat that I lose in his face!!! It really helps with my motivation...hahaha0 -
I can't wait to shove it in my PCP's face. I'm glad the man cares about my weight, it's why I chose him, but god I just can't seem to please him. I want to get under 200 lbs before I see him again.
I've been having the same problem with mine... I've been going to him for about two months now... but he's a bit of a jerk-face. Everyone else is losing it like crazy.. but I'm actually exercising instead of dieting, so it's going slower. I'm losing a lot of inches and developing more ton.. so it'll be nice to lose it and shove it in his face...
I've not seen him in a looong time.. but I'd like to shove it in my ex husband's face.. he made the comment once while we were dating that I should "feel lucky" anyone would want me looking the way I do.. I just called him a pig.. It hurt so bad.. he married a month after our divorce and lives in California.. so I'm hoping by the time he comes back home to visit again I'll be tiny....
Also any guy who I wanted to date, but they brushed me off as if I was someone who couldn't ever get a date with them or anyone...
I think this is my favorite thread so far! LOL 0 -
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I don't really have a "shove it" person, but I would love to be looking awesome the next time I saw anyone from high school.
^^^ Exactly how I feel. :happy:0
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